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 Author Thread: If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
 belezura

Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 51
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/8/2005 5:50:01 PM
Totally agree with mikelgreco...Women does dress for other womem...not matter what they say.....and it isnt about being lesbian,...but about competition....how is hotter than who....
 Montreal_Guy

Joined: 3/8/2004
Msg: 52
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If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/8/2005 5:52:04 PM
And you wonder why men are like they are.

It's a bit like holding up a raw steak in front of a Rottweiler, and complaining when they grab it out of your hand.

What is wrong with personality, charm, and intelligence ?
 badbadgirl

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 53
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/8/2005 6:00:19 PM
for me yes...i'm always looking for trouble

saturday night i went out with my girlfriend and we were so sexy even cops were hitting on us on the street

but i don't like wearing a skirt or a dress...i prefer tight jeans, a sexy top and high heels

personnaly i don't dress up for women cause i really don't give a **** what they think about me...i dress up for men cause i like to make them go crazy
 jeanc200358

Joined: 4/21/2005
Msg: 54
Unwanted Attention
Posted: 8/8/2005 6:08:43 PM
"So, gals out there. Why wear the blue jeans as a "social uniform" when you can rivet a man's gaze and attention by being a woman and wearing "girl clothes?" "

I doubt sincerely that she dressed that way just to make a trip to the grocery store. Chances are she was on her way to -- or from -- somewhere else that warranted that kind of dress. I'd almost bet you blue jeans and t-shirts (or something casual) is her typical manner of daily "social uniform" and I am even more doubtful that she wore what she wore to catch your or any other man's eye.

Do you typically dress your GQ best when going to your local grocer?
 jimi77

Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 55
Unwanted Attention
Posted: 8/8/2005 6:32:30 PM
I would say if she is dressing that way don't be ticked when men stare, make comments, make animal noises, or drool on you..

i for one think women are one of the most beutiful things on this planet.. so it's hard not to look..
 cuteathleticman

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 56
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Posted: 8/8/2005 6:51:02 PM
Nah! But women please, don't wear slutty clothes unless you have the body to do so!!! Nothing turns me off more a than a girl that wears tight low rise jeans with a belly shirt with her belly hanging over a few inches...YUCK So if you have the body and we all know how much work you put into it ,wear whatever that is going to show the most!!!!
 badbadgirl

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 57
Unwanted Attention
Posted: 8/8/2005 6:55:38 PM
^¸^^î disagree with u...if someone wants to show some skin he or her doesnt need to be perfect...and what about the beach?only good looking people should be allowed there?or only good looking people should be allowed to wear bathing suits?come on that doesnt make sens
 belezura

Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 58
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Posted: 8/8/2005 7:00:28 PM
One thing is to dress sexy another is to dress like a whore....One example...look at my pics...I do dress sexy without looking like a hooker...You dont have to show much skin to look sexy...even why sensuality is more than just looks.....it is also on the air.... ;)
 cuteathleticman

Joined: 7/10/2005
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Posted: 8/8/2005 7:02:02 PM


Message: ^¸^^î disagree with u...if someone wants to show some skin he or her doesnt need to be perfect...and what about the beach?only good looking people should be allowed there?or only good looking people should be allowed to wear bathing suits?come on that doesnt make sens


Well what can I say? You're lying if you have seen somebody in a bathing suit or club clothes that doesn't belong in them!!! Yes you have the right to wear what you want but some people should not use that right. You look like you have a nice body and I bet you show it off... Duh look at your pic!!
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 60
Unwanted Attention
Posted: 8/8/2005 8:19:08 PM
NO
 GuelphDude

Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 61
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/8/2005 8:26:36 PM
depends on the dress, if she is practically showing her boobs than yes, otherwise no.
 AngelicPassion

Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 62
Unwanted Attention
Posted: 8/8/2005 8:35:23 PM
Its not how a woman is dressed its how she carries herself. I wear something that makes me feel good. I don't choose my attire for anyone other than myself. If a woman is happy with how she is dressed then she can carry it with a touch of class gracefully. I don't judge a man by what he wears. Its the person wearing the clothes that should matter.
 wonwascallywabbit

Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 63
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If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/8/2005 8:43:36 PM
If a girl is standing in the middle of a bar naked it doesn't mean she wants trouble. Slight lack of inhibitions or common sense maybe. But what someone is wearing does not give you the right to assume anything about them. This sounds like a p*** poor excuse to be used by a sleazy lawyer at a sleazy guys rape trial.
 ~*BlackKitty~*

Joined: 7/27/2005
Msg: 64
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/8/2005 10:16:55 PM
Yeah because wearing certain clothes comes with a certain degree of unwanted attention either you can handle what comes with it and ignore it or get all ****y and whine.Hey men will be men..and personally I have just learned to go whatever..I dont need you saying shit cause I know I look good if I am wearing these provocative clothes.
 belezura

Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 65
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/9/2005 5:06:37 AM
I totally think you still can be classy and sexy at the same time....I still afirm that one thing is to dress sexy other is to dress like a whore....
 Montreal_Guy

Joined: 3/8/2004
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If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/9/2005 6:23:18 AM

If a girl is standing in the middle of a bar naked it doesn't mean she wants trouble. Slight lack of inhibitions or common sense maybe. But what someone is wearing does not give you the right to assume anything about them. This sounds like a p*** poor excuse to be used by a sleazy lawyer at a sleazy guys rape trial.


I agree totally.

What I was referring to was the fact that the type of men attracted will typically not be the type many desire to meet.

I have heard this complaint about 100 times from women. They dress like that, and spend all night moaning about how the guy just wanted sex.
 carribeanking7

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 67
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/9/2005 10:04:09 PM
Its not fair....women get to flaunt their assets while I have to hide my sixpack
under a sweater
 BlueRoses

Joined: 4/26/2005
Msg: 68
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/10/2005 6:13:33 AM
There is a difference between looking for attention and "asking for trouble". NOBODY, no matter how they're dressed (or not), is ever "asking for trouble". Does the woman doing the grind on the dance floor with half the bar really want to get attacked or raped? I'll bet no!
 Voluptuousness

Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 69
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/10/2005 4:27:41 PM
Unless I missed something, which is very plausible, I dont think anyone actually said, hey you look like a slut so you deserved to be raped. And honestly that wasnt what i gathered from the word trouble......

I was thinking more on the lines of, oh stop asking me out i already said no........or something of that, lesser evil
 rodd26

Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 70
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/10/2005 4:31:48 PM
it's how the women acts, not how she's dressed, unless she's dressed like a slut and acts like a slut.
but most women like to dress sexy and act classy.
 bjvixen

Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 71
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/10/2005 4:42:17 PM
a woman can dress anyway she damn well pleases its HER body just as anyone else can dress as they please but if they suckin face with every guy in the bar,gettin into cars with strangemen/s then they askin 4 what ever trouble they get into
 KeepnItReal

Joined: 1/21/2005
Msg: 72
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/10/2005 4:57:52 PM


it's how the women acts, not how she's dressed, unless she's dressed like a slut and acts like a slut.
but most women like to dress sexy and act classy.

I'd have to agree, women should be able to dress attractively without being harrased, they should feel comfortable to need to look attractive I mean women are supposed to be the 'object of attraction' in this world. They define beauty; sorry to use the word 'object' by the way, I DON'T see women as objects, they are humans who deserve respect too(s'just some people can't understand that).
 KeepnItReal

Joined: 1/21/2005
Msg: 73
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/10/2005 5:02:37 PM
Off Topic: Finally figured out the box thingie....
 scylla

Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 74
If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/10/2005 5:23:31 PM
she may want someone to notice, that doesnt always mean you!....maybe one of your friends haha
 tim49250

Joined: 2/9/2005
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If a woman dresses provocatively at a club/bar or even out on the street, is she asking for trouble?
Posted: 8/11/2005 12:46:24 AM
How about a man dressing as though he is well off. There will probably be plenty of women out to take advantage of him as well. Who is right and who is wrong? I think the ones that take without giving will be receiving the bad karma in the long run.
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