| | No one will EVER want YOU.Page 3 of 6 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) | OP It's nothing more than classic "sour grapes" from men with small penises and smaller brains. Cindy O | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/9/2012 11:18:01 AM | that' s NOT what you said in the thread about you whining about not getting replies from women and assuming that they're hookers.
I didnt tell you I wear size 10 shoes either; that doesnt mean I dont.
I said THOSE ladies dont reply; so you assume that NOONE does? (bad logic lady)
Anyways; it's irrelevant. This thread isnt even about you or I; so maybe stick to the topic right.
I think OP has her answers; it's not her, or anything ABOUT her at all that is causing these reactions. It is the experiences and personal problems of the dudes who spit vile.
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/9/2012 11:21:42 AM | | Same old story, the stupid insecure a$$holes on the site spoiling it for all the genuine people. No wonder women never give people a chance and no wonder most decent guys have just given up. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/9/2012 11:25:10 AM | I personnally think the Op ROCKs and is wasting her time in Woodstock, and that she should visit Montreal, Quebec in the next few hours.....     | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/9/2012 11:30:00 AM |
I personnally think the Op ROCKs and is wasting her time in Woodstock, and that she should visit Montreal, Quebec in the next few hours...
Sorry, no smokers.
*Ducks and covers in preparation for the "No man will ever want you!" speech* xD | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/9/2012 11:32:43 AM | *Ducks and covers in preparation for the "No man will ever want you!" speech* xD
*Pulls out a huge semi automatic machinegun and a scarface mask* DIE, INFIDEL!!!! 
LOL You got the message, so no attacking me in front of my e-friends  I just think you found some morons who couldnt deal with rejection. As soon as I dry my tears and wipe my keyboard, I'll be off to woman # 789543 of this site, no biggie... ;-) | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/9/2012 1:35:16 PM | that' s NOT what you said in the thread about you whining about not getting replies from women and assuming that they're hookers.
I didnt tell you I wear size 10 shoes either; that doesnt mean I dont.
I said THOSE ladies dont reply; so you assume that NOONE does? (bad logic lady)
Anyways; it's irrelevant. This thread isnt even about you or I; so maybe stick to the topic right.
I think OP has her answers; it's not her, or anything ABOUT her at all that is causing these reactions. It is the experiences and personal problems of the dudes who spit vile.
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1. Who cares what size shoes you wear. 2. I didn't say that NO ONE responded to you. Re-read what I wrote. 3. Hardly anyone ever stick to any tread's topics. People often give their opinions and share their personal experience with others to "answer" the OP's question(s). 4. Yup. OP received the most constructive responses on the 1st page but this tread still continues, doesn't it? 5. You're just mad that you can't win with me. But then again, it's not like it's an accomplishment or anything. You're a jaded nut. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/9/2012 1:41:39 PM | Anytime you have to tell someone online that they will not be getting what they expect from you, you will find out how low they can go. It is false bravado! If a man asks me in real life if he can buy me a drink, and I decline, he wont stand there and berate me, but he will online. If I decline an invite to dance at a club, same thing...but online it is like I have committed the greatest crime by choosing the option of 'no thank you'.
Delete and then if they keep emailng you, block them. If it means they get blocked from using pof forever, that is thier problem and it would greatly help clean this pond up!! | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/9/2012 2:32:02 PM | OP, I don't think I can say anything more about the small men (in more ways than one!) that throw tantrums when they don't get their way. I think most guys are lucky enough to be spared this immature response from women...I know I've been!
I've found that it really helps to have a real life friend to vent to about this insanity that is this whole online thing when it gets you REALLY down. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/9/2012 8:42:07 PM | | Wow, I'm sorry OP about the mass barrage of assaults. I've been here on and off for over a year and never had to deal with that. Not interested? Don't reply. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/10/2012 1:22:51 PM | | Its just an eago thing,some people arent mature or secure enough to accept rejection... | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/10/2012 1:36:25 PM |
Wow, I'm sorry OP about the mass barrage of assaults. I've been here on and off for over a year and never had to deal with that. Not interested? Don't reply.
That's just the way people are. As soon as someone says something you don't agree with, or your not up to specs, you get shot down. That's the way some people get their kicks in the morning, you know? Even though I was rejected by the OP, hell, she still is a cool girl, as cool as she was before we talked. She's just not into me. Is that REALLY so hard for people to accept? Yup, sometimes it is lol. Hopefully someday, humanity will grow up. I don't expect it happenning on the internet however. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/10/2012 1:57:49 PM | ^^^indeed, 'tis best not to.
