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 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 76
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yup silent sex is kinda bad..you have to wonder if the guy has a pulse or is trying to play the hardcore silent role...atleast wiggle your toe or say dammmm in a good way..say something!!
 redsox322
Joined: 11/3/2011
Msg: 77
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Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 4/16/2012 11:50:20 AM
Im quiet if the guy is boring or if im not feeling it. Easiest way to get a guy to get off of me lol
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 78
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Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 4/16/2012 12:06:13 PM
I love the vocals..makes me know my job pleasing is correctly being done. :)
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 79
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 4/16/2012 12:10:47 PM
@ domo31

ya i can agree with that too if im bored or just not into it or the guy i have been on the silent does she still have a pulse role?? or either just get fed up an tell them never mind this anit working..
 redsox322
Joined: 11/3/2011
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Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 4/16/2012 12:58:21 PM
lols I have done that before. Im hard to please in bed ahahah
 jessrar9
Joined: 2/6/2012
Msg: 81
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 4/20/2012 9:12:26 AM
With my ex whenever I would be really into it moaning and about to cum he would keep saying "cum for me baby, cum for me baby" and would stare at me all awkward. It seriously INSTANTLY killed the mood, like shut the f*ck up man.

I can be very very vocal (with the right partner) and dirty talk is good, but I hate when I have a mouthful and have to stop to answer a stupid question.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 82
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 4/20/2012 7:24:30 PM
scream like a whore and than turn around and bend over LOL
love being loud.
course more often than not, gotta be quiet :(
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 83
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 12:14:53 AM
Ok no guy has came right out and said this but, and maybe I'm just in a bad mood tonight, but if we show are emotions we're to over zealeous, or comming on to strong and then women say " oh I need space" and if we keep our emotions to ourselves we're feelingless...... Women are the ones holding the double edge sword, I'd rather keep quiet and keep getting some.
 kcomfort0001
Joined: 12/22/2010
Msg: 84
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Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 12:57:26 AM
Here's a question has someone "being to vocal" Killed the mood for anyone?

I've literally heard some shit where I was just wanting to laugh.. Like wtf are you serious?
 CatfishBlitz
Joined: 4/27/2012
Msg: 85
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 6:40:24 AM
I love all that when a woman does that,I as well get into it and join in on being vocal with her.........
 gtr1025
Joined: 3/5/2010
Msg: 86
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Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 9:25:52 AM
Lots of sexy noises and some dirty talk is ALWAYS good from both!
 Primemover34
Joined: 11/21/2009
Msg: 87
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Posted: 5/10/2012 9:38:13 AM
OP, your third pic is hilarious! I love it.

Obviously all guys are different. If I'm quiet and slow, it's because I'm concentrating on the feeling so I can cum. I'm vocal, fast, and dirty when I'm more interested in making it fun rather than orgasm.

Guess I have bi-polar sex, lol.
 echo_
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 88
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 10:26:39 AM
hmm I've always matched how vocal my 'SO' was from a quiet ex that spasmed occasionally but had more in comman with a fish all the way up to the ex that wanted to be a 'really bad girl' involving all sorts of fuun and games ;p.
 HitchHykr01
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 89
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Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 2:19:19 PM
I had sex with this girl who kept repeating "Do you like it?.....yes?" over and over and over....it was a complete turn off which lead to a longer session which I wanted to end quickly....
 mary_jane1963
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 90
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 3:10:35 PM

one guy did whisper in my ear that i belonged to him and that just made me melt!

Works for me... *swoon*
 Mfforal3
Joined: 4/25/2010
Msg: 91
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 3:29:32 PM
Hell yes!!... I'm very vocal!! When I'm plowing my wife I pull out the kareoke machine and sing "Strokin' " by Clarence Carter at the top of my lungs!....Always ends up with a phone call from the neighbors...geesh!

Cheers!
 kayliecat
Joined: 12/8/2007
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Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 3:37:27 PM
I am vocal and I will say "cum for me baby"... I like my partner to be vocal too. BUT I don't like him to say "cum for me"...instantly kills it. Why? It hink it's the pressure... Or it's just that it makes me pay attention to my orgasm. LOL I tend to not do well when I try to think during sex. Nope, not good. But guys don't see to have that problem...I guess we are just wired differently!

ANd quiet guy during sex? NO WAY! DOn't like that at all!

Wow am I picky...call me Ms. High-Maintenance!
 NYQT4U
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 93
uring sex Message: OP: I don't have problems with sex. I talk to my lovers about what we want all th
Posted: 5/10/2012 8:10:22 PM
I agree 100% I talk about all my likes and dislikes sexually before anything goes down.
 Rob3444
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 94
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 8:42:44 PM
This is a common kink. The only way to fix it is to practice talking dirty to each other and he has to know what you kind of stuff you want to hear. Then do it while getting down. Let me know if any coaching is required.
 onewayoranuther
Joined: 3/21/2011
Msg: 95
uring sex Message: OP: I don't have problems with sex. I talk to my lovers about what we want all th
Posted: 5/10/2012 9:16:31 PM
Yea, quiet doesn't work for me. I can do that alone.

I want to feel the heat of his breath and hear the sound of his voice. Tell me it feels good. Tell me what you like. Tell me you like what you are doing to me. Tell me that you like the way I taste. Tell me you like the way I feel. Ask me if I like it. Ask me f I want it.

Ask me and tell me...talk to me.
 marie2107
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 96
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 11:32:37 PM
[Ok no guy has came right out and said this but, and maybe I'm just in a bad mood tonight, but if we show are emotions we're to over zealeous, or comming on to strong and then women say " oh I need space" and if we keep our emotions to ourselves we're feelingless...... Women are the ones holding the double edge sword, I'd rather keep quiet and keep getting some.]

Something weird is going on if she is telling you "I need space" in the middle of sex or even as a result of you being verbal during sex.
What are you saying? "I love you?" I mean you should be able to make noise and say her name without fear of her leaving you. I'm sure she would love some positive feedback, as has been exampled in these thread responses.
 marie2107
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 97
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/10/2012 11:36:59 PM
[Here's a question has someone "being to vocal" Killed the mood for anyone?

I've literally heard some shit where I was just wanting to laugh.. Like wtf are you serious?]

Okay kcomfort001, examples please. We love to laugh out loud on here.

I, like a previous poster, cannot stand it when I have already cum two or three times and then the guy wants to force out an orgasms with hard fu**ing and saying "cum for me" over and over again. Am I just an ego boost? Don't you want me to be relaxed enough to enjoy the sex. I do not have any desire to be a national landmark (geyser). I just want to have a good time and cum when it comes natural.

But yes being loud and verbal make sex so much better. I love getting feedback and encouraging moans and words!!!! Don't enjoy being in a spot where we have to be quiet. Such a pain to put that pillow over my face! :)
 Eros_realm
Joined: 5/7/2012
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Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/11/2012 1:24:31 AM
I like very vocal ladies and ladies that talk dirty and like dirty talk. Most woman I have known prefer vocal.
 CountryCowgirl9
Joined: 12/19/2011
Msg: 99
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/11/2012 3:09:27 AM
all this time I thought I was a good lay, and I'm quiet as a mouse
unless you make me holler a bit...

I always thought it was rude to fake it, apparently guys don't care as long as you're screaming..

i talk with my
walls...
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 100
Being vocal or verbal during sex
Posted: 5/18/2012 10:38:52 PM
Marie 2107: There's only 3 responses I say back to women when they twist or take out of context what I'm trying to say. Ok, mmm-hmmm, sure.
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