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 1stevens

Joined: 12/22/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/25/2009 8:03:24 AM
Life experiences. Self confidence in knowing what they want in life. I'm 45 and proud of it!
 kmaninsandiego

Joined: 5/16/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/25/2009 10:18:20 PM
They're kids are grown up (or will be soon) and they sure as hell don't want anymore (try that with a 30 year old).

They're far more interesting to talk to.
You can actually have an EQUAL relationship with them.
They are often far more self-confident and know what they want from you and life.
If they keep in shape, they're on par with me so we can do lots of physical activities together.
They've already discovered who they are. And they like that person.
Enough disposable income to do fun things WITH you (like a spontaneous trip to Cancun).
They're in a similar life phase.
I personally find them far more attractive - wow.

I have some colleagues at work in their early 30s who frequently mock how perverted guys my age are for trying to hit on them - yeah - even the girls think your disgusting.

And, of course, you only 1 or 2 Viagra to keep up with them javascript:smilie('').

K
 brooklyn821

Joined: 5/20/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/25/2009 10:31:41 PM
the way she carry herself. Her confidents in herself. She can be like a fine bottle of wine the more she ages the better she can be.
 OneLifeTwoLive

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/26/2009 5:31:12 PM
Did anyone ever think to look up the dictionary explanation of the word sexy. It's amazing how many rediculous answers you can get for a question when people don't take up the extra few minutes to understand the questions.

What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Keword: SEXY.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/sexy

Funny, how most of the men are posting jokingly (my interpretation anyway, like doesn't have kids, that is funny) and the ladies are serious about what their interpretation of SEXY is. Intelligent, confident, experienced (life), independant, etc..... What the hell does that have to do with SEXY? I have yet so visualize intelligence, if you can see intelligence please let me know what it looks like. Or maybe I should get better glasses or something.

How about something like this ya'll, since I have to come around and keep it real for ya'.

- Someone who dreses well (skirts, dress, high heels, looks good in jeans, etc....)
- Smells good (nice perfume, not overpowering)
- Grooms her hair, nails, smooth skin, no mustache.
- Knows how to be a lady in public, soft spoken, speaks in a nice mellow tone, patient.
- Beautiful face (full lips, nice teeth, clean breath, long hair (clean and shiny), nice eyes, etc...)
- Classy, but not snobbish.
- Walks with good posture, knows how to sway a little (teasing when walks away), knows how and when to bust a pose.
- Physically fit, takes care of ones body, smooth and curvacious body, excercises regularly, has good muscle tone and has a healthy lifestyle, keeps weight within range of height, doesn't over indulge (food or alcohol), nice size breast with large swollen nipples poking out her blouse, great hard, rounded bubbling ass, clean shaven crotch region (smells nice too), smooth core, no large green veins in legs, nice feet (not all crusty, hard corns and shit).
- Feminine, and has emotions expected of a woman, cautiously flirtatious.
- Daring but not risky.

These are the characteristics that I think makes a mature woman really sexy, at this point in a womans life she should have certain life experiences that enables her to be a real woman, not like a teeny-bopper that may have a decent body, but has nothing else to bring to the table, and surely hasn't got a clue about her body. Sexiness is all about physical attraction, and the effort that goes into it. Now if she's sexy, and has other characteristics, well that's just adding to the overall package, but has nothing to do with sex appeal. ie - Independant, confident, decisive, etc...

Now maybe some of ya'll will be honest. Geeeezzzzz...... politically correct even when poeple don't know who you are (and in some cases face hidden), damn, why everyone so damn scared to be honest these days? The truth will set you free, just be yourself dammit.

 spicynicegirl

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/26/2009 6:09:19 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^

Wow so according to YOU I'm not sexy because I don't fit all the criteria......................yes I don't have "long" hair.................yet I think I'm pretty damn sexy....................cheers
 ariellasmom

Joined: 5/13/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/26/2009 8:46:08 PM
Hey idiot,
Intelligence, confidence, experience and independence has a lot to do with "sexy". If a woman feels sexy, she can exude sexy. DUH!
 untamedspirit009

Joined: 6/10/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/26/2009 10:46:46 PM
So many views from so many people.
What makes anyone sexy?
Their own image of themself.
 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:12:15 AM
Hey y'all, thanks for keeping this thread going.