I received a couple messages from a gal whose advances I politely declined...I was greeted with a response loaded with expletives...it's best to just ignore. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/10/2012 11:14:48 PM | I respond to eveyone who writes to me as I think it's polite to acknowledge someones effort and through reading the forums, I saw so many complaining that they don't get any acknowledgement. I know some of you will disagree with that but all good.
Sometimes I get abused - I respond with thank you for confirming I made the right decision about you and I block them. This doesn't happen much.
Most either say thanks and wish me luck as well, or do not send a reply and I don't hear from them again.
Some will ignore that I said I wasn't interested and keep sending me messages as if I want them. This is when I ignore them as don't feel the need to repeat myself. If they keep writing to me consistently, I will reply accordingly then block them...accordingly depends on what they say - I'm not here to put anyone down but if there ego is so over inflated they can't accept I'm not interested I can have fun with that...can't I :)
My favourites are the ones who try to save face by saying, something like "I was just sending you a message, I'm not interested, gee your crazy/stupid, etc, etc" lol, ok, sorry, my bad, what was I thinking :) | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/14/2012 11:48:56 PM | Well, I had to bite and check out the OP's profile. 31 and from Canada. So, apparently not a US-Centric thing, nor for the late-teens-early-20s crowd.
Friend of mine noticed this too. He drives a transit bus, and has been going through hell since last fall. His wife of two years has been cheating on him, and she even drained his bank at one point. In other words, he picked a real winner.
So, here and there, I've been on his bus with him, talking him through this whole thing. We have a lot of mutual friends, and we're all there for him.
Anyway, I was talking to him while he was driving his route, and some woman sitting in the first row of seats, looked like she could not be older than 25, gets up, and tells him to "give up", and that he's worthless. Also had to throw in "no woman will want you". Considering that she had got on a couple stops back and only heard a few sentences, this seemed odd. Odder still, is that this friend of mine, has a good head on his shoulders (though this seemed to go to pot when he felt desperate and married the first one that came along!), is a fair and equitable person, and looks sharp too. In other words, he could do a LOT better than what he got, without even trying.
I guess that it is another one of those dumb things that some people do now. I guess it could be worse, really. Thankfully, no one has said it to me (yet), but I am probably now jinxing myself. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/15/2012 1:09:21 AM | You're approaching this in the wrong spirit.
You should have a little sport with them. Trust me, it's as easy as clubbing baby seals and ten times as entertaining.
Instead of returning insults with insults, I prefer to leave them confused, anxious and wondering what just happened. Most of my unwanted online correspondence ends in absolute silence. I imagine them sitting there scratching their heads with no idea what to say next.
It's mildly amusing when one can't sleep. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/15/2012 2:48:53 AM | You're approaching this in the wrong spirit. You should have a little sport with them. Trust me, it's as easy as clubbing baby seals and ten times as entertaining. ^^^^^^^^^^ this.
op, the types of men you described?? they're your online equivalent of bubble wrap. *pop*. discard. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/15/2012 4:17:17 AM | The internet breeds a certain psychopathy. I am always struck by the viciousness, lack of conscience in seemingly regular folk, how it all turns on a dime. One minute they are a messianic figure talking about their altruism, the next they are laying you out for expressing disapproving tones about nsas and foaming at the mouth, all within 5 minutes. Anyhoo, the "no one will EVER want ya/you've been here 2-3 years!!" is their projection of THEIR inverted shame, despair, and frustration. They're hoping misery loves company. If they can whittle down your self esteem down to their level you 2 can date. That's what all abusers do. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/15/2012 4:39:18 AM |
It is starting to mess with my head. Is anyone else getting this?
No.
I think LETTING strangers you do not know or care about that probably have a profile full of lies and fake/old pictures is TRAGIC.
Nasty grams usually come from people who can't get anyone to respond to them or 13 year olds on moms computer.
You should have a little sport with them.
^^^^^^Who has that kind of time or cares that much? Pft. Delete/block. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/15/2012 4:45:36 AM | | Don't take it personally. You will find someone. I always believed that people, men and women, have issues. Some men think life should evolve around them. Not saying that some women don't feel that way too. Take what goes on here with a grain of salt. You can always delete them. Start from within yourself. I am saying this because I am going through the same thing. I have always believed that there was good in everyone. Sometimes that is not true. You are a pretty lady. Take your time. Be yourself. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/15/2012 4:47:51 AM | If someone is angry, doesn't care for your profile, photos and e mails you nasty things, simply do not even respond. There are simply some lame people on here. I get some really * special * messages , I also know to my face half these clowns would NEVER say these things....LOL
Let it slide off your back....seriously. | |
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| No one will EVER want YOU. Posted: 4/15/2012 8:36:10 AM |
I told him he shouldn't ask questions like that from people who obviously don't matter
Sounds like it's time to take your own advice. Why are you letting Internet strangers "mess with your head?"  | |
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