| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 8/28/2006 8:28:19 AM | i'm 42 and i say the whole experience thing i tend to attract younger men and maybe thats a plus but it also make you aware that being older than them you realize some have a lot of growing up to do | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 8/28/2006 9:29:35 AM | | A couple of previous responders got it just right - 'sexy' is how you act, and more importantly how you make an individual feel. Not all women or men, however old they get, grasp that 'sexy' isn't the same thing as underwear, shaking your butt, or physical appearance. All these things and others are merely clues/indicators, and nothing is more ridiculous looking than someone trying to be sexy by using tricks and props they aren't fully comfortable with. End of the day what makes women over 40 sexy is whatever they do to turn a man on, (and every man gets turned on differently.) | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 8/28/2006 9:39:42 AM | When I reach 40 which is not that far away!..I would really hope that my attitude will attract men to me...that is if I am not with someone by then! | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 8/29/2006 3:58:10 AM | Women over 40 sexy..... hell yeah they are. If the question had been "what makes women over 50 sexy" I would have had to say plastic surgery! or a lot of beer | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/4/2006 11:40:20 PM | Is it physical features or is it something else"
Yes!!! I have seen MANY women in their 40's who are incredibly beautiful physically. Gorgeous faces, fantastic figures... stunning! Do they look just like someone in their 20's - nope - but they look even better to me!
They know what grace, class, and confidence are. They know the difference between good-looking and attractive. They know that the way you treat others is the way you will be treated yourself. They are happy with themselves. and not always trying to be someone else. They can hold a GOOD conversation. (Did you know Casanova considered good conversation the best foreplay - the first step in a seduction?) They know that Sean Connery is as sexy as Brad Pitt. They know the difference between 'wanting' and 'needing'. They know how to get what they want!
I like your response musicmanpvd.....sexy is the whole package and you have the maturity to see that in a woman. Bravo
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/7/2006 7:26:07 PM | | I am having a really hard time with this topic. I'm a 49 year old lady, take care of myself, confident, fun, kind, very funny, loyal...all the stuff mentioned in this forum and yet I can't get a guy to even respond to my e-mails. I have sent probably 15 messages to guys in the last week and only two responded...wishing me luck. I find it extremely depressing and I certainly don't see any men around my area rushing to e-mail me. Why is it I read what all you guys like about a woman in her 40's and yet I feel the opposite...help!! | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/7/2006 11:14:40 PM | | women over 40 have softer more well defined features than the younger ladies. but this refining starts in the mid 30s tho | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/8/2006 7:06:52 PM | BlondeandFreckles: I took a look at your profile and you're projecting a lot of negativity you might not be aware of. I'd suggest you stop by profile reviews and have yours looked at. You might get some good ideas to help make you seem more approachable.
As far as women over 40 being sexy? Not speaking for myself, but I think women of this age for the most part are beyond the foolish concerns that occupied us so much when we were younger. Older women are not only more experienced and mature, we've also had time to think about things in a deeper way than a younger woman has. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/8/2006 7:32:42 PM | | Honestly, I believe its a combination of things. Intelligence is one thing and good genes certainly helps. There is also something to be said for confidence! | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/8/2006 9:00:14 PM | | The simple fact that she is still hot, sexy, and attractive after all this time. There are afew around here, but I ain't telling who they are. This is my secret. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/8/2006 9:23:25 PM | What makes a woman over 40 sexy is that we don't think of sexy the same way we used to. It's not about the hair, the makeup, all the stuff we used to spend all sorts of money and time on and agonize over just the right shoes....haha!! Pffttt....it's not about that at all, by 40 hopefully we've learned that. And yes, I do still enjoy getting ready to go out, but it's just different....if you aren't paying attention and time to nurture what's most beautiful about you, no clothes or makeup will compensate. If we aren't attractive being US and laughing if we get caught out in the rain our hair gets wet, and we lose a heel because our shoes are soaked....and still have fun AKKK what's the point? And yes, I have walked in with a heel in my hand, walking lopsided, soaking wet...and laughed myself silly. It's all in the attitude, don't sweat the small stuff and most of it IS the small stuff. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/9/2006 9:50:11 AM | Well said MaeFlowers :-) I remember watching Hart to Hart many years ago. I thought she was darn sexy, she was the kind of woman I wanted to marry. Now I'm that age ... :-) But I don't have his money ... :-S
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/9/2006 9:56:32 AM | The guy under 30 just joking...I don't know her granny panties?
The sexiest thing I ever saw on a man over forty was a BLUSH true story! | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/10/2006 9:20:14 AM | yeah Indi I know what you mean. i know a lady trucker and the only time I ever saw her blush was over something that was in no way related to the subject of self or sex. and I have to say it was sexy as all hell when it happened. She was then about 40 to 41. but there is so much about a lady over forty that can and is sexy. Especially legs at times.LOL
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/17/2006 4:41:39 PM | | I think it's in the way they walk and talk......confidience.Life experiences have taught them what they want in a partner and out of life.There done playing games and are straight forward and honest. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/17/2006 7:09:50 PM | | Looks don't matter if the chick is a bummer. (i.e. not type 'A' or snobby). A confident woman who takes care of herself and is happy in her own 'skin'. Good sense of humor, likes sex, upbeat attitude and just plain kewl... | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/18/2006 3:51:32 AM | Don't know if this is in here already or not. Has been passed around in email forwards for years but I love it. It is true. Beauty and sexy being synonymous to me. It makes me feel sexy to read it.
~Beauty of a Woman~
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, The figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes, Because that is the doorway to her heart, The place where love resides. The beauty of a woman Is not in a facial mole, But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, The passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman With passing years -- only grows. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/18/2006 4:19:41 AM |
...If we aren't attractive being US and laughing if we get caught out in the rain our hair gets wet, and we lose a heel because our shoes are soaked....and still have fun AKKK what's the point? And yes, I have walked in with a heel in my hand, walking lopsided, soaking wet...and laughed myself silly. It's all in the attitude, don't sweat the small stuff and most of it IS the small stuff.
Oh, that is rich! Been there done that. THANKS Bucsgirl for being so right on!
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 9/18/2006 1:22:40 PM | ~Beauty of a Woman~
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, The figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes, Because that is the doorway to her heart, The place where love resides. The beauty of a woman Is not in a facial mole, But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, The passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman With passing years -- only grows
What beautiful words for a woman over forty....... well written...... | |
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