| | Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!Page 4 of 8 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8) | | Meh wouldn't bother me. It's only clothes. I wear pants, so I guess I dress in drag too. I do draw the line at borrowing my tampons though. He's going to have to fend for himself. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2012 5:05:17 PM | What a judgmental lot.
So what??? He was wearing women's underwear. You should have been honored that he shared his deepest, darkest secret with you. As you stated that no one else knew this about him. He obviously felt comfortable enough with you to show you and share with you. If there were other issues, that is one thing, but to get all weird because he liked to wear silky nice things? Big deal. I'd rather have a guy that is honest with me than a big ol' macho guy that lies through his teeth. All in priorities I guess. geesh! | |
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Posted: 7/2/2012 5:45:24 PM | | If I loved the guy, I would have rolled with it. If your living with him, I would assume you loved him. In fact I would have bought him some lingere that fits better. lol Who cares what he is wearing. Its the same person in the cl0thes. Who knows 500 years from now this could be the latest fad. lol Love should be unconditional. I am quite sure everything about me is perfect. Everyone has their quirks. Life would be soo boring if everyone was the same! | |
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Posted: 7/2/2012 6:33:55 PM |
Would a completely straight woman that does not fancy woman or trans be turned on from a man dressed like a lady? No.
How do you know what turns on ALL completely straight women?
It is the same from men actually. You are thinking about a completely naked girl wearing a long top, maybe bending over a bit showing a bit of ass, but nobody would be turned on by a girl dressed like a mechanic, and I am not talking about calendar pose, I am talking about a gross woman mechanic. Not so appealing.
You'd be shocked/horrified and terribly disgruntled to find out what truly turns on some men. There are all sorts of things that work for all sorts of people. Just because YOU don't find something "of interest" or not appealing, doesn't mean you're opinion is going to be universal. Especially when talking sex.
Women aren't attracted by men with a feminine side cause they are often passive in bed.
And you know this......how? Because you intimately know every single man with a feminine side?
If you are passive find a dominant woman, she won't mind your feminine side and 'dominate' you. If you are not, show a woman that if she can get over the stiletto you can give her the best time in her life. It is not rocket science.
 I'm sorry, but I think I need an explanation as to what "...if she can get over the stiletto" means. 
I can't believe I am giving advice to someone double of my ages...
I can't believe you think you're actually giving advice.  (And for the record? I'm not really sure who you were posting to, I assume it was me. Regardless? Neither the the OP nor I am double your age. That is definitely NOT rocket science, just elementary mathematics.)
~OT~ When I was young, inexperienced and prudish, I would have found 99% of the things posted here in forums mortifying. Today? I can not even remember what it felt like to feel disgusted about someone else's sexual interests/fetishes/kinks/etc. Many things aren't for me, this doesn't mean I'd want to hinder what works for someone else. My former liked to wear some pretty strange/interesting stuff. He didn't do so to "turn me on"~ he just liked to do so. I can't fathom finding fault in that, with him or with any one else. To each their own. JMO  | |
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Posted: 7/2/2012 6:51:43 PM | | Some of you would be thoroughly shocked if you knew the things your grandparents did during the 70's at those "luv ins" & even more shocked when during the 80's when they had "key" parties. He's wearing her nighties, lol, that cannot even be considered as strange as compared to some of the fetishes people have. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2012 8:08:16 PM | | true ! there are many far out fetishes and if one doesnt suit you / you move on ! sometimes people just move in together because of the attraction they find and then things come out more and you mutually part because of personal taste / but i think the poster is just asking if anyone finds a man wearing womans lace intamites a bit creepy ? well, id just take him to a gay strip bar and say come on baby make us some money !! loooolll!!! | |
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Posted: 7/2/2012 9:00:01 PM | | The fear of feeling judged is the number one reason why men don't confide in women. Sounds like you were more appalled since his doing so made him seem less manly in your eyes. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2012 9:57:21 PM | I love men's boxer shorts. I wear 'em on sunny days while working in the yard. Alas, I buy my own these days...
As far as what'd I think if I found my man in my undies—"his" undies that look similar to mine, only he's wearing them—I wouldn't think I'd find it appalling or revolting. I lean towards "shocking", perhaps at first, followed quickly by curiosity (maybe some Q&A now), then, I gotta say, I'm thinking acceptance. I think I could deal, here. Interesting conversation to explore, if anything. I'd much rather catch my man "wearing my knickers & enjoying it" than one day finding "a tiny lace nighty" (his, not mine) lying there on the bedroom floor... and, then, ya know, begin conjuring up an entirely more destructive scenario behind the errant tiny lace nighty. Great post, overall tho OP, thanks.
