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| | Why is he so cruelPage 3 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | ^^^IirishguyI, perhaps they have forgotten how to feel.
OK this was my first guess:
..She's only right on one thing here, he isn't worth your time. He did most likely get back with the ex...my guess is she has been the one texting you...these texts are the things jealous women say...most men have absolutely no clue what to say that really hurts a woman...the model stuff, the ambitious stuff, calling you fat- those are woman insults...if he wanted to insult you he would say "you were a ****, that's it"..
Guess #2 is that when someone with brain damage drinks heavily or takes drugs they can turn into complete azzholes likes this.
#3 Other mental illness.
Sorry for your pain. The best way to get over it is to cry and feel your feelings, don't resist or stuff them. Good luck! | |
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| Why is he so cruel
Posted: 3/13/2012 7:15:10 AM |
And maybe you shouldn't judge people negatively, until you know the whole story bordorfox. Try to understand how she feels in the matter.
I don't think you understand the nature of a direct question, "Why is he so cruel" is a direct question in a open discussion thread, therefore you will get answers whether you like or dislike those answers is the pinnacle choice of the author of the thread. We all have different views and opinions and you will not like everyone's, but that's why we're all unique and why polls and questions require these difference of opinions, can't have all the same answers..
You say we know nothing yet you know it all? Just because someones answer is not yours doesn't mean it's wrong whether it's positive or negative. It's people like you who sugarcoat negative trying to make life look right, giving false hopes of positive so negative hits them like a brick wall. People need negativity and positivity in their life, it's how we learn right from wrong and good and bad and evolve.
She's learned a valuable lesson and we can only hope she has learned from it and move on. | |
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Posted: 3/13/2012 8:08:00 AM | | Im not gonna blow this out of proportion, im just wasting my time, its like talking to a brick wall. Its called SUPPORT, and she doesn't need people like you telling her how wrong she is and pointing out all the mistakes she is making. I never once said i know it all, so stop making ridiculous accusations! You are wrong for making her feel bad... plain and simple, any psychologist will tell you that just makes the situation even worse. There are ways to tell someone they made a mistake without rubbing their face in it. Its people like you that make others think its okay to judge someone without realizing what harmful effects they can have on the person. In my opinion i think you just dont have anything better to do, so your just trying to make someone feel bad without any consideration for how she feels. If she wanted your direct opinion she would ask for it. Lets just say she made a mistake and let it go | |
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| Why is he so cruel
Posted: 3/13/2012 2:13:39 PM |
Im not gonna blow this out of proportion, im just wasting my time, its like talking to a brick wall. Its called SUPPORT, and she doesn't need people like you telling her how wrong she is and pointing out all the mistakes she is making. I never once said i know it all, so stop making ridiculous accusations! You are wrong for making her feel bad... plain and simple, any psychologist will tell you that just makes the situation even worse. There are ways to tell someone they made a mistake without rubbing their face in it. Its people like you that make others think its okay to judge someone without realizing what harmful effects they can have on the person. In my opinion i think you just dont have anything better to do, so your just trying to make someone feel bad without any consideration for how she feels. If she wanted your direct opinion she would ask for it. Lets just say she made a mistake and let it go
If people don't tell her she was wrong then she will never learn from her mistake, this is a dating site not a relationship support site, get over yourself. You keep telling us we don't know the real story which is you telling us we don't know what happened which is typically you trying to tell us we don't know as much as you, I'm sure as an American you can understand that logic or should i type it in simplified English for you 
I'm sure she will learn from her mistakes by bottling it all in, because that's worked so well in the past /s
God help any couple that gets you as a guidance counselor.
Anyways, I'll leave you to to sugarcoat reality sitcom boy.
- The "real" Irish guy | |
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Posted: 3/13/2012 6:15:26 PM | | Haha what a freakin loser ^^^ You just dont get it and im not wasting my breath any longer on someone clearly as ignorant as you. You have no compassion whatsoever, im sure you will be on this dating site for years to come. Good luck Bordorline loser | |
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