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most guys I've been with have been very quiet, they will grunt when they cum but thats it
How would you like to be in the middle of a workout, jumping from leg to leg, with 20 lb dumbbells in each hand and someone kicks your legs from underneath you and says "uh uh, oh uh uh, you did NOT just call me that! Get off me, get out of here! I can't believe you said that! What the hell is wrong with you?! No one ever speaks to me that way!"
Better to say nothing at all than say the wrong thing, especially in the middle of sex.
Reminds me of the Seinfeld where he talked "dirty" by asking if those were the panties her mom laid out for her today and she broke up with him.
I want my man to either talk dirty right on back or atleast make some noise
Another big thing is breath. They may be insecure about breathing in your face.
Or they are worried about it coming out and sounding stupid.
Like they mean to say "ooooooh" but it comes out as "oooooooink" as they have to swallow a gasp of pleasure. Or their voice breaks and they sound like they are in high school.
Best to just focus on breathing and rhythm.
are you loud or quiet
Depends. The more passionate, the louder. The more romantic, and tender, and feely, the quieter.
what do you like from women during sex?
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| Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 1/13/2012 10:06:52 AM | I love a screamer. Now my neighbors have a different opinion, but the hell with them!
And yes, just like carptopus mentioned, I too have been kicked out of bed for saying something nasty to a woman during sex. Really weird, but life is pretty weird, isn't it? | |
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Posted: 1/13/2012 10:11:30 AM | Either I've been lucky, I choose well or a bit of both but every woman I've been with in the last ten years or so has been on the same page with me as far as dirty talk goes and no complaints here !
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| Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 1/13/2012 7:25:04 PM | | I don't talk dirty or talk much during sex, tbh. Usually,I just sigh or moan. I don't like for the guy to make a lot of noise either, luckily I've never been with one that's noisy..so it's worked out perfectly =) | |
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Posted: 1/13/2012 9:01:22 PM | | Normally if needed I prefer to either just tell my lady to get in a certain position so I can kiss a part of her body or during actual intercourse I tend to ask the question "do you like that baby?" Sometimes I have found that dirty talk can increase satisfaction and make for more pleasurable experiences. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2012 9:42:53 PM | a woman tends to fall in love with a man thru her ears..
so it would stand to reason that verbal communication while she is vulnerable and naked would be a turn on....
a HUGE turn on...
dirty talk or not... | |
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Posted: 1/13/2012 11:22:53 PM | Boon you are exactly correct.. . . Well, one fifth: taste, touch, sight, scent and hearing.
Monday night football! Better be worth my while! goal! | |
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Posted: 1/13/2012 11:26:59 PM | ^^^^believe it....
when i am w/a girl n i am NOT vocal...it is just well...
it is what it ISSSSS
YETTTT>.....>>>
when I open my mouth and verbalize things....
its like Saint Peter opening the gates of heaven... | |
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Posted: 1/14/2012 1:35:19 AM |
The problem is that most guys I've been with have been very quiet, they will grunt when they cum but thats it,
I find watching them more of a turn on to be honest and listening or feeling the natural sounds of a guy turned on.
I dont know if this is true for everyone but I want my man to either talk dirty right on back or atleast make some noise.
As long as I hear the excitement and the rapid breathing, that in itself is a turn on too.
and ladies are you loud or quiet and have you had the same problem?
I can be vocal dependent on what kind of sex I am having...I'm not the kind to shout from the roof tops baby I'm coming or do me harder. But some sounds can indicate this which are naturally driven by the act. | |
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114M3
| | Joined: 4/19/2011
Msg: 40 | |
| Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 1/14/2012 2:22:16 AM |
Being vocal or verbal during sex
.... in the words of a blonde heiress who got famous for leaking her sex tapes .... "That's HOT". .......   | |
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Posted: 2/12/2012 12:21:41 PM | Vocal, absolutely, but I'm usually too spaced to be verbal. I do love hearing dirty talk from the guy, and it's especially good when he gets to the point where he's unable to form words
Gotta love that man music. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2012 1:24:22 PM | I like dirty talk in foreplay...A lot of it is just communicating what you're comfortable with beforehand...I can get as dirty as they want, but I'm not going to risk getting kicked out of bed!- While my ego would love to tell you that I know exactly what you want when you want it and just how dirty, my magic female mind reading decoder ring doesn't always work.
If I'm about to get laid I'm not going to risk calling a girl a dirty slut in bed only to stop and have to explain the difference between being a slut, and being a slut for me is. And what if she was sexually assaulted before? I guess what I'm trying to get it at is communication is key... | |
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Posted: 2/12/2012 1:57:55 PM |
If I'm about to get laid I'm not going to risk calling a girl a dirty slut in bed only to stop and have to explain the difference between being a slut, and being a slut for me is.
Good point, newxperiment. Personally, I love dirty talk (but not overdone porn talk)--I like hearing it, and I like dishing it. But, if you wanna get into "name calling", you'd better be sure your woman likes and trusts you, and understands the language for what it is. Of course, in the heat of it, things sometimes just come out. One time I said, "C'mere, you naughty little ****!" Luckily, she took it in the proper spirit, but that could have easily gone wrong. Any talk of body parts is WAY hot with me! Women who demand "that BIG f**cking c**ck" will always score big points--even if they don't really mean it! | |
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Posted: 2/15/2012 10:47:55 AM | You would 'think' by now women would have learned that dirty talk is a really great skill to have
the ones that do it, well they stay married, the lazy lovers, are single
and whine about, how many guys 'used them'
adults need to try and be better lovers.... | |
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BMB81
| | Joined: 1/2/2012
Msg: 46 | |
| Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 2/15/2012 2:07:05 PM | | I like to talk and be loud. I've had a few lovers who were into it and it was great. Lots of guys are like, "tell me when you cum" and I mean that sometimes makes me feel like they just want to know so that they can finish. LOL | |
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Posted: 2/15/2012 2:08:23 PM | | I <3 noisy women. It drives me nuts, and makes me do whatever I'm doing, with more enthusiasm...lol | |
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Posted: 2/15/2012 2:52:53 PM | | The women I've been with were too busy climbing the walls to say anything that makes sense. I have got vocalizations but nothing a shrink could put any meaning to. I like to sing love songs if I know what ones they like but that requires putting in some non-sex time with them before hand. Otherwise I'm pretty quiet. I'm what you'd call a good listener. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2012 7:43:56 PM | Vocal is good. a gentle grunt, a moan, an "oh yeah," a quick shoutout to whatever deity..Good stuff. It helps me know what works and what doesn't, and it's a turn-on.
Dirty talk, however...Not so much. It's silly and distracting IMHO. Exhorting a woman to "suck my d*ck, baby" makes me want to spit out whatever is in my mouth at the time, put my hands on my hips, and say, "what the Hell did you think I was doing, exactly?"
I imagine it could be erotic if done well, but often, it just seems silly and contrived. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2012 11:15:32 PM | | I have a deep voice, so when i talk i like to lean down, close to her ear and tell her how good she feels. Nothing to dirty. Just some sweet sounds of pure pleasure. They usually enjoy that as much as i do. | |
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