PS: Why would his family know... or want to know..? | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 2:10:54 AM | I have a friend who likes to takes pictures of men wearing her panties.
She also thinks I'm a perv because I have a vibrator. When she stated such and I reminded her of her special photography, she said "It's not the same thing at all!" Well she's right, it's not the same thing at all, lol.
What ever flips your kilt. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 2:40:43 AM |
And for the record? I'm not really sure who you were posting to, I assume it was me. Regardless? Neither the the OP nor I am double your age. That is definitely NOT rocket science, just elementary mathematics.
I was posting for sometimes-miss, cause he was complaining that he can't find a lady able to deal with it. I think the answer of his question was in your post. No clue why you clearly felt touched by it as there is nothing in there that can be related to what you said.
Strange enough you don't need to sleep with all the man in the country, turn on all the women or become intimate with every man with a feminine side. But feel free to do it for me, I won't mind. You can argue that every human beings is different and being really stubborn about it but you are being educated in a society, living in that and you will be shocked with how many of your daily decision are made because of it and not being you are 'the most unique person on the planet'. Shocking, I know.
The rest is just a mere attempt to offend, truly disappointing. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 2:48:23 AM | I think you would be surprised as to how many men have dressed in drag...
I am not necessarily saying that they need to do -- just that they see the funny side of doing it. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 7:45:54 AM |
What are your thoughts on this? Would you ladies have been revolted too? Do you guys think its okay and to be accepted?
My take on it?
There are some f*cked up people in the world. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 7:53:51 AM | How strange you should post this question.
My BF recently began wearing women's panties under his jeans after I found a pair in his car!
I guess he was afraid to tell me about his little "hobby." 
I feel so much better now that I know he can be completely honest and open with me!  | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 8:05:47 AM | | i've bought a bf a men's thong (there are such things) in the past, he refused to wear it though? Why don't they make mens boxers out of lace anyways? I think it would look nice. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 8:23:32 AM |
My BF recently began wearing women's panties under his jeans after I found a pair in his car!
wow, idk if I would believe it. I would think he got catch cheating and made it up. I admire your trust. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 8:28:56 AM | well as far as sex goes, I really like naked....
not into anything, I don't even like shoes on my woman
but , you broke up with him, because of that!!! really!
that is much more weird, then his fetish lol | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 8:49:16 AM | | LOL! I think that finding my partner wearing my underwear probably wouldn't bother me too much.....UNLESS....he looked better in it than I do.....that might tick me off! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 9:15:24 AM | My BF recently began wearing women's panties under his jeans after I found a pair in his car! wow, idk if I would believe it. I would think he got catch cheating and made it up. I admire your trust.
Hmmm ... I guess that might explain why he is now wearing the garter belt and thigh high stockings I found under our bed, yesterday!
you tell that slu.t I want my red pumps back he borrowed.
vvvvvvvv Dragon - we all know that each of your meets ends with you prancing around in your date's panties!
P. S. You can keep the lacey tap panties, FFS. I don't want them back, now! 
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Posted: 7/3/2012 1:12:25 PM | Hilarious, LOL, would have loved to see the look on his face you surprising him like that.
Honestly though, not sure what my reaction would be in that case.............. trying to visualize my guy now wearing my lingerie........ and think after initially LMAO I could really not take him that seriously anymore. Guess I'm too old fashioned as I really prefer the more masculine men. Just as well that I go for the taller and well muscled guys so my itsy bitsy lingerie items would not fit them anyways. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 6:24:17 PM | [But a guy who displays feminine traits? Nope. No takers.]
Read thru the thread again, there are women who will accept this. Maybe from your past experiences your gun shy of being rejected again? If you truely want to find a lady to spend your life with you will have to be willing to take the risk and hope for the best. Anyone that has experienced a loss or hurtful relationship is gun shy. Time heals all. Do not give up so easily! | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 6:28:25 PM | | Never had that happen but my ex would wear high heels, matching lace bra and panties under one of my dress shirts. Very sexy, she didn't need to say a word, I knew exactly what she wanted to do next, lol. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 6:32:04 PM | | It isn't the act it's self that would bother me, I wouldn't be appalled or shocked. What bothers me are fetishes, they take the place of actual arousal and I don't get turned on by game playing, be it a guy needing to wear panties or a guy needing to watch porn first or a guy wanting me to dress up like little orphan Annie, it's not my thing, it would bore me to death. That's one of the reasons I don't like dating sites for fat women, too many men there are fixated on the fat, not the person. | |
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