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| Singles Party Night....should I go on my own??
Posted: 5/28/2012 4:43:37 AM | From a guys view, if a girl is alone it makes her most 'approchable'. If she is with a friend or with a group of girls, a little harder to approch. and if she is sitting at a table with friends, the hardest to approch.
About time to arrive.
I noticed that most people are there early and the crowd thins hour by hour. The only exception is when the party starts early(6-7 )and there is live music later(10). | |
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| Singles Party Night....should I go on my own??
Posted: 5/30/2012 3:07:43 PM | | MY daughter and I have also received an invitation to the party and will be going. We were a little nervous about this but I told her , why not. we are going to see what the people are like and maybe have a real good night. we are both divorced , unattatched. I am 67 and she is 44 so roll out the red carpet and shake a leg and let's have fun. | |
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| Singles Party Night....should I go on my own??
Posted: 6/14/2012 8:55:55 AM | | hi there just wondering as there seem to be quite a few people wanting to go to events on there own me including in that would it be a idea if some of us meet up for a coffee before the event due so we can walk in there together as i for one dont fancy walking in events on my own and is there any single nights near south east area near a2 as the event at rochester is the nearest to me but still quite a way out for me to drive | |
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| Singles Party Night....should I go on my own??
Posted: 6/25/2012 5:09:41 AM | Hello Gregorysgirl100, Babygirl it's really simple,who really cares if you go alone or with someone else. The only person that would care is you. Look life is to short to worry about the short stuff,we all have enough daily problems to deal with, don't add any extra pressure upon yourself. Go out and enjoy yourself whether alone or not.POF just had a party at the Marriot Hotel in Del-Mar this past weekend. I went by myself,I did not know a single person.I recognized faces from the POF website but I did not know a soul. But you know what I had a great time just mingling and dancing and talking to different people.All I'm really saying is stop inhibiting yourself,don't over think it,just go and have fun........I hope this helps.
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| Singles Party Night....should I go on my own??
Posted: 6/27/2012 1:02:22 PM | | I was hesitant about going to the outing at Fort Smith last week by myself, but I made myself go and made some new friends. Everyone was very nice. I did feel uncomfortable at the dance, but that is because I am just getting my feet wet. I am nervous about the dating world. I left early, but next time I'll do better I'm sure. Still glad I stepped out of my comfort zone and went. | |
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| Singles Party Night....should I go on my own??
Posted: 7/27/2012 11:22:46 AM | I've been to several POF outings by myself. I look for friendly-looking people to approach and ask a few questions about whether I'm in the right place and what is going on so far, etc. It's just nice to have someone to chat with in between dancing and other activities. If the women are ****y I just keep moving, as I don't want to be in a group like that (and neither do men). Other than that, it can be a hindrance to be with someone because guys might not like an audience if they want to ask you to dance and might get shot down because they may think all the women in that group aren't interested. The event is for singles and its easier to show up single at a singles event than to walk in cold to just any place.
The best-run events allow for people showing up without other friends and include a host/cohost greeting the attendees and making sure they have someone to sit by or whatever to make them feel comfortable. Other than that, it's a bit like jr. high sometimes and the men just stand around looking at the women having a good time. Go for it! You'll never meet a man sitting home watching TV. | |
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