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 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
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I especially enjoy it when children point at my steed and ask their parents what it is, it gets me right off.


For some reason i'm taking this as sarcasm...

I'll just take it at that.

 kornbeep
Joined: 3/4/2012
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Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 3/28/2012 1:38:17 PM

He showed me a tiny lace nighty which was waist length and I thought it was for me
You don't mind asking what kind of underwear is it? regular? thong? Please don't mistaken me as a pervert. Also, I'm just surprise he can put that underwear on. Guy's thigh are pretty huge especially if hes stocky build.I'm looking at your profile and you look pretty slim. I bet he was crying when he tried putting your underwear.
 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
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Posted: 3/28/2012 3:24:04 PM

Well it's morning here and surprised to find 3 pages on this while I was sleeping. :)


If this has bothered you so much that you needed to bring this up two years past..you may want to seek professional help.


Please read my opening post again.......I moved on years ago.

It seems so far that its fairly well accepted. Thats fine but just not for me.

To quickly elaborate, the relationship ended over other issues aswell, not just him wearing my underwear. I kept my post brief and to the point. His "Macho" build wasn't particularly attractive to me. I mentioned it to create an image of this man in his little nightie. I was sexually turned off.

Thanks everyone for responding so far to my questions.
 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
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Posted: 3/28/2012 3:33:24 PM

I'm just surprise he can put that underwear on. Guy's thigh are pretty huge especially if hes stocky build


It was a tight fit for sure....and the image of him wearing no underwear and a waist length nightie.......oh dear Lord....

I can laugh about it now. He looked so rediculous.
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
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Posted: 3/28/2012 5:13:08 PM
Man in a kilt...wonderful.

Man in a lacy waistlength nighty? I would probably bust a couple of ribs laughing.

As for Mr "keen cross-dresser"- you have just given out way more information than any of us cared to have. If you are trying to be funny-it ALMOST works. If you are serious, maybe you need to get some help.

Now, while I am not sure I could be in a relationship with a cross-dresser, I do have to say I admire a man who is a good female impersonator for entertainment purposes-that takes a certain amount of talent,and while it's definitely an ODD gift-it IS a gift(of sorts).

Cindy O
 00_000_0000
Joined: 12/27/2011
Msg: 56
Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 3/28/2012 5:20:18 PM
i've never personally been with anyone who has this fetish, at least not that i know of, but i would be put off and probably very turned off. i would just find it weird. there are other people who have this fetish thought so he's not alone
 ChancesRMD
Joined: 4/11/2009
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Posted: 3/28/2012 5:29:26 PM

It was a tight fit for sure....and the image of him wearing no underwear and a waist length nightie.......oh dear Lord....


That did it. The straw that broke the camels back. I just got the vision.

Anyone know any good therapists?
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 58
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Posted: 3/28/2012 6:00:51 PM
I stole my sons boxers...and yes I did wear them, I washed them of course...
They were comfortable.

Knickers? I keep seeing that word? Panties?
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 59
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Posted: 3/28/2012 6:01:48 PM
You don't mind asking what kind of underwear is it? regular? thong? Please don't mistaken me as a pervert. Also, I'm just surprise he can put that underwear on. Guy's thigh are pretty huge especially if hes stocky build.I'm looking at your profile and you look pretty slim. I bet he was crying when he tried putting your underwear.


Lol....I was wondering how he got into her underwear...???
 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
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Posted: 3/28/2012 6:16:13 PM

Lol....I was wondering how he got into her underwear...???


LOL. Like I said, a tight fit, for sure. Mostly he wore them in the shower to stretch them. They were stretched alright and some ripped. I was pissed off.

He never bought me any new ones and complained when I wasn't wearing anything nice.
 Meems919
Joined: 2/16/2012
Msg: 61
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Posted: 3/28/2012 6:18:22 PM
[He never bought me any new ones and complained when I wasn't wearing anything nice. /]

Rude! The least he could have done is take you shopping!
 GurugiGets
Joined: 6/1/2012
Msg: 62
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:50:13 PM
I once wore a new pair of silk boxers to work and got a promotion the same day. When I got home that evening, the wife objected and removed them from my body.
 onlydateIF
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 63
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Posted: 7/1/2012 11:13:10 PM
I can't imagine a guy small enough to fit in mine,(nor would I date someone that small) but yes, I'd also be totally shocked by that!
 kmac6
Joined: 1/20/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2012 11:37:10 PM
Are you all kidding.... I love the sight of a man in the whole tights and corset getup...It is play after all. Tim Curry as Dr Frankenfurter in the Rocky Horror Show has me ogling every time I watch it.

I have had a man put on my undies over his jeans and parade around outside. I nearly split my sides laughing it was that funny. He is 6'2" and very much the typical bikie looking bloke.
 StephanieE272
Joined: 5/6/2012
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Posted: 7/2/2012 9:48:17 AM
OMg yes... he is def a weirdo for sure...sex issues...omg you did the right thing sister...lol I cant take it anymore lol
 tampasmiles
Joined: 11/12/2010
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Posted: 7/2/2012 9:59:44 AM
I really don't see the big problem...it would have been appropriate for him to buy you some nice lingerie first...and then wear those rather than rummaging through your drawers to find something he liked.

