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 allInkedup
Joined: 3/20/2009
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It's very simple.... "Everything"
 sandiarose
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 727
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:04:34 PM

I think it is the confidence she exudes. At that age most women have become "comfortable in thier own skin". She is not looking for reassurance from others, therefore more appealing because it seems she does not need anyone.


I am 40, and a younger man I work with not-entirely-kiddingly calls me "Sexy Mama" quite a bit. We're friendly where I work, so I don't consider it harassment. I asked him - quite seriously why he, at almost 20 years younger than me, considers me "sexy." He replied similar to the above quote. I also have platonic male friends my age who prefer to date women in our age group (not younger ones), because as they tell me, women at our age have a) been there and done that, b) are sick of game-playing and drama and c) are confident enough to know what they want and go for it.

You could not pay me to be 20 again! When I was in my 20s, I was insecure, clingy and had no idea how to live life alone. I love being 40 with all that behind me!
 dknudsen
Joined: 6/9/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:39:41 PM
A lot of LIQUOR!!!
 Mycatch22
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 729
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/23/2009 8:20:30 PM
It's all in what you wanna see. A great woman that's 40 and takes care of herself to me is the apitame of sexy..
 SORAYA0427
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 730
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/24/2009 5:11:15 PM
I AM ONE OF THOSE OVER 40 LADIES, AND RECENTLY BECAME A GRANDMOTHER (A NAME I DONT WANT TO BE CALLED) . I FEEL MUCH SEXYER NOW ,THAN ANY OTHER TIME IN MY LIFE. I AM COMFORTABLE WITH BEING A VERY SEXUAL PERSON,AND MY LIFE AT THIS POINT. I AM FREE FROM THE FEAR OF GETTING PREGNANT. OR THE CARE OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF ME.(ALWAYS RESPECTFUL OF MY FAMILY) IT COMES FROM THE UNDERSTANDING THAT LIFE IS SHORT AND IT IS MY RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE AND KEEP ME HAPPY. I FEEL FREE AND WILL TO TRY NEW THINGS , I WOULD NEVER TRYED BEFORE . I WORK HARD , BUT WHEN I PLAY, I PLAY HARDER!
 Kittenpurrs
Joined: 12/12/2007
Msg: 731
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/24/2009 6:32:30 PM
Maturity, wisdom and a no BS attitude. We are young enough to have fun and old enough to know beterr!
 edward689
Joined: 3/7/2006
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/24/2009 11:43:01 PM
class. sophistication. education. lack of pretension. a genuine laugh. a duchenne smile. style (as in wardrobe). and a nice tight bod of course :p
 irish 22175
Joined: 2/27/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/26/2009 3:31:06 PM
looks , attitude, maturity , , stabilty , ect
 tjliddell
Joined: 10/13/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/26/2009 4:36:49 PM

What makes a woman over 40 sexy is wishful thinking.




I think this is where we're supposed to say bite me :)


Or you can say..
Kiss my what.. hmmmmm yea and on my birthday to.
Well you have about X amount of months to practice.
 aitche
Joined: 12/22/2007
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/26/2009 4:49:11 PM
Gin.





H.x

A short this short can not be posted, s0d it give us a double.
 ConcreteCowboyFl
Joined: 2/23/2009
Msg: 736
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/26/2009 7:27:52 PM
Depends, NOOOOOO, I don't mean the diaper for ummm older people ,lol. It depends on my mood , etc.
 The B1G Catch
Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 737
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 3/29/2009 9:15:00 AM
Maturity seems to bring better self confidence which is something I always look for and so yes - I find that a sexy quality in a woman..
 Debbiegrl
Joined: 12/28/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/21/2009 1:57:28 PM
Tried to find your pic to see why Buc thinks you are sexy but couldn't find it. lol

Anyway, to answer the question... what makes women over 40 sexy is the same that makes men over 40 sexy.... attitude. It's the way a person carries themselves and their being comfortable in their own skin. Sexy has everything to do with attitude and very little to do with physical beauty. (In my opinion anyway)

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 mustang283
Joined: 2/2/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/21/2009 7:13:21 PM
i little small line on the face, it goes up and down, kinda diagonal, it's not a wrinkle, it's a smile line, it's right by the corner of the mouth, and it's one of the sexiest things a woman can have.....
 newmexicoleo
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 740
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/22/2009 9:40:28 AM
I am turning 40 this year,

We are experienced women....we know what we want in life and have been through what the younger ladies are going through, childbirth, heartbreak, etc.


And we give good advice too!
 _dolce__
Joined: 1/16/2009
Msg: 741
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/22/2009 11:14:08 PM
Yikes....Newmexicoleo,

I think you just killed it for the rest of us!

When looking for 'sexy'...."heartbreak, advice" and ESPECIALLY "childbirth" are the about the last images anyone wants to come up with.
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 742
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/23/2009 12:22:00 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^

Well excuse me!!!!! Who made you in charge of what everyone thinks???
 day off pilot
Joined: 12/21/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/23/2009 9:48:44 AM
Her intellect and class. Her ability to converse on a wide variety of subjects. Mostly its her self confidence that she is in control of her world.
 TallDarkPassionate
Joined: 5/13/2009
Msg: 744
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/23/2009 1:58:53 PM
Daughters in their 20's.
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/23/2009 3:30:01 PM
She knows the difference between butter and margerine.
 OneLifeTwoLive
Joined: 5/26/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/23/2009 8:21:25 PM
I'm skered to respond, almost everyone who did is hiding their identity. I think I'll pass. But, I'll say this, all I want is a sexy girl to make me a sandwich every now and then. LOL
 Fish_Boy
Joined: 5/20/2009
Msg: 747
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/23/2009 9:04:58 PM
Pretty much the same things that make women under 40 sexy....just less common.
 OneLifeTwoLive
Joined: 5/26/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 9:02:49 PM

Pretty much the same things that make women under 40 sexy....just less common.


And she can cook.
 1stevens
Joined: 12/22/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/25/2009 8:03:24 AM
Life experiences. Self confidence in knowing what they want in life. I'm 45 and proud of it!
 kmaninsandiego
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 750
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/25/2009 10:18:20 PM
They're kids are grown up (or will be soon) and they sure as hell don't want anymore (try that with a 30 year old).

They're far more interesting to talk to.
You can actually have an EQUAL relationship with them.
They are often far more self-confident and know what they want from you and life.
If they keep in shape, they're on par with me so we can do lots of physical activities together.
They've already discovered who they are. And they like that person.
Enough disposable income to do fun things WITH you (like a spontaneous trip to Cancun).
They're in a similar life phase.
I personally find them far more attractive - wow.

I have some colleagues at work in their early 30s who frequently mock how perverted guys my age are for trying to hit on them - yeah - even the girls think your disgusting.

And, of course, you only 1 or 2 Viagra to keep up with them javascript:smilie('').

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