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 northwildwoodnjman1969
Joined: 9/24/2011
Msg: 26
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Means to me that I want to get more dates. More on the lines of a starting of as friends over dinner or a movie and see where it goes.
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 27
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Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/20/2012 3:31:34 PM
It means they will insist on wearing pancake makeup and a red rubber nose at all times, and they will always arrive to pick you up, driving a 1970 Fiat 500, with at least ten other guys in it.
 Discordiaa
Joined: 5/27/2009
Msg: 28
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Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/21/2012 11:07:47 AM
Oh. Since mine says that, I'm assuming I'm a whore, that only wants a piece from any guy that happens to look my way? Duly noted then.

Jeez, thought it meant I just wanted to date....hangout, do stuff but not have the pressure of locking into a forever and ever thing.
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 29
Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/21/2012 6:36:17 PM
It means, if thats in your profile...DON'T MESSAGE ME!!!!
 forumfish1967
Joined: 6/13/2007
Msg: 30
Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/21/2012 6:54:53 PM
I don't think you can suss out what that means until you have a conversation about that specific statement at the appropriate time.

Drop down menus are limiting and so is not having many words.

I am a big fan of more words.

I don't know if anyone is 100% committed to any intentions when they are first connecting. I have seen one night stands turn into something long-term and long-term relationships blow up after years. I don't think any of the people intended this on their first date.
 Pablo_Pueblo
Joined: 9/18/2011
Msg: 31
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Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/22/2012 9:36:08 AM
Its subjective at best. You may be able to ascertain the meaning or "intent" by whats said in their profile, or not. When in doubt why not just ask? I have that setting because I don't put the cart before the horse, so to speak.

Dont assume that it "always" means something superficial.

Carlito
 kailania
Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 32
Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/23/2012 10:30:31 PM
I always thought it meant that the person didnt want to get serious.
I try not to write to anyone who has that on their profile.
But this thread has me re thinking.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 33
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Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/25/2012 8:42:34 AM
Free dinners and no sex, ok maybe occasional sex
 Revilors
Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 34
Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/25/2012 12:15:24 PM

Free dinners and no sex, ok maybe occasional sex


Are you kidding? She buys me dinner....I'm puttin' out!

This subject is far from a new one. As with every subject when it comes to the mandatory and/or prescribed drop down answers...it is subjective.

Unless/until you have a conversation with them...you don't know jack.

Do I want kids, am I willing to embrace your kids, do I want to adopt? Do I want to be friends or date before I decide if I'm interested in a LTR with YOU or do I want a bowling partner?

You can close your objective mind to these subjective questions...but that's your prerogative.
 Couldjustbethe1
Joined: 1/15/2012
Msg: 35
Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/27/2012 1:40:05 AM
Depends on if you are a guy or a girl.
Date but nothing serious to a girl means they would like to go out on dates with A guy see how it goes but not in any rush for wedding bells living together that sort of thing.
Date but nothing serious to a guy means just up for a shag to sleep around with as many people as possible.
This is where the internet dating lets us down we are different species and what women write or say is read completely differently by men.
 TraveliciousGuy
Joined: 9/17/2011
Msg: 36
Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/27/2012 12:22:46 PM
On the dating "ladder", it's one rung above "hang out".

 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 37
Date.....but nothing serious.....
Posted: 1/27/2012 8:11:32 PM
To me it means: "lets date, hang out, have fun; and see what happens".

I'm not crossing off sex, but that's not a top priority either. (Well, to be honest,, its always up there; but ISNT all I would think about you and I doing)

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