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| Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/20/2011 10:53:59 PM | | I have never done it, but as a concept I am not against it either I would be willing to talk to my partner about it if he was interested in doing something like that, and we would come to a desiccation together, I feel that relationships are best when all parties try to be open minded. However, I would have to say that I would draw the line at being with another woman for my man. Woman just don't turn me on, and should things be turned around it does nothing for me to watch my guy with another woman rightly or wrongly. | |
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| Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/21/2011 8:23:29 PM | An ex and I had a game of introducing each other to new people. There was no jealously, we truly loved and cared about each other. We didn't watch or share. Sometimes, intimate talks about our experiences.
It's all fun and games until you ask after inviting others into your relationship to close it back up. There is no going back once this "can of worms" is opened. | |
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| Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/22/2011 6:29:35 AM | | The fun about it is that if you are man you are being teased by your wife when she has sex with someone else in front of you. She is saying "watch me having fun with someone else don't you feel so jealous? I am trying to make you jealous". | |
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Rave88
| | Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 139 | |
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| Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/23/2011 1:29:32 PM | | Yikes thats not for me and never will be and to be honest if a guy asked me to do that it would be the last time he saw me. Sex is a meaningful thing to me between two people who have feelings for each other. I dont believe that bond you have should be shared its private. | |
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| Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/23/2011 1:47:38 PM | ^^^ Some people don't use sex to bond...they bond on a deeper level and think of sex as a fun activity to share...
...And what makes everyone thinks the guy is the one who is always asking? My experience is that most swinger couples are female led.
People who are insecure about their partner leaving them because someone else pleased them more are insecure with their own performance and the bond they have. If your bond hinged solely on sex performance then it wasn't much of a bond. They also aren't up to learning from others then becoming the accumulation of the best.
VVVVV EDIT to Sexypunk girl below.......You're correct...what you give him is something that he may never find again! Unless you get totally psycho on him he's gonna stick around...maybe even more so than otherwise.
basically the more you fulfill someone's desires in one are the more they can overlook a deficiency in another. .....he probably could care less if you can't cook for example! | |
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| Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/23/2011 1:53:40 PM |
And what makes everyone thinks the guy is the one who is always asking? My experience is that most swinger couples are female led.
I'm not a swinger.. don't play one on TV either.. but I'm the one asking for the MMF/MFM in the relationship. *nods* | |
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| Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/23/2011 1:58:06 PM | You hit that on the money JCO
Im the one who likes to see him with another woman. I know it turns him on to see me with another woman as well. But I was the one who brought up bringing a 3rd into the relationship. Not him. Although I actually would of thought it would more often be the guy.
But you are right about the insecure part as well. I know i have him whipped lol. He's got it good. And the last thing I would ever be worried about is him leaving. So thats not even a concern. Does Sex make you feel closer to someone. Sure. Its called a chemical reaction. The release of oxytocin and endorphines during sex. The same thing that bonds a mother to her child.
But can some of us also just view sex as one hell of a good time. Oh heck yes! | |
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| Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/24/2011 7:32:40 AM | oh henryx, thanks for a great laugh.
I'm like most men I know, throw another set of labias into the mix and I'm likely fine with it. Try and add a penis and I become more conservative than I ever am otherwise. Call it a false sense of ownership, pride, whatever, beyond the FMF fantasy I don't want any other baloney around where I hide my own. | |
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Honcho
| | Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 146 | |
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| Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/24/2011 9:54:56 PM | | I would love to participate. I want a MMF so badly. I support it. Im open minded and i love everything sexual. and if your partner is there watching , I'd probably come ;) | |
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