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Posted: 8/8/2005 11:04:25 AM | You can take two women and put them in the same outfilt...
One can look like a total hooker and the other look sexy.
It is in the way you carry yourself, your actions.
You walk like a slut, you act like a slut you probably look like one no matter what you are wearing.
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Posted: 8/8/2005 11:15:55 AM | Do you agree that people look at things differently?
While one person views someone as looking like a "slut" ( pretty rude, by the way ) others think she looks sexy. Just because you think she looks like trash, it doesn't mean she is. Since when was it our god given right to judge someone by the way they dress? PUUHHHLEEEEEZE!
Just because someone is dressed a certain way, to hoot and holler is in your control. Do you have to obnoxious? Why not keep it to yourself?
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Posted: 8/8/2005 11:30:55 AM | If you read the rest of the POST.
I said it is in the way you carry yourself.
Yes fortunatly! I do have my own opinion. YOu can call it shallow, judgemental or whatever the hell you want to call it.
By the way if I am going to be taken as being rude..
Then let me finish the rest to ...walks lika a slut talks like a slut, looks like a slut...
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Posted: 8/8/2005 12:05:35 PM | if a woman dresses up and hits the bar/club
she,s looking for attention plain and simple.
who the hell gets dressed up and hits a club or bar to be left alone. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 12:10:34 PM | ^^^ and yet some do just that...dress up and go out and seek nothing! perhaps they are not looking but just want to feel sexy!
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EDIT: Dude below me...I guess you know women!!! Not going to argue with you. hahahah | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 12:11:36 PM | nope.
they want attention
if they say otherwise
they are lying | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 12:23:03 PM | When I first started POF alot of people gave me flack for being born again Christian and having semi provacative pics.I think women dress up because fashion is fun...but c'mon girls we all like appreciative attention from guys.Im not talking about pervey attention...but we all like compliments for our efforts at times.I dont think dressing sexy makes someone a slut..I do think that sexy is better when there is a classy element to it:)Leave alittle to the imagination ya know?  | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 12:30:26 PM |
who the hell gets dressed up and hits a club or bar to be left alone.
Me! I'm usually out with friends to share a few drinks, dance, have a good time and head home. Just because a woman is out and dressed up doesn't mean she is there for attention! | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 12:33:55 PM | | forgot what comedian said it but he said she might not be a whore but she's wearing a whores uniform.I love it when a woman dresses sexy but that also comes with the fact that im going to be looking.nothing more irritating when a woman has half her brest hangin out and gets upset when someone looks.Im in no way rude but damn i wasnt breast fed and feel the need to compensate now | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 12:40:44 PM | If you read the rest of the POST.
I said it is in the way you carry yourself.
Take your own advice and read the other posts honey! I said what i did to generalize the word that has been used throughout this thread. When i direct something at you, i will tell you. Otherwise, do your best not to take things personally. I am entitled to my opinion as well as you are to yours. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 12:57:41 PM | ^^^ I love it when women "converse" in POF.
(Cat-fight coming on)
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Posted: 8/8/2005 1:02:24 PM | I am going to have to agree with trvling man and exavier........
We wear pretty panties and bras that match and are lacy, or internal toys to make 'yourself' feel sexy and pretty. We wear eyechadow that matches our purse and liopstick that matches our top, we spray our favorite perfume etc etc
And it can also be in the way a woman carries herself, if your dressed ultra 'sexy' (aka trampy) and chilin at your table having a drink and your laugh is contagious and you make people smile when they walk by your image would not translate to slutty...
If you wearing the exact same outfit, getting dirty with yer girls on the dance floor and scrubbing the bucket without panties on your a tad on the slutty side... | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 1:02:55 PM | OK! You are right!!!
Mike and I are the only ones that used the word slut.
OOOPPPS! I used hooker too.
Mike used his in a more open minded statement.
So was that directed towards the two who used SLUT. Mike or Me?
OT... Everyone likes attention. By dressing sexy...
does not mean that men or women have to think you are looking for something.
