|Ladies, why do I get less replies on this site?Page 2 of 2 (1, 2)|
|i know a lot has already been said on this, but i agree with the last post that a lot of it is down to the main profile pic/thumbnail|
this picture should represent you in the very best way possible
i dont think your current profile pic does that
when we select a profile picture, we create a brand for ourself like any product on a shelf or advertised on tv - that image says 'this is me'
its basically down to the fact that first impressions count
its like they reckon that for a job interview, the interviewer makes a decision on whether to employ you or not virtually before you have your bum on the seat
and people decide if they are attracted to you or not within 3 seconds, often based on things like what you are wearing, and who you are with, what your hair is like etc etc
i think there is a lot more to you than it suggests, but the truth is that ladies might not look much further and jump to incorrect conclusions based on what they see at their first impression of you
so, sorry to say but i dont think the friends you are surrounding yourself with on your profile pic are doing you any favours and are detracting visually from who i think you really are
seriously,(though they may well be really nice guys) they "look like" drunken stupid idiots on a stag night, and by making the choice to include them on your profile pic, by default you are creating a brandimage for yourself just like that...
i think you need a bit of first impression cover page re-branding so people will pick up the book and look at what is inside
|Ladies, why do I get less replies on this site?|
Posted: 11/26/2011 7:13:21 PM
|I agree with Arianna completely. You need a photo of just you, smiling or laughing, as your primary photo. I do like the ones of you hiking. The rest make you look like a party animal. You've heard it over and over again. Rather than explaining why we're all wrong, you should switch your pictures. Look at easilyamused86's photos. See how he has a great variety of interesting photos, but they are still primarily of just him (though I adore the photo of him with his dog).|