When I started it, there were some other forums that were related it was one of those "someone should start a thread"...so I did.

Now I'm past 50...woohoo, so maybe I shouldn't even be posting to this thread.

It was all intended to be good fun, so enjoy!
 OneLifeTwoLive

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/27/2009 1:21:54 PM
Hey idiot,
Intelligence, confidence, experience and independence has a lot to do with "sexy". If a woman feels sexy, she can exude sexy. DUH!


Please, keep in mind I could respond by calling you a few derogatory things as well and believe me I have a few good ones I think you wouldn't appreciate especially in a public forum like this. So, let's keep it clean, agreed?

If you don't agree with my interpretation of the word, that equates to a vision of a sexy mature woman that's fine, however, I believe I am entitled to an opinion aren't I? Just like you are entitled to yours. Right? However, you don't know me on a personal level, so to call me an idiot would not be a fair opinion of me.

Obviously, intelligence, confidence, experienced (at what???), and independence are all great characteristics in a person, however, based on (and please read it first before you go off the deep end again) the dictionary meaning of the word "sexy", when I think sexy, I think synonymous to sex. Get it? sex-eee; Sexing, someones grey matter or someone's pocket book would be very difficult, for me anyway. But, considering you're so brilliant perhaps you could find a way to accomplish something I can't.


Wow so according to YOU I'm not sexy because I don't fit all the criteria......................yes I don't have "long" hair.................yet I think I'm pretty damn sexy....................cheers


That's just an arbitrary list and not to say women that don't have long hair aren't sexy. Please, don't take the list personal and go on the attack, if you don't fit the mold I listed. It was my way of seeing if some folks would respond honestly, visually sexy, based on my interpretation of sex-eee. Halle Berry has short hair and she's damn sexy. There are many thousands of characteristics that could have been used in the list, but seriously to try and create a list with all of them would be pointless, don't you think? So, to all you sex-eee women out there, don't freakout if you don't know how to jiggle the bubble, on your way to the washroom. Okay? :-)

 Thundercloud111

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/27/2009 1:53:26 PM
I feel sexier than I ever have before so maybe that's it. It is true that I'm not interested in getting married or having anymore children, so maybe it's the air of sex without responsibility that attracts such an unprecedented number of mama's boys and dead beats. I'm not exactly flattered. My suitors and pursuers have changed age brackets and men in hot pursuit keep getting younger as I get older. I would like someone my own age who isn't a mama's boy or a dead beat.

I don't know if it is just me or being a woman or whatnot but I have always wanted someone to talk with and be with more than anything else. I really can't talk with much older or much younger men the way that I can with someone my own age.
 Goodewitch

Joined: 6/14/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/27/2009 4:32:00 PM

Beautiful face (full lips, nice teeth, clean breath, long hair (clean and shiny), nice eyes, etc...)
- Classy, but not snobbish.
- Walks with good posture, knows how to sway a little (teasing when walks away), knows how and when to bust a pose.
- Physically fit, takes care of ones body, smooth and curvacious body, excercises regularly, has good muscle tone and has a healthy lifestyle, keeps weight within range of height, doesn't over indulge (food or alcohol), nice size breast with large swollen nipples poking out her blouse, great hard, rounded bubbling ass, clean shaven crotch region (smells nice too), smooth core, no large green veins in legs, nice feet (not all crusty, hard corns and shit).
- Feminine, and has emotions expected of a woman, cautiously flirtatious.
- Daring but not risky.


What the hell is this? A Forum post or a cringeworthy attempt at erotic writing.. turning yaself on there old chap?
Dear me, its not hard to see what your criteria are is it. Superficial man... swollen nipples poking out of her shirt? are you for freaking real? The only swollen nipples you'll see at the restraunt table are from some poor |Mother who's been breast feeding that day.
Gawd, some men need to get freakin real.
Off topic, apologies, but bloody hell, that was just spew worthy
G. x
 OneLifeTwoLive

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:22:31 PM
Aren't we all entitled to our opinion. Geeezzz..... And, can't you poor folks, just read something and have a laugh. Damn. Ya'll take this shit way too seriously. Get a life.
 kmaninsandiego

Joined: 5/16/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/27/2009 9:36:07 PM
Well, I just read OneLifeTwoLive's dictionary definition and it defines sexy as "sexually interesting or exciting"

I would note that this (or other) definitions hardly focus on physical attributes.

