| | I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?Page 3 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | Ok I replied on this before but I just re-read it...........
When answering please refrain from using defamatory words about the both of us
OP if you had taken the time to do a thread search you would see this subject has been done before here and the answers are usually the same. You came here looking for opinions on your situation so you don't get to dictate what the opinions will be.
OT:
1. Again ........Don't shit where you eat
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2. Once a cheater always a cheater...........
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/17/2012 8:24:57 PM | Bang her. Bang other women (just like she tells you to do and trust me she's banging at least her boyfriend in addition to you). Then when you find another woman you want a relationship with drop the coworker. But right now eat your cake and have it, too.
And, oh, don't be surprised if her boyfriend shoots you if he ever finds out. | |
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/18/2012 10:02:48 AM | #1 just stop it.....
#2 your both just playing games
just maybe you like this relationship because it gets you off the hook from a real relationship ... but you still have someone to have sex with and not feel so lonely
but you don't have to make any commitments.....
no man that really loves a woman will share her .... just don't happen ...
hope this makes sense
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Posted: 2/20/2012 12:12:09 AM |
But that still doesn't solely justify her actions with me. Perhaps there's something else...
Would you consider cheating justifiable if the situation were reversed?
Are you hoping that there is "something else" in order to justify your behaviour?
Are you feeling a little uncomfortable with your own behaviour, but are overriding that with your desires?
Are you behaving like a demanding child, pushing the boundaries with a tantrum for sweets, even though you know its not time?
I can understand how someone may only have the courage to leave an abusive relationship by running into the arms of another and if someone started throwing things in temper, I'd be out of there quicker than Linford Christie. However, from that which you describe, she doesn't sound like a woman who is too frightened and intimidated to make changes in her life.
If people want a negotiated, open relationship that's their business, but cheating relies upon deception and the abuse of another person's right to honesty and the truth.
“There is only one sin. and that is theft... when you tell a lie, you steal someones right to the truth.”
“But better to be hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie.” ― Khaled Hosseini, The Kite Runner | |
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/20/2012 7:12:22 AM |
need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Ah, probably an old thread with the OP gone. Well still, that kind of stuff makes me laugh, people never change, nor learn...
You begin a relationship by being with someone who cheats...and you expect the same not to happen again? I would NEVER date this girl. Wouldnt even be screwing her. She wants to cheat cool with her, I wouldnt caught in that type of relationship for the life of me. I'd rather run for the hills, than have the same thing happen to me in 1-2 years when she gets bored again. The "where were you two years ago" line, will probably end up being ushered agqain to someone else.... | |
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/25/2012 7:54:14 PM |  Im not even going to bother reading a thing... If you are supporting her decision to cheat, it's wrong in other way and you should stop! You are thinking with "other" body parts and are not even considering who you are hurting in the process. I wouldn't even consider her for a serious relationship after I knew she cheated on her boyfriend so I can't even say stop until she is honest with him and breaks it off. She already screwed up! Good luck with that one! | |
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/26/2012 10:24:53 PM | | DUDE this day and age if he or she in this case its SHE is willing to be open and sleep with you while living with her man ans sleeping with him. She will cheat on you all the relastionship if she ends it with this man. Come on your the other man and you are allowing yourself to be. You know she is taken. where do you think her heart is? Do you think love can be formed out of this and you could trust her? You need to move on and before you do give yourself a little brake to be fully single and meet a lady with class and some respect for herself. Dont date taken ladies your heart will just be crushed! Good luck! | |
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/27/2012 7:50:11 AM | i think you need to take your sexual escapades to the next level with her.
awesome sex is the way to a woman's brain and if you can provide massive pounding, jackhammering, body slapping climax's for her like she's never known before i think she'll dump her boyfriend and then you will take the first position as official boyfriend. | |
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/27/2012 8:40:43 AM | | You are just setting yourself up for failure. She will cheat on you just like she is cheating on her current boyfreind. You had also better be carefull about him because this is how people get their asses beat. And you know what , you deserve it if he does find out. You dont mess with another mans woman EVER! | |
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/27/2012 8:56:43 AM |
i think you need to take your sexual escapades to the next level with her.
awesome sex is the way to a woman's brain and if you can provide massive pounding, jackhammering, body slapping climax's for her like she's never known before i think she'll dump her boyfriend and then you will take the first position as official boyfriend.
Until someone new comes along then he will be the "official boyfriend" while you will be the chump.
OP: This woman has already demonstrated her level of loyalty and integrity. She's not going to change. If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you. | |
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/27/2012 10:59:36 AM | You broke the first rule of being the other guy. You got feelings for her. Now, you have to sacrifice all that hot sex and move on. It's the only thing you can do.
In the future, if you're going to be with a woman who has a boyfriend, check your heart at the door. She's not now, nor will she be ever, girlfriend material. Keep those types at arms length. Have your fun and move on. If you can't run with the big dogs, stay your azz on the porch.
There is one other option, you could just not get into those types of situations from the get go. So ... | |
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| I need advice on what to do with a girl I'm sleeping with....which has a boyfriend?
Posted: 2/27/2012 11:52:41 AM | By telling you to see other women she's telling you that she doesn't want to get emotionally involved with you and suggesting you do the same. Listen to her. No risk means emotionally detached. You are making it complicated means she sees it as just sex.
You are just filling a hole for her. No pun intended.
I don't know if you believe in Karma guy, but one day this will come back to haunt you. Maybe some guy will sneak in a have an affair with your woman. If that happens you come back and tell us how you feel. | |
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