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| Let them Go (this helped me tons!)
Posted: 12/12/2011 12:03:18 PM | Hi Quiet_Girl
I am still after all of these years so upset at how my relationship was with the man I married. It's like he didn't give a hoot about me. He was a cop and if ppl were after me and him it was always they were after him. He didn't think that they were after me because I was married to him.
I eventually left him and over the years I regretted it alot. I missed him as I was told he died. He didn't die probably just wanted me to think he died so we'd be seperated. He most likely never cared about me.
I do know that after all of these years him as an officer he has never helped me as an officer. His coworkers have never helped me as officers when I needed an officer none were provided to me.
That is the part that so upsets me. He protects other women and even when I was with him he didn't protect me.
No love from a man I loved. I sound so pathetic. | |
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| Let them Go (this helped me tons!)
Posted: 12/12/2011 4:25:13 PM | No love from a man I loved. I sound so pathetic.
no you don't. You sound like all of us.
I found my exs blog today.
He pines for some chick he cheated on me with. Not me-
some chick who knew about me and dived in anyway. He
is such a stupid fcck that he wouldn't know something
good if it bit him.
I cooked and cleaned. Washed this mans
track marked underwear. Worked full time.
Know what he did? Called in sick from work
to chat on the Internet with his grade school sweetheart.
Worked 12 hours a week. Beat my jeep into the ground.
Played video games. Chain smoked. Lied to my
face. Took money we didn't have to go see her
in another state - while convincing me his sister
was in heart failure.
He was laughing at me then- but I get to laugh
at him now. I get to see his karma. It's makes me sad.
He brought it on himself.
Told me to get out of the relationship that he was
gay- so I wouldn't be mad at him. He's bi. He needs
to come out of the closet.
Lied and lied to women and men he was friends
with to garner sympathy.
What I say- fcck them. He can go pull on his dcck
now.
I get to find a man who worships me.
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| Let them Go (this helped me tons!)
Posted: 12/12/2011 4:45:24 PM | Thank You Curlygrl. and Quiet_girl for putting this post up.
I liked one of the post from one of the other ladies too. This has helped me out.
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| Let them Go (this helped me tons!)
Posted: 12/14/2011 7:51:29 AM | | I told the man who ended things then reconciled, then ended them again, then expressed a desire to reconcile, then changed his mind again and continued to express mixed feelings....if you can live without me you should. It is not easy to let go, but I'm learning that it really is that simple. | |
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| Let them Go (this helped me tons!)
Posted: 12/14/2011 11:37:12 AM | | Not a religious person by any means but it rang a lot of bells for me. I will give up chasing dreams and head full-on into reality.... Dreams almost certainly don't come true. | |
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| Let them Go (this helped me tons!)
Posted: 4/13/2012 10:07:00 AM | Thank you so much for posting this.
I am truly going through a hard time and this quote really helps me to stop
chasing after someone who doesnt want you. | |
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| Let them Go (this helped me tons!)
Posted: 4/15/2012 11:12:21 AM | | This spoke volumes to me after a breakup. He literally moved out of our home while I was working. I cannot tell you how many times I have reread "Let them go". The line about someone not being part of my destiny if they left hit me loud and clear. | |
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| Let them Go (this helped me tons!)
Posted: 4/17/2012 3:47:16 AM | | ZZZZZZZZZ could I have some syrup with all this happy sappy BS. So how did it go? "Oh please don't leave me, please, please don't, I just can't live without you." So who made this Jakes guy a bishop anyway? Sure as well wasn't the Pope. Toughen up, hold your head high and seek what you want with great conviction, don't settle and don't listen to sappy BS from some phoney, boloney alleged bishop from Texas probably soon to be arrested for God knows what. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2012 5:35:51 AM | | THANK YOU 4 POSTING THAT POEM, LET THEM GO. I FELL IN LOVE REALLY FAST WITH A GUY 8 WEEKS AGO. WONT GO INTO IT. 2 LONG STORY. N IT HURTS. HE DID NOT APPRECIATE ME N TOOK ME 4 GRANATE, SO I ENDED IT. BEEN 6 DAYS NOW SINCE I TEXT HIM. I KNOW HE WILL COME TO HIS SENSES N MISS ME. SO I WILL LET HIM ALONE.IF HE REALLY CARES FOR ME LIKE HE SAYS, HE WILL GET BACK TO ME. IF NOT LIFE GOES ON RIGHT? THX FOR THE POEM.PEACE ROSE | |
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| Let them Go (this helped me tons!)
Posted: 4/24/2012 12:35:48 AM | it's common sense and that's what so many women lose when this stuff happens. If someone doesnt' want to stay, then you let them go and move on.
You then learn how to choose a person that wont leave, and who is a better person. We are all learning, and who we choose to be with is beyond important. | |
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Posted: 4/24/2012 5:06:42 AM | | after nearly 4 months im still not over her . ive just read this and it has ,helped im a little happier now than i was but still have lots of down moments , whenever i feel like that i will read this thanks . | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 5:11:31 AM | And after you let them go....and go through all that pain...not ever really getting over them....and then they come back....what do you do then? Have faith that they "realized" that they made a mistake? Trust that they'll NOT hurt you again?
Choosing the right person in the first place is difficult. And making them earn your trust is crucial. My biggest hang up is trusting too soon, investing too soon with someone I really like...because I think that "chemistry" is
mutual. And because that chemistry was mutual...then "they must want what I want, right?" WRONG.
But I too, have walked away from others...and have hurt them...but I just couldn't stay. Maybe I am experiencing karma. | |
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