Clothes are clothes...I've seen many outfits women wear that aren't appropriate in any situation...but hey...it's their choice.

As far as the fetish...anyone who gets off has some type of fetish...why judge..unless it affects you.
 SassyLassyNC
Joined: 2/23/2012
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Posted: 7/2/2012 1:44:18 PM
I like wearing mens boxers, so much so that I own a few pairs of my own, I don't think that counts as cross dressing though. As for a guy putting on my undies, not my cup of tea, and just the idea that he can fit in my undies might induce crying.
 diemex
Joined: 4/7/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2012 1:54:23 PM
Personally.... I think thats a bit ceepy. But to each their own... the only issue I see is that he did not ask permission before hand... I think its pretty rude to go rummaging around someone elses things without permission.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2012 1:55:40 PM

What are your thoughts on this? Would you ladies have been revolted too? Do you guys think its okay and to be accepted?

My last "significant" relationship was with a man who was exceptionally diverse in his thinking, his sexual interests, etc., etc. He was always appearing in unusual/odd things. Once in a while frilly underthings, sometimes latex masks, some times ~ just strolling around nude. Sometimes he'd appear in a lab coat and doctor garb. (He was not a doctor, rather a college professor.) I never really knew what to expect or not to expect with him. That? I LOVED about him. He was so unique and diverse. Did it bother me that he sometimes wore frilly underthings? Not in the least. He was such an alpha male, yet so not for very brief periods of time. I loved the diversity which he brought with him. Wish I could find someone similar in personality to him. I truly do miss the unusual-ness. JMO
 Blueyes4youbabe
Joined: 11/19/2009
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Posted: 7/2/2012 2:57:56 PM
Who knows what makes different people tick. I guess it is what makes the world interesting and not boring. There are many mind blowing fetishes out there too. Welcome to the world of humanity there my dear.
 purfectmeow
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 71
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Posted: 7/2/2012 3:01:52 PM
Blah blah blah he wore your panties; he could have been wearing the neighbors husbands.
Then you might have a gripe if you werent into that kind of thing.
 avalava
Joined: 5/31/2012
Msg: 72
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Posted: 7/2/2012 3:02:32 PM


Or is that something so deeply taboo that nobody even knows about it yet?


I think in general men have more fetish for women. I never met a woman turned on from particular strange things, like feet. Can you imagine a woman having a feet by her face and touching herself?



I get an extra kick walking around in public with it, I especially enjoy it when children point at my steed and ask their parents what it is, it gets me right off.


Extreme attention seeker. If you get turn on by the children and not by their attention I suggest you go to the kitchen, cut your hard erection and shovel it up your ass together with your cars and your money.



Everytime I masterbate I make sure to ejaculate INSIDE the dress, it feels so freeing and good.

Perfect reason to insist that in that case he would wear his own clothes.

BTW..



But a guy who displays feminine traits? Nope. No takers.


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Did it bother me that he sometimes wore frilly underthings? Not in the least. He was such an alpha male


Join the sentence together.

Would a completely straight woman that does not fancy woman or trans be turned on from a man dressed like a lady? No. It is the same from men actually. You are thinking about a completely naked girl wearing a long top, maybe bending over a bit showing a bit of ass, but nobody would be turned on by a girl dressed like a mechanic, and I am not talking about calendar pose, I am talking about a gross woman mechanic. Not so appealing.

Women aren't attracted by men with a feminine side cause they are often passive in bed. If you are passive find a dominant woman, she won't mind your feminine side and 'dominate' you. If you are not, show a woman that if she can get over the stiletto you can give her the best time in her life. It is not rocket science.

I can't believe I am giving advice to someone double of my ages...
 foxonatrain
Joined: 6/9/2010
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Posted: 7/2/2012 3:09:14 PM
I wouldn't mind if a girl I was dating wore men's underwear, I'd probably mind if they were mine and if this somehow got her off because... well that shit's just weird. I guess this is a probably one of those problems gay couples never have to deal with.
 theforumfiend
Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 7/2/2012 3:38:02 PM
I've read that lots of men started wearing women's underwear as children. The forbidden made it exciting for them. Most never tell for fear of being judged. It wouldn't surprise me if some of the men protesting in here have wore women's under garments.
 Iona_Bob
Joined: 3/31/2012
Msg: 75
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Posted: 7/2/2012 4:50:40 PM
Would a completely straight woman that does not fancy woman or trans be turned on from a man dressed like a lady? No. It is the same from men actually. You are thinking about a completely naked girl wearing a long top, maybe bending over a bit showing a bit of ass, but nobody would be turned on by a girl dressed like a mechanic, and I am not talking about calendar pose, I am talking about a gross woman mechanic. Not so appealing.

Women aren't attracted by men with a feminine side cause they are often passive in bed. If you are passive find a dominant woman, she won't mind your feminine side and 'dominate' you. If you are not, show a woman that if she can get over the stiletto you can give her the best time in her life. It is not rocket science.

I can't believe I am giving advice to someone double of my ages...


Oh, thanks, avalava. It's all so well-defined and clear to me now!
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