| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 3:50:48 PM | leaflady: You took the words right out of my mouth. I knew there was a reason I liked you so much. You represent all the things you noted in your last post.  I hope you know me well enough by now to know that is simply a sincere compliment from me to you. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:04:01 PM | | sniper Well if you're not attracted to a woman who you consider sexy, you're the only male I know of that is. Sexy means appealing to the opposite sex, NOT big boobs and azz...that's another "s" word. Sexiness is not 100% the exterior it's more a confidence that you're looking your best and knowing that you're appealing and a great person. People who like themselves are sexy as hell! | |
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arri
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:12:18 PM | | I agree with bucsgirl sexyness is about confidence and being yourself and bucsgirl I find you very sexy | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:31:33 PM |
Ang....gotta love ya for that one!
Aw, Leafs...I'd love you regardless. Wish you lived closer. Between me, you, and Bucs, this town would be CRIMSON.
Sexy means appealing to the opposite sex, NOT big boobs and azz...that's another "s" word. Sexiness is not 100% the exterior it's more a confidence that you're looking your best and knowing that you're appealing and a great person. People who like themselves are sexy as hell!
Sistah Bucs...articulate and to-the-point, as usual. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:40:53 PM | | If it's about attitude, et al, then call it what it is. The question wasn't "What makes a woman over forty appear confident or display a good attitude?" | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:50:35 PM | All kidding aside...I would say attitude, and taking good care of herself.
And by attitude, I mean keeping a young, funloving attitude. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 5:01:50 PM | sniper Well then start a thread like that because you really really don't seem to understand.
OT Over forty women don't "appear" confident they are, and that's what makes them sexy. I don't even know how you "appear" confident, I thought you either were or you weren't. | |
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arri
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 5:06:28 PM | I was single in my 20s, married in my 30s and single again in my 40s and always dated women around my own age and what a wake up call to be dating again  | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 5:15:37 PM | You know, reading my own post is giving me some new insight into myself.
I said that taking care of herself (looking young?) and keeping a young attitude would make an older woman sexy.
I guess I don't like what happens to a lot of people in their later years. A lot of people become cranky, conservative, boring, and afraid of anything new.
Good grief...I think I may be prejudiced! And I'm approaching 40, so this is more problematic than it seems...
Oh dear. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 5:24:17 PM |
Good grief...I think I may be prejudiced! And I'm approaching 40, so this is more problematic than it seems...
Oh dear.
Paradigm shift, anyone?
Aw, Smith...it doesn't hurt. Honest. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 5:25:12 PM |
sniper Well then start a thread like that because....
Ma'am, there isn't anything in the world that would lead me to start a thread on this website.
As to the original question, I saw then -- and see now -- no logical reason to ask it. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 8:08:35 PM |
Ma'am, there isn't anything in the world that would lead me to start a thread on this website.
GOTTA love a man who'll call ya "Ma'am," just prior to saying something akin to "oh HELL no!"
ROFL!!
Hey, another thing about us over-40 gals...we think it's downright CHARMIN' when ya call us "Ma'am."
Okay, _I_ think it is, anyways... | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/19/2005 8:26:02 PM | .................................................All of her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/20/2005 2:32:12 PM | | What makes a woman sexy? She must first think she's sexy! Physical features do pay a major part. Basically paying attention to herself. Keeping herself well groomed. Dressing sexy in an age appropriate fashion. Maybe eating right. Exercising. The whole key to being sexy is not trying to be, but just taking good care of yourself. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/21/2005 12:07:06 PM | I'm sexy when I choose to be~ Sensual every day! Whatever age we arrive at is simply a chronological occurance. Carry yourself with a comfortable, uncontrived manner and the world takes notice I'm happy to report  (no makeup, fancy nails, etc..) Your attractiveness exudes from how content you are with yourself. All th Best~ | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/21/2005 12:29:12 PM | Montreal_guy~~~Somebody else made that comment to me not long ago... about older women being like a classic car---- It's like Motley Crue, they're not your typical "hair band"..... They're classic, and have been around about 22 years, I think... And they'll make about $100 million during their Red, White and Crue tour this year.... Amazing.... So many people made me afraid of getting old~~LOL~~It's the best thing that's happened to me in a very long time~~   ((I have to say that when I grew up I truly believe we came up with the original "grunge" idea)).... And girls today are so materialistic ((I have a 17 yo and and an 18 yo that live with me)).. I just don't get it>? I'm not saying there are not women my age who are like that. **I've been called a "bohemian"---maybe that's my problem, huh>?  | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/21/2005 2:08:06 PM | | We know what we want, and what we don't want. We have this calm, happy, secure, sense of self. Hilltopper, your post makes total sense. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/21/2005 4:11:14 PM | | live Montreal has been a dear friend and is still. I miss his posts...he always made a great contribution. Hmm...not sure what "bohemian" really means, but if it's confident and beautiful, then it fits, because that SO fits you. I've LOVED my 40's, it's been great for me, wouldn't trade it for another 20's ever. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/21/2005 5:26:38 PM | | You must be "young" bucsgirl ~~~ It's basically a "hippie, flower child-type person, I guess you could say">>>> Have you ever seen the show "Dharma and Greg?".... Dharma is what I would consider a bohemian, and I totally admire her for it>>>> I don't follow trends and it seems like when everyone else went one direction, I went the other as I was growing up... I've just always done my own thing....Although I do know when to be serious and hold down a professional job~~ | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/21/2005 8:19:10 PM | | Hey a woman in her forties is generally more relaxed about life and has already achieved enough in life to know what she wants and what feels good. If she has had successful relationships with men and not grown bitter by the failed ones then she knows that sex is part of a healthy physical relationship and looks forward to the initimacy. This type of woman is very sexy indeed since it is part of what she exudes to others. It is funny because a younger woman often doesn't have that sense of self yet and is often hurried or driven to achieve something in a relationship without letting it mature. You might liken it to a fine wine. If treated right the wine gets better with age. | |
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| What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/21/2005 8:30:45 PM | | she doesn't care if you like it or not..agrees or not...but will say her peace and let it be....doesn't care if she is sexy or not and doesn't give it a 2nd thought, unless it's for the one and only man she cares about.....she's herself in any situation and doesn't apologize for it..... just my opinion......take it or leave it......... | |
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