| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 4/2/2008 4:22:30 PM | | I have daughters 19-22 who have the great bods, ect. but lack confidence. Have friends in their 30's lack confidence and self esteem. Would love to be able to give them a magic potion But perhaps the 20-40 year old men couldn't handle it. I agree with so many of the ladies comments. Sexy is knowing who you are, what you want and how you want it. Where we've been got us here. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 4/2/2008 5:52:58 PM | Ah the age old question (pardon the pun ladies)
I've been cornered with this one before - usually after she has seen a new wrinkle in the mirror during her daily inspection lol.
There are a few reasons I find older women more desirable.
First and foremost they are more mature. They do not ask the same stupid question every single day 'am I fat?'. She may ask once or once in a while 'am I looking older? " and you can actually be honest with her. Better than that, she actuallly believes you.
She knows what turns a man on, she knows what a man needs, both in life and in bed.
She has a mature look in her eyes she is emotionally stable, if she respects you, you have earned it. If she criticises you she is probably right and does it tactfully. If you criticise her tactfully she takes it to heart.
You can talk to her about anything and she has a valid opinion whether she is actually interested or not. She knows how to dress, how to put on makeup and how to move.
If you have found a mate over 40 you have found not only a mate but a real companion and a valuable friend.
A formidable pursuit and one hell of a good lay.
A woman over 40 is like ripe fruit on the vine. Not too tart or too sweet, just the way it should be, ready to be enjoyed for all it could be.  | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 4/7/2008 8:02:59 AM |
Her ATTITUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I find that sexy at any age. Combined with self-confidence and a sense of adventure, there's nothing better!
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 4/27/2008 7:41:25 PM | | I think that is funny and I am a woman over 40. Any woman who wouldn't smile at that is definitly not sexy...lol | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 8:19:54 AM | I prefer women over 40 with hairy nostrils, brown/cracked/missing teeth, who smoke so much that every possibly thing within 50 yards of them is covered in tar, and at least three children over 23.....
Kidding, Its really the confidence, and you can see IF they have it when they smile. I love it when any woman can dress sexy and know they turn heads, without boobs all over the place. A good natural look, not miss over made up corporate tramp, out for attention.
A 45 year old who dresses up in her teenagers clothing with "stuff" falling out, sitting in the corner with 2 cigarettes going and stuffing her face with free popcorn and frowning is probably not gonna get much more than used for a very mediocre rendevouz at best.
Alot of people claim they are attracted to "successful" people, define successful? Makes 100k annually? married career woman with 4 chilren and a boyfriend? A woman whos made the most of her life and is happy even though shes not wealthy and between jobs? (I bet shes the one smiling more). | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 5/3/2008 8:32:26 AM | I was talking w/friends.........I asked the guy why he was outside talking to me when all the Young women were inside .........He said because you exude sexuality......... It's a confidence issue.......... an inner beauty that exudes to the outside!!  | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 5/4/2008 4:36:29 PM | Having sex with a woman over 40 makes it sexy.
Looking like she is ready to have hot spontaneous sex makes a woman over 40 sexy. Knowing that she knows how the game is played and already dropped her panties over 10,000 times means she won't be too uptight, nervous, probably anticipating the 10001 whisk off, makes a woman over 40 sexy. Pavlov effect. She pants when you just walk in the door because she knows what is coming ( oh how punny)!
Assuming she is sexy to begin with in the first place.
That is my PoF politically correct answer.
My intellectual side ( I swear that I have one here somewhere...) says;
Hmmm, there seems to be alot of preaching to the choir here, self fulfilling generalizations, fantasies and self-fantasies, and easy women over 40, I mean sexy women over 40 here.... hehehe.
Oh I forgot, this is PoF, lot's of fun with hot air, presumptions, biases and hot 40+!
Don't all the answers mentioned apply across all age ranges??? Experience and confidence are not age dependent variables. The main subject is not age relevent - some want it to be the cause of the effect. Not.
