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So, he wasn't wearing your underwear when you walked in? Women's dirty underwear? What women?
They were mine. He told me he'd had this fetish for years and that his previous girlfriends didnt mind at all.
Well, thats okay if his past g/f's didnt mind but I did. He said his ex's knew from the beginning. We were together for 18 months before I found out. Hmmmmm.
Anyway, that wasn't the reason why I left him . Our relationship was pretty much over anyway. | |
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| Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 7/10/2012 10:45:02 AM | A man that gets off wearing womens underwear? ewwwwwwwwwwww that would be a no no, weird , freak ,a bit on the fruity side and for sure a good bye.
That is just plain weird | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 11:13:46 AM | Though I wear men's boxers sometimes, I would find it a turnoff to see a man in women's undergarments of any kind.
I like manly men... so that would be a deal breaker for sure. | |
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| Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/6/2012 3:20:49 AM | | it is not acceptable too wear womens clothes or underwear its quiet sick i mean a man is man a women a women to me that is just deviet behaviour the scary thing is what else does he do | |
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Posted: 9/6/2012 3:23:23 AM | | I would not be revolted at all. He is the same guy you loved before, he hasn't changed, he would still have those qualities that you thought highly enough of to move in with him. No big deal and wouldn't be a deal breaker to me, and probably a lot of fun. Can't see what is revolting about all this????? | |
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Posted: 9/6/2012 4:20:07 AM | | Now I know if I want to end a relationship I have a good chance to make her run off than to talk about it. I'll just do it to get rid of her the easy way. If she doesn't mind then I'll have to do more work. lol | |
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Posted: 9/9/2012 4:13:44 PM | So much close mindedness.
Must numb mind...be back when mind is obliterated.
Seriously, it sounds like you acted like a thirteen year old girl with your reaction to it. | |
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| Finding your partner wearing your underwear!!
Posted: 9/9/2012 6:50:31 PM |
At one time, women wearing slacks was considered sexually perverse.
I have to disagree here... Women wearing men's clothing was seen more as:
1. woman trying to take a "man's" place. More a disruption of what was the natural order of things...
2. it would be seen as a symptom of sexual perversion ie. lesbianism.
If we take for granted the right to wear a pair of trews, or feel like we're sex on toast in a good fitting pair of jeans, why shouldn't men take it for granted the right to wear whatever they feel good in.
Okay...Men can wear whatever they like... Why just the other night I saw a chap walking down the street in a blond wig, bodice and g-string. Live and let live. However, that doesn't mean a straight girl has to be okay with her straight bf doing that...
The clothing rules and etiquette we have are arbitrary. Its like saying that your partner is revolting if he sets foot in a country that someone else has decided is against the rules. Its utterly bizarre and illogical.
I reckon its tricky for men to get women's clothes to fit and I doubt my undies would fit many men. Luckily, I'd be able to march him into my workshop and make him some better fitting, more flattering gear.
Arbitrary or not, it is part of the culture we belong to. And some of us are okay with it... To the "gender-fluid"--I understand that it can seem illogcal and bizarre, but for quite a few a few of us it's cool and it works... If you're okay designing ladies underwear for your bf, then fill you boots. Ideally guys like this should find girls like you.
However, when they find a girl who doesn't like it, that doesn't mean there is something intrinsically wrong with her. We all have our preferences.
This is exactely what is happening here in the pond with our quick dismissals of a person. We find out one thing about a person that we do not understand or do not "like" and boot, they go to the curb. Know enough people intimately and you will find out that they we ALL have a little of this, and a little of that "hiding" in the background that the majority will not find as "normal".
How did his little fetish affect his personal life???? His job????? His relationships with others outside that closed door????? If you, OP, DIDN'T find out about his underwear wearing,,could you still see being with him????? Or was the underwear something that you couldn't comprehend and understand,thus your dismissal?????
Did this touch a nerve? I agree with the majority of ladies who said this would be the end of a relationship. This "little" fetish, BIG to some of us. Also, our sexual psychology is not really the most equal opportunities PC place. People like what they like... Also the aspect of hiding something, the secrecy would make anyone scared, and think "What else are they hiding?" Safer to bail...
The problem with crossdressing is that it kills sexual attraction in women. Most things, even lots of crappy things like being a criminal, being a drug addict or alcoholic, having a quick temper, well despite all of those things making a guy be a poor choice, none of them seem to interfere with attraction. Even battered women are still attracted to a guy that beats, and sometimes eventually kills them. But a guy who displays feminine traits? Nope. No takers.
Now straight from the cross dresser's mouth... This is true.... However, being open up-front about it is definitely the way forward.
I personally would walk as well. Sorry that is where I draw the line.
Men wearing women's clothing? Nope, never going to date one, never going to be caught dead watching one do his thing while wearing my panties or nighties or any other female outfit.
It all boils down to this. Be honest and tell them you have a fetish or a secret that may harm the relationship later on. If we all did that, we would allow the other partner to say no thanks it's not for me and he can then say you were never meant to be.
Honestly saves a lot of time and energy.
What she said....
Can I also just say, no need to call girls who don't like it closed-minded, or guys who do "sick", can we just say it does or doesn't float our respective boats? | |
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Posted: 9/10/2012 6:29:15 PM | | The way I see it is that when a woman does what a man does, her status is raised but when a man does what a woman does, his status is lowered. That's not saying much for women. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2012 8:33:05 PM | Wow not sure wat to think about it except he's really into sex and kinky stuff if u ask me.
I never had any of my bf's do that. The only thing my ex did was grab my bra off his bed, and pretended to put it on to see wat it was like to have huge knockers. I wanted to take a picture for fun but he said no..
Currently the guy I'm interested in rite now, I told him when we start to date and evolve into a relationship thereafter, I would like to get him to wear my purple thongs. But that's only and purely for jokes. But it's funny to watch him squirm everytime i mention I would do it to when he's sleeping! | |
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Posted: 9/12/2012 3:46:57 AM | | I read that 95% of men have tried on their partner's lingerie at some point. What would I do? Not much for laughing probably, and I would give him a pat on the back for being able to fit into it in the first place! | |
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Posted: 9/12/2012 4:00:57 PM | I don't know..its kind of weird and maybe I'm weird but it sounds kind of like a turn on to me..like a nice little kinky side surprise you didn't know about..but again I'm weird. lol
Sue | |
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Posted: 9/12/2012 4:47:05 PM |
I have lost so many boxers from women wearing mine over the years....that nothing really surprises me at all.
You know you've really made it when your woman starts wearing your shirts and boxers, a girlfriend once told me it's because they want to feel close to you when you're not there, to smell your scent... such a turnon too! | |
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Posted: 9/12/2012 9:50:25 PM |
The way I see it is that when a woman does what a man does, her status is raised but when a man does what a woman does, his status is lowered. That's not saying much for women.
Im unsure of the relativity of your statement, but thankyou for your input.
All Im saying is I was revolted when I caught him masturbating in my dirty underwear, squeezing his stocky body in his tiny waist length nightie, stretching my underwear to the point of ripping them, then he complained I had nothing nice to wear. I was pissed off as well as revolted. | |
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