RJK
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Joined: 1/10/2006
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| What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 8/1/2007 6:19:26 PM | | I have learned that it is better to just get out and run first chance you get.I have been at this site for over two years.With nothing to show but one friend.I am pretty much done with the dating .If you want to really call it that.i have reached out and waited as well.With nothing to show for it.I am giving it until the end of August then I am done for good.I have lived this long by myself,I can live the rest of my life by myself.I guess women just don't want romance and passion any more.I don't know what they want.I am just tired of trying to show it.There lose I guess.I have so much to give,and they are al afraid of it. | |
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| What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 8/1/2007 6:21:17 PM | | It is what you do with what is left that matters. If you are passionate about life there is always going to be something you came away with that was way more than what you went in with. Einstein said it best that things just change form. We are enriched by the love we spend. | |
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| What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 8/1/2007 6:38:10 PM | | I've learned that sometimes heartbreak is a chance you have to take in loving anyone, parents, children, friends, siblings as well as lovers. I've learned that if you don't communicate honestly it's more likely to happen. I've learned that it's possible to survive and go on, even if you don't especially want to, and that it can be done with dignity and grace. Metal has to be heated to become pliable in order to bend. Maybe this is another form of annealing? | |
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| What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 8/1/2007 7:46:12 PM | RJK, after reading your message here, i checked out your profile. If I was in Wisconsin, I would have made a contact with you.
Hope you find what you are looking for, I know, it's tough. | |
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| What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 8/2/2007 6:26:54 AM | about 10 months ago the man i thought was my dream guy! the one and only the knight in shining armour left me for someone else! He told me he loved me that he couldn't imagine a world without me and that he wanted to spend his life with me! well it was all words and no real feeling! He broke me into a million pieces and made me feel so ill, so much so i locked my self away from my family and friends and didn't eat at all for 2 weeks solid! Lets just say i was on my way for a total melt down, well i suppose you could say i was already on a melt down! I loved him with all my heart and soul and really believed what he told me and honestly thought id have hin for a life time! NOT TO BE! I have now met some new and i feel a great deal for him but one thing bugs me and thats the fear of letting my self get to close! which i feel myself doing! He's told me that he loves me and said everything my ex said! I just dont know if i can ever trust what he's said! Iv been badly hurt and i dont think am able to get hurt again! next time it may just kill me!. So at the min i am just taking each and every day as it comes and what will be will be and what wont WONT!. Life is a ride and i guess we gotta keep ridin it no matter how bumpy the rail gets! just hang on and dont let go to hope and love!
One life live it i say! | |
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| What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 8/2/2007 12:02:07 PM | learned that I am better than I thought, that I deserve to be happy but that it takes work to be happy...
I have learned to be carefree and to wait to find that one... who I have found and all that good shit...
and top thing I have learned... if it don't feel right it ain't right so get the hell out! | |
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Xwing
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Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 313 | |
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Xwing
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Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 314 | |
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kbo77
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Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 316 | |
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| What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 8/3/2007 6:42:00 AM | | knowing that life goes on feels great! But when will it start going? After spending all my time on her I feel like I dont have much left for myself! Looking at everyones post has really helped! Knowing some have been married, had kids, or there parter died. Makes my lost seem easier! | |
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RJK
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Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 322 | |
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| What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 11/13/2007 5:43:54 PM | | I have learned much from haveing my heart broke. I know what types of women to avoid. I know what not to do when I find"The one"(having already found her and losing her). I know what my boundries are and too respect them, rather than to be "flexable" or have weak boundries. | |
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| What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Posted: 11/13/2007 8:52:45 PM | | That I'm too trusting and willing to believe that everyone is good. That trusting someone means letting them see into the most painful parts of my life. That I'm less apt to open up and let someone else inside, for fear of experiencing the pain of a broken heart all over again. | |
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