One is sexy beacause??? Those who have it, have it. And how many 40+ have it? But didn't they always have it? If someone all of a sudden is sexy @ 40, then it must be because of marketing, extreme plastic surgery makeover and liberal use of Oil of Olay!!!???
The question should be, why do those have it, have it?
And if you are not in that percentile, no biggie for you, the world is a big wonderful place and there are lots of other things to excel at...
Sorry, my bad. Trying to expand a limited focus...
I apologize in advance should this actually force someone to think outside of their fantasy or comfort zone. Or keep their knickers in a knot. Or just simply up.
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 5/21/2008 8:54:46 AM | Hi I just wont to tell you that your response to that over 40 sexy question was very well spoke I'm a women in my 40's and it was if I was hearing myself tell my two younger female cousin that, I am also single been that way 7years now it gets lonly but,
hey i can spot a line, i have heard them all, been there done that, all of the above, please know that, you have to stay up beat and find a way to be happy, other wise, it'll
always be shame old shit again, i found intimate encouter to be a good thing, when it's over I don't have to be bother if I don't wont to. keep living you'll get there. I'm HAPPY!! | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 5/21/2008 9:13:50 AM | Usually what makes a woman over 40 sexy......will be a man over 40 that is sexy as well........... 
OT......Anyone that ages gracefully, works at staying in reasonable shape, treats their own body well, is mentally and emotionally stable, has financial stability, and sophisticated enough to gain and hold the attention of those around them, would be deemed sexy.
Just my opinion......   | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 5/22/2008 2:00:47 PM | | A great looking set of boobs (doesn't matter if they are implants), a nice set of legs with nice ankles, a nice butt and not one broad as a barn door, a great smile, eye makeup,nice eyelashes, nice earrings, high heels (until you catch the guy, then you can put on your sneakers! lol) Someone who is not a cry baby but can stand up toe to toe with you and tell it like it is. Finally the true old saying that a man wants "a whore in the bedroom but a lady in public" (all wrapped into one). | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 5/23/2008 8:56:02 AM | | the way she careys herself.some women that age are glamorus,no who they are and to me just down right sexy.some look in there 20 .some of you young girls can learn alot from theses women wow. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 11:01:49 PM | | It is definitely a level of self confidence that one may have attained ... and not being or feeling 'threatened' or 'older' (even though we are older) than the females 10 or even 20 years younger than us. I don't think it is due to physical features but to the entire attitude that we portray that exudes confidence and a sense of youth to others. I see many women over 40 who have that aura about them that is so evident and very sexy. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/7/2008 5:40:01 PM | | I like what you say about being confident and sexy at any age....And some are more obvious than others. I've basically always felt good about myself and that shows on the outside. I take care of myself, I like to stay current and I like to better myself. That has no age limit or number attached to it. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/8/2008 11:20:00 AM | | Physical beauty is still necessary, but the best part about women over 40 is that they know who they are and what they want, and don't need to pretend to be anything else. Self-confidence is the biggest aphrodisiac for me. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/8/2008 11:28:51 AM | You're never too old when it comes to matters of the heart.
"Kindness in women, not their beauteous looks, shall win my love."
Simply put, attraction may be important as a beginning factor, but personality and love of heart and soul is what truly keeps your companion. If you're beautiful but shallow and heartless, what do you truly have to offer? Beauty is fleeting, but feelings of the heart are forever young. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/9/2008 3:49:58 AM | Myself I think alot of women over 40 are sexy due to maturity,dress styles and more but I have seen some very fine ladies over 50 that are just drop dead sexy in my opinion that are not sexy due to physical looks per say but more because I fell for their inner personalities.
Sexy is not just the outside of a person but it is also that inner person who shines through that shell of the outer appearance. Anybody can be physically great looking but be the beast from hell underneath and visa versa as well.
If a person is sexy it comes from with in and that inner sexiness will shine through for those who look for it.  | |
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