| | can a woman get spoiled by a BIG penis???Page 3 of 20 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20) | I spent 17 years with a good size penis, not enormo man, but very good sized...
encounters since then have been seriously lacking, because what i took for granted as being 'average size'..simply isnt so
i sure hope one can get over it because i'm failing miserably.. | |
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| can a woman get spoiled by a BIG penis???
Posted: 1/8/2012 7:01:38 PM | Everything everyone has said is true. Guys with bigger junk can get laid easier b/c girls tell their friends and their friends tell their friends...girls generally want to have this experience. There are size queens. I've heard it's because the like giving head to them more or it stretches the walls more. I've never really heard good things about exceptionally long peni though. You'll never see a lesbian use a little strap on...that should tell you something right there. I'm average, maybe a little above, maybe, I wish I was bigger, but a 9 inch guy probably wishes it were 10 inches. There is not a guy alive who would turn down another inch or some more girth. There's all kinds of factors...it builds confidence, it may look nicer, it might (but not necessarily) perform better. With all that being said avg seems to work just fine. I like a girl with a tight Vag. I'm not going to turn down an avg vag though, but too loose is definitely a turn off just like too small is gonna turn a lot of women off. Girls, learn to use your Kegals, and guys learn to use your tongue and don't be intimidated by toys. I was spoiled by a squirter once...huge huge turn on to me. She was unique, never had another one like her. I did everything to hold on to her and please her sexually.  | |
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Posted: 1/8/2012 7:17:37 PM | Yes: size matter, if a woman has a tired, old worn out, vagina that has been over utilized, and stretched beyond its elastic ability to tighten-up; Size matter if a woman enjoys stress, and pressure against her vaginal wall. Size matters if her fantasy is for something very big. Size matters if she doesn't want something big
No: size doesn't matter when desire calls, and he knows what to do to satisfy her.
Size doesn't matter if she is a lesbian; size doesn't matter if there is no desire for sex.
Size doesn't matter because the clitoris don't care about size, only the right pressure, and right MAN-ipulation. | |
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Posted: 1/8/2012 8:10:09 PM | LMAO........Can a man be spoiled by big breasts????.........
Is this penis and breast envy??????
OT......I bet most women enjoy a great guy with an average size penis, just as most me enjoy women with average size breasts......end of discussion....
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veevee
| | Joined: 2/14/2006
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| can a woman get spoiled by a BIG penis???
Posted: 1/8/2012 9:40:12 PM | Opposite here, take away my girl card. I think it can be a turn off to be too large. I had a magnum guy - it was a bit painful.
I'm one that thinks girth beats length. I have a personal thing I use for reference, if my fingers will wrap around it and barely touch it's plenty wide enough. If it gets close to touching his belly button while hard I start to consider it too long. Of course the last one you have to allow more space in between if tall. I don't want to bang a 2 liter if you get what I'm saying. Average is good enough unless you base all the actions on that single part. There's certainly more to lovers than their size but I'll admit too big is a turn off more than on for me. | |
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| can a woman get spoiled by a BIG penis???
Posted: 1/8/2012 11:24:00 PM | Well, I'd think BIG is kind of relative. So depending on what is actually big--biggest for her experiences or a percentage of the male distribution, she may not even be spoiled by another woman's standards--might not even know what spoiling is. | |
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ted61
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| can a woman get spoiled by a BIG penis???
Posted: 1/9/2012 6:29:24 AM | From a common sense point, a bigger penis would give more "stimulation" to the vagina. I've read that if a women masturbates with vibrators, etc, a real penis is a poor second. same principle.
Another example, once a man has sex with a REALLY enthusiastic woman, who has a very sensative P***y, sex is not as exciting with an "average" partner.