It feels good to go out, and know you look sexy! | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 1:39:18 PM | okay........here is my view on this one...shall I be so brave???
I agree with someone up there that said it has much to do with class and how one carries herself. I tend to do a mix, or a medium. A low cut shirt with pants, even a pantsuit. Something I would wear to work with a different shirt, but out...I am going to stick to the low cut top. To pick up guys? No...because I think it is more flattering and I think I look good in it. A shorter skirt, that for me goes with a regular shirt/long sleeves or full collar. You can be sexy in the medium. I don't have a problem meeting guys when I have on a t-shirt and boxers at the car wash, or a pantsuit during lunch, or a cleavage showing top in a bar. It is how approachable we are.
With that being said, as far as women dressing to impress women??? Or men??? Nah, not me. In fact, my hair can be worn straight or curly. Nearly every man I have asked for their opinion opts for the curls, I like it straight. Guess which one I wear when "I go out", STRAIGHT. It is about me and what I like. My ex hated the fitted Tee shirts, he said they look "tacky", guess what I wore during my weekend relaxing time?? Fitted tee's. I think regular tee shirts look tacky. Maybe I am a rarity but I do what I want to do when it comes to dressing. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 4:08:26 PM | If a guy walks around with his top off and his muscles bulging .. is he asking for trouble???
Sheesh .... lol | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 4:15:06 PM |
Let a woman know that she's meeting her b/fs ex and see how much time she takes on her wardrobe every woman dresses to impress another woman at some point in her life
^^^^ That is so true....
OT: I like to dress to suit the mood and where I'm going to, and if someone thinks that gives them right to harass me or assume that I'm a certain way....they got another think coming. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 4:16:32 PM | | When I dress nice, I do it for the men and the women! You have to attract the men and compete with the women (I know, sad but true) | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 4:37:56 PM | Mike used his in a more open minded statement.
So was that directed towards the two who used SLUT. Mike or Me?
You are wanting an arguement, i am not going to give it to you.
It is in the way you carry yourself, your actions
Yes, and when you criticize ppl by the way they dress and refer to them with names such as slut or whore because they are not within your likes, you are "acting " no better. It is more important to consider whom our actions might harm, whose feeling we might hurt, what is bad for others, or what obstacles we might create for ourselves, than to judge what you think are bad ideas of others.
my 2 cents is spent, see ya on the next thread. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 4:48:22 PM | | No one thought to bring this point up. If you dress up as a clown...people expect to get some comic relief. If you dress up as a cop...people expect to be protected from the law. So if a woman puts on the I want sex outfit....hell yeah she's looking for trouble. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 4:51:59 PM | | Let me break this down real barney style.. I am very busty, when I put on a low cut top, I am doing it because I think it looks sexy, and I know that I am going to get attention.. That does not mean that anyone has the right to put their hands on me without permission.. Period.. I don't give a fark if I am butt booty ass naked, nobody has the right to invade my personal bubble.. That being said, I can't stand it when I go out with a girlfriend, she wears something lowcut, and then gets pissed off when guys look at her.. Duh.. wtf do you expect?? Your breasts are hanging out!! lol... That kinda made sense, right? | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 4:54:55 PM | You can't get pissed if you're showing skin and people LOOK.
You can get pissed if they TOUCH.
I'm with you... I don't care if I walk down the street nekkid... no one has no right to touch me or invade my space. I hold the same right to say "NO" and mean it, and anyone who thinks women who dress skimpy deserve to get 'trouble' is sorely mistaken.
My two cents. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2005 5:37:18 PM | It depends how far they go.
I like a classy sexiness, without too much revealed.
If you are half-naked ( and Lord knows Montreal has it's share of those) , you are going to be attracting the wrong type of men. It's a bit like swimming in the ocean covered with chum.
Don't blame anyone if you attract Great Whites.
The worst part ? Those women are always the first ones to complain that men are only out for sex.  | |
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