| | Naked pictures before meetingPage 2 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9) | | You are so right, AintNoDeal! Still I understand where she is coming from as far as the pictures being wrong to send. Yet in some cases BLOCK / DELETE can be your best friends here on POF. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2011 5:13:34 PM | | Those guys are perverts. Some guys asked to send a picture of me before and I would ask why. They would say "so I can put a face to the name..." I was like "well, you have my profile pic to look at. when you talk to me, go to the website and look at it." LOL they would back off then. I think its odd when they ask for pics of you before meeting up. I think they use the pics as bragging rights. So they can say "Hey look at this chick I smashed last night!" who knows. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2011 5:43:36 PM |
I've had women send me naked pics before without asking.I wasnt realy insulted but then again I am a guy.
Wow..that is rare I think. Been here a long time and have not had that happen.
What is funny, guys on here (although most won't admit it) would LOVE to get naked pics (the more explicit the better) of POF girls sent to them assuming they are cute, young, slim and sexy. Think about how many sites are out there that have virtual strip clubs etc. that are doing a booming business. Then on the other hand girls HATE when guys to it to them. So this has me thinking. Perhaps the guys that do this are either very dumb and think that just because THEY would like it that the girls like it. Or, they have serious mental problems.
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Posted: 11/4/2011 7:04:58 PM | After he sent this pictures this was my reply.Thank you! That was such a turn off! men like you should not be accepted on any site. EWWW! Good topic for the forums.   He never replied back and is probably reading this. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2011 9:18:48 PM | reminds me of the old joke
man #1 : "do you have any naked pictures of your wife?"
Man #2 : "absolutely not"
Man #1: "wanna buy some?" | |
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Posted: 11/4/2011 11:14:23 PM | I've had the same experience mostly via text message. I asked one guy why he sent it and he told me he was letting me get a glimpse of what could be mine. Oh lucky me! Unfortunately technology has made it easy for people to let their morals take a backseat in the guise of anonymity. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2011 12:02:31 AM | | They're just thinking of how much they'd love naked pictures of you, so they make the first move, hoping you'll reciprocate. :-) | |
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Posted: 11/5/2011 3:36:23 AM |
If you meet someone on in real life do you hand him a photo of you nude?
I don't think so.
YES! Just last week a 19 Y/O woman I work with handed me her phone...on it was a pic of her in just panties....not the first time either I also get women flashing me in public fairly often.
Also last week a roommate of a coworker walked up to me introduced herself, put her arm around me and grabbed my package...not the first time for that either...many other females have done that too...usually only on the outside of my clothes...one pulled my waistband out and went in directly, smiled and said: " MMMM I LIKE that!".....I dated her for a year!
Why on earth would someone send another person they haven't met a naked shot of them?
To get your attention!
Unless of course they only want a sexual relationship.
..Exactly!
I've had women from SN send me naked pictures...pictures with their BOB etc....all before meeting!
I have female friends who send me pics of them in lingerie or less...
I've had female friends and coworkers ask me to feel their butts or boobs for my opinion...
Some people are just not all that bunged up about their bodies or sex in general...It's not a big deal with them...it doesn't mean they necessarily want sex either... in fact it's so common, it doesn't mean a thing!
So don't just think it's men who do this...women do it too! | |
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Posted: 11/5/2011 1:58:12 PM | | Gettng nekkid pictures as a consolation prize if you decide NOT to meet would be pretty cool | |
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Posted: 11/5/2011 2:03:00 PM | I've posted this before.
But if some guy sends you pictures of his willy...
reply back...it looks much too tiny to be of interest to you.
You'll never hear from him again.
And much funner than blocking him. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2011 2:06:02 PM | Gettng nekkid pictures as a consolation prize if you decide NOT to meet would be pretty cool
Oh, we MET! | |
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Posted: 11/5/2011 6:14:05 PM |
YES! Just last week a 19 Y/O woman I work with handed me her phone...on it was a pic of her in just panties....not the first time either I also get women flashing me in public fairly often.
Also last week a roommate of a coworker walked up to me introduced herself, put her arm around me and grabbed my package...not the first time for that either...many other females have done that too...usually only on the outside of my clothes...one pulled my waistband out and went in directly, smiled and said: " MMMM I LIKE that!"
You're a bouncer at a bar in Vegas, for crying out loud...and you're bragging about the women you "get"?
If it's 19 year old co-workers...wow, claim to fame. Too young to be the hotties they put out as bartenders, so, what, you're hitting up the bussers or dish-pit gals, and bragging about that? Geez, dude. Get over yourself. Using lingo your coworkers might understand..."That's hot". NOT.