Yes, just as there are guys who are "premature ejaculators" who orgasam with the slightest stimulation, there are women with basically the same "problem." Lots of action and orgasams. If you're lucky, you'll meet one. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2012 6:54:30 AM | just as there are guys who are "premature ejaculators" who orgasam with the slightest stimulation, there are women with basically the same "problem." Lots of action and orgasams. If you're lucky, you'll meet one
Yes a guy can be easily spoilt by having a woman who is easily brought to orgasm multiple times. Women would probably not think premature ejaculation was a problem for a man if he stayed erect and could come in multiples. A guy could easily be spoil by a woman who could have an orgasm from carressing her breasts or from vaginal stimulation alone. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2012 8:01:26 AM | Technique, attraction, chemistry thats what it takes.
i have an average member, but that hasn't affected a womens ability to enjoy it, on the contrary there are very few women i couldn't bring to orgasm and often get ex's calling me back to give them what can not be replaced.
the majority of guys are crap in bed so this guy prob knows some tricks but your friend is probably hung up on the size thing, i've also met women who say the larger man causes them pain. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2012 8:12:14 AM | Reminds me of the story about Goldie Locks and the 3 Bears....where she says....ahhhh, this one's just right! We all have our own personal preferences but to an extent, as others have said, size does and can matter....Be it too little or too large! | |
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Posted: 1/9/2012 8:35:59 AM | I have been with the extremes in penis size, the best lover out of the whole bunch was average at best. He was inventive and made use of whatever was available to him. Making a women orgasm over and over again was a huge turn on for him so took the time to learn what worked. Yes, a larger penis can be nice but the guy can't expect his penis size to be the only thing he needs to bring to the table, or bedroom, for that matter.
I think perhaps she has gotten spoiled by not just a big penis but the combination of a larger penis and a guy with some skill. | |
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| can a woman get spoiled by a BIG penis???
Posted: 1/9/2012 10:49:34 AM |
Yes, a woman can get spoiled. Especially if he hits the g-spot perfectly.
Considering the g-spot isn't that far in, wouldn't it be easier for a small guy to hit it?
Wouldn't a big guy just pass right by it?
I'd atleast like to think i'd have a shot to please a woman with what I have. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2012 11:55:58 AM | I am no authority on this question, can only speak from experience. IMO, it has to do with physiology. If the woman vagina is located lower on the pelvis and is a large vagina, then a larger penis provides more pleasure due to leverage and length. If their vaginal opening if further up the pelvis (this classic "slit"), they an average or even smaller penis can get the job done. I have known women with small vaginas (yes they exist just like small penises) and wanted nothing to do with a large penis.
I have found that the G-spot isn't located in a consistent place and a finger tends to do a better job of servicing it, but YMMV.
Then there are women who want sex to be a total body experience and not just grinding the groins together, for them, if you know how to use it (and other parts of your body), size doesn't matter.
Finally, much of sexual gratification is in the mind and I have no doubt there are some women who find eroticism in being "violated" and a larger penis enhances that fantasy. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2012 12:06:13 PM | | I've been with men who have had BIG penises, but they didn't know how to pleasure me (filling my vagina wasn't enough). Size doesn't matter, unless it's coupled with knowhow. Some of the best sex I've had has been with men with small penises. They'd mastered the art of pleasuring with hands, tongue and penis. So, find a man who is really good at sex, not a man with just a big penis. Then true pleasure is to be had. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2012 1:01:33 PM | 
Seacatcher - So true, this is because they think they are so "blessed" that that's all it takes in their estimations, to make a woman happy. They feel they don't have to make much of an effort in any other way so don't even bother trying to learn how a woman's body really works. Give me an average sized guy with lots of knowledge of how to pleasure a woman over a well hung one any day! | |
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Posted: 1/9/2012 1:54:14 PM | I had a magnum guy - it was a bit painful.
Call me crazy, but the painful part of sex with a "magnum guy" or larger than average penis is what turns me on the most. That mixed with looking down at it while it's "doing it's job".
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Posted: 1/9/2012 3:53:10 PM | the bigger with more girth means it is going to hit more nerves which depending on said girl will make it feel better for her.
I want to know more about shape.
curved up curved left curved right curved down which works best for them. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2012 4:40:38 PM | | I see this as being true. I'm not saying that I'm a great lover, but all my ex's keep in contact with me. Too bad they don't want an actual relationship with me. Oh well. | |
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