| | Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?Page 2 of 5 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5) | | One is dead and the other is locked up due to being bi-polar, the few guys I was seeing before I wouldn't go back to cause the more I found out about them the more I recognized that what we had at that time wasn't enough for either of us or we would have tried to work it out. One contacts me all the time but I caught him in bed with another woman so there is no way I would go back to someone like that...he said he had only been divorced for 3 years and just wasn't ready to be so deeply involved...yet the woman he has been seeing since then doesn't realize he is still on pof and oftens sends me messages...so the leopard didnt change his spots. | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/6/2012 12:13:05 AM | It would depend on many things. How much time had past, Ponder why we broke up, if things in our lives were better now. I cannot say for certain. Too many what evers.
Reruns are tough. Left overs too.  | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/6/2012 12:38:25 AM | Out of all my ex's there is ONE that has a maybe stamped on him.
And he is dancing around me in the now sense.
I put him soundly in the friend zone and I am watching his moves.
I know.. and he knows it will NOT work between us..
But.. i Miss him! | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/6/2012 5:00:30 AM | | I find my ex and I are better as friends. We raised children and will always have a connection. I do believe he knows that he made a mistake. One that I was willing to forgive. I know understand divorce has made me a stronger, self sufficent person. I do regret that he felt he could find happiness elsewhere and he wonders now why it didn"t work out. Sometimes you don't appreciate what you have until it is gone. Took a long time for the grown sons to accept his behavior. But I understand boredom. I didn't feel risking our retirement, future plans and 30 year marriage was worth being with an unfaithful woman. Ironically he continues to fly 1500 miles a year to visit. But as for a reuniting, its not in the cards. | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/6/2012 6:07:42 PM | I wouldn't ever go back do an ex. If I cared about them and they cared about me that much - not sure how we would be "ex"'s in the first place. I might still care but the reason they are ex's is because someone (or both) decided to go on in life without the other. Once that happens I don't see how either can ever go back and have it work out.
Just my opinion of course.. | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/6/2012 6:18:28 PM | | Pure Sentiment,name fits you well.But this seems an unhealthy thought process.Mostly I think I would momentarily consider a bullet in the head to going back.The road is ahead. | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/6/2012 8:25:27 PM | Only one of them. My first boyfriend.
Such a great guy & I was such a pain in his arse.
20+, a stoopid age when it comes to emotions and love.
I would want to see him again, mostly to apologize.
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/7/2012 3:17:46 AM | Only as an act of compassion such as in sickness or bad health... I keep thinking about "The hottest places in Hell are reserved for those who in time of moral crisis preserve their neutrality."
Iz scared.... | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/7/2012 10:40:44 AM | | I guess with most folks is the reason they are an EX? If you are the problem then you might want back to try and right the wrong you committed. If that is the case I doubt they want you back. | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/8/2012 9:41:45 AM | | kinda similar topic, got an ex who wont let go I love him to bits and he knows this he wasn't that into me, so I finished it after 8 months 13 months down the line he wont let go, phone calls, texts, visits goes into a flap when I ignore him ... Why ? | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/8/2012 6:33:50 PM | I have gone back to an ex that I kept bumping into..very uncanny .. each time we would see each other for a couple of weeks then it would end..then a few months later we'd bump into each other again ..this went on for a couple of years...
Was very weird how we kept bumping into each other in and out of town in the most obscure places.
Thankfully we havent seen each other a while now and I hope whatever magnet their was that brought us together so many times have vanished. | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/8/2012 7:12:05 PM | OP:
It really depends on the ex...
I still care for my ex's and pray for their happiness but my ex husband is gay, so no. My college boyfriend was engaged to another woman at the same time he was engaged to me, so no, my ex-fiance chased skirt and took my money, so probably not and two of my ex-boyfriends are dead now so definitely not.
But the man I am seeing now was someone I initally broke up with...he thought it was ok to ask an ex for a second chance and we are as happy as can be.  | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 2/9/2012 7:39:23 PM | | Five years ago I would have said yes. I wouldn't now, the trust was destroyed and to much hurt. We can talk at times but that's it. I would like the $900.00 I'm owed though. | |
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| Would you go back to an Ex you really cared about?
Posted: 5/5/2012 7:35:57 AM | | I was wondering when this subject would come up. Were it not for the fact she is Bi-Polar, yes i would with no doubts but it was for that reason i had to get out. After being there for her for 20+yrs. During the last yr. or so, it was like she turned on me. I was dealing with verbal abuse regularly & just trying to stay out of her way. Our Daughter was 19 she moved out 3 months before i did. | |
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