I personally find kidless women a big turn on. Or, rather, I find the prospect of a 6 year old walking in on us making out an incredibly un-sexy thing. Kidless (or late teens) means a weekend of uninterrupted passion and minimal drama and far more spontaneous - that's definitely turn on.

Intelligence is unquestionably a HUGE turn on for many people. For someone that's decent looking and can hold their own in a conversation over an evening or make a really funny/sarcastic joke is a very powerful turn on. In fact, I think it's a fairly powerful statement for someone to say they don't find intelligence a turn on as that reflects a pretty strong personal value. (And, of course, lots of men actively prefer really stupid girls and have little interest in an equal relationship).

Well, it's clear we're looking for very different things in our women. I think the items in your list are ok (especially the nice teeth and doesn't stink parts) and I could also make a similar list of physical attributes, but few of these apply exclusively to women over 40. To me, older women are more attractive than younger women for the reasons I listed. They are as attractive as younger women for the physical reasons you listed (except, again, my list would be quite different).

K
 JimboTheMimbo

Joined: 6/24/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:31:39 PM
Any woman that doesn't morph into a fat frumpy old lady or acts like a 20 year old, she's doing well. If she takes care of herself and carries a good conversation, that's sexy. Of course, that can apply to any age.
 LemmeRokU

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/28/2009 9:03:55 PM
musicman, ur so cool - what a brilliant definition!
 OneLifeTwoLive

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/28/2009 9:50:33 PM

The only swollen nipples you'll see at the restraunt table are from some poor |Mother who's been breast feeding that day.


Not even worth responding to, but I will anyway. If your not going to say anything with a least bit of intelligence, don't say anything at all, or wait until you sober up from those pints.

Perhaps, you should have someone proof read responses, if I were a woman in the UK I would take that as an insult. Firstly, I guess there aren't any British women with nice breast, and second, are you saying all women with children, especially the ones that breast feed are "poor mothers?"
 Goodewitch

Joined: 6/14/2009
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/29/2009 5:29:25 AM
^^^ poor mother..lost in translation.. when we in the UK say of you poor thing! We mean to express sympathy,..so poor mother in this case is me expressing some sympathy for a woman who is a mother, breastfeeding, with cracked swollen nipples and frazzled to death.
The rest of your response is not worth bothering with. You are just one more fantasy obsessed man in a sea of fantasy obsessed men.
G. x
 *Sassy Redhead*

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/29/2009 6:44:01 AM
I would say that it is confidence!
 1stevens

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/29/2009 7:17:50 AM
You talk waaaaay to much give it a rest
 bg3293

Joined: 9/29/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/29/2009 8:40:56 PM
A woman that is confident in herself
 chubbybrown

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:35:47 AM
Self Confidence; life experiences; knowing what They want,If they don't know I might as well give up ,
Oh they are happy for me to cook as well



Women over 40 have always been Hotter and thats even when I was younger
 StevieCashmere

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 7/1/2009 3:09:03 AM
Being Herself should be enough, the basics
~sc~
 hengirl99

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 7/1/2009 4:08:50 AM
perfect answer as a women at age 44 i could hardly put it better myself..well done.. and yes the bit about foreplay.. Women over 40 know that foreplay is often not secluded to any bedroom scene... foreplay can start Monday for passionate sex on Friday!! Well done!
 lucia7xo

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 7/1/2009 7:01:10 AM
I didn't know how to take your response, is he kidding? is he serious?. A woman over 40 and with money would not look at you YOU! and after reading your profile a NEEDY woman would. A DESPERATE woman...would have MORE THAN SEVERAL DRINKS to give YOU her body. I AM LOL, HONESTLY, YOU NEED TO STOP DRINKING.
 stargreekgoddess

Joined: 12/3/2008
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What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 7/1/2009 10:32:37 PM
Hmm Some food for thought...
Well being a woman in the big 4 Oh lol I would have to say our wisdom makes us more sexy! Our level of experiences would make us more interesting to talk to therefore more sexy for those who love an intelliegent woman in and out of the bedroom!! : )
Oops meant kitchen!!
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