Yanno, OP, if someone were sending naked pictures on this site, and BOTH parties were only looking for a no-strings-attached intimate encounter? Sure, I'd say that was fair game I suppose. But really...someone just arbitrarily sending such a picture out, hoping for more than a brief fling? Needs to rethink their marketing strategy, IMO.
Otherwise, they run the risk of ending up like *ahem* certain Peter Pans. 
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Posted: 11/5/2011 9:21:02 PM | Also last week a roommate of a coworker walked up to me introduced herself, put her arm around me and grabbed my package...
Damm.lucky guy.
The ONLY person that grabs my package is the UPS guy after I sell something on Ebay! | |
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Posted: 11/6/2011 2:37:19 AM |
You're a bouncer at a bar in Vegas, for crying out loud...and you're bragging about the women you "get"?
If you read my profile you'd know I was still in Denver...the hostesses and cashiers can be 18.
I never said I "GET" them...if you read my whole post it was about people NOT being bunged up about sex or their bodies...AND just because they do this stuff DOESN'T mean they are interested or want sex...
READING COMPREHENSION 101!
People who take stuff out of context crack me up! ....Can you hold up your end of a discussion/disagreement on it's own merit...you gotta build straw men? | |
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Posted: 11/6/2011 5:37:12 AM | | I'm wondering, because of the way the question was worded, does it mean that some out there enjoy getting nakey pictures AFTER you meet someone?????? Honestly, with the crap that I sometimes receive, I wonder if some of these people understanding completely what they "truely" look like with the pics being taken as they are as compared to,sayyyyyyyy, a photograph taken correctly, and pleasing to the eye. As in,,,,,eye candy, WITHOUT the wrappers. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2011 6:20:39 AM |
To be honest, though, most women would find it revealing - and not in a good way - that you (a 44yo man) are delighted when other women (as young as 18?) just grab your crotch for fun.
READING COMPREHENSION DUDE!
Go back and reread what the 19 year old did...now tell me the age of the woman who grabbed me!
NOW, tell me where I said I was delighted!
I'll answer for you since you won't be capable... The 19 YO showed me a topless picture of herself, The woman who grabbed me was mid 20's.
WHAT I did say was all kinds of stuff happens and that MANY people are freer with sexuality and pictures etc. than others...to some it's no big deal!
The only ones I ever said I hooked up with were the women from SN that sent me unsolicited naked pictures before ever meeting. And the one woman who grabbed me...we dated for about a year. Nowhere did I say I've ever messed around with the 19 YO's...in fact the only time I even said anything about an 18 YO is in reference to how old they have to be in Denver to work at the club because someone said that's too young to work a club in Las Vegas.
You people pick little tiny parts and run with them don't you?....or like RED....responds to someone's straw man as if it was something I actually wrote!
The only point I was making was that women do this stuff too, it's not that uncommon and it doesn't MEAN anything!
VVV EDIT to below! Do I? Show the quote where I've done it! If I have, I'll admit it! Put Up or shut up! | |
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Posted: 11/6/2011 9:35:07 AM | | I am uncomfortable with it too on th emost brt unless the guy has a rock hard body. lol but i generally think less of a guy that pushes sending me pics | |
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Posted: 11/6/2011 9:39:20 AM | ^^^ I don't get why anyone would send them unsolicited though....regardless of the shape they're in!
That said, the women who sent them to me, did get my attention where they might not have otherwise... | |
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Posted: 11/6/2011 12:55:56 PM | Denver? Where did you work, Shotgun Willys?
JCO, you've worked with real Ho bags.
I cannot in all my years of slinging drinks in college remember one time where I wanted a guy old enough to be my Dad see me in my scivies or ever grabbing a man's package in public. What an interesting life you must lead. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2011 1:20:22 PM |
Those guys are amateurs.
If they had any real game they could see you naked in real life.
That's what I'm thinking. They know they won't see anyone naked in person unless they pay for it (and honestly they should, it would waste less time) and so they are hoping they'll get random shots from someone who agreed to meet them but they know won't like them when the meeting occurs. Heck they may even think someone who agrees to meet them will think it's OK to then ask for nude shots. *shrug* | |
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Posted: 11/6/2011 2:15:51 PM | I am reminded of the time a friend went on a date and the guy showed her a dic pic on his phone. He nonchalantly asked can I show you a picture, and she says sure thinking its a pic of his kids or something.
The way I see it (and recently had to have this conversation with my 13 yo), the kind of woman I want to date doesn't want pictures of it. Once dating, however, there may be some exchanges of various stages of nudity (not discussed with the kid). | |
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