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 bella_chicka

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 51
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/8/2005 7:59:17 PM
why cyber? well i'm sorry but when my goat porn tapes wore out I had to come up with a new game plan so sue me! LOL joking..o man.. can you imagine if there really were goat porn tapes? I wonder if it's out there
 coffee_cognac

Joined: 9/5/2005
Msg: 52
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/8/2005 8:00:43 PM
Why? Beats me!
 CaliLady

Joined: 9/2/2005
Msg: 53
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/10/2005 3:52:04 PM
Why cyber??? If u are going to masterbate wouldnt u rather have another person of the opposite sex talking to u & mmmm telling u things to help u cum???LOL. thats what I was told about phone sex. If your are going to play by yourself atleast have somoene on the other line like its live & have fun.
 Yaaajustme

Joined: 7/29/2009
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Posted: 9/18/2009 10:58:28 AM
Are you people for real.....Seriously if you have to seek sick sex on a computer you should be behind bars....I would say you have great potential to be a sex offenders.....Like seriously get help ! Were are your morals !
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 12:11:46 PM
You can still get a computer virus.
 boinkboinkboink

Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 56
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 12:12:16 PM
Yaaajustme, nothing immoral about it. Different strokes for different folks. You, my dear, are a closed minded prude.

I would never choose to cybersex with a stranger, but in a long distance relationship with a lover it can be a lot of fun.
 Pleaser1965

Joined: 8/3/2009
Msg: 57
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 1:43:30 PM
Cyber, yes! but ..... sex ??? Maybe solo, doesn't matter if you are online with a group all at once. You look like you know that sex is shared with a person, in person.
Some people need to learn that fact, a keyboard and monitor don't kiss, caress, hug,
laugh, doesn't give or receive sensations of different kinds.
Yes, get it that you don't get STD or heartaches,but if younever did it in the flesh,the real thing, you are a virgin until you did it. Nothing wrong with being a virgin though.

Why people do cyber sex??? I don't want to be rude or not nice on this.
 FriendlyFreeSpirit

Joined: 7/27/2009
Msg: 58
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 1:48:09 PM
Just a wild guess, but I'd say it is because they're really horny ...
 averagelookingjoe

Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 59
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 1:52:34 PM

Cyber sex isn't pointless. It's only pointless when you don't know what you're doing!!!! I've had many requests and it's usually the woman doing all the action while I type and tell her what I'm doing to her or whatever. It's all in the words and how you use it. It's the same as the phone sex. If you can just talk to them and make them have an orgasm just from the things your saying without even touching them, it shows that you know what you're doing



oh man, you are a total stud. i mean that, cuddlefreak.
 Gangster Kitten

Joined: 4/3/2008
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Posted: 9/18/2009 2:21:41 PM

Are you people for real.....Seriously if you have to seek sick sex on a computer you should be behind bars....I would say you have great potential to be a sex offenders.....Like seriously get help ! Were are your morals !


Sorry, I never received the memo that said sex was 'sick' nor did I receive the one that told me that the desire to mate is the first stage to becoming a sex offender.

PS: I don't see how morality has anything to with having sex. Never did, never will. Sex in of itself is not moral or immoral.

PPS: People have no imaginations. Swear to god.
 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 61
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 2:42:24 PM
Uhmmm - I once heard it "stimulates" the brain cells/imagination. Yeah, that's it........
 miss_contemplative

Joined: 3/12/2008
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 4:10:41 PM
I'm ever so delicately clicking on the post reply button as you wait with rigid anticipation for me to post my verbiage all over the screen.

You anxiously await my response like it's the last one you'll ever see in your life. I smile mischievously. I consider the G rated venue and I pull my chair closer...closer...closer...bonk...oh shit, hit my screen.
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 5:01:27 PM
Well I guess if you can't have actual sex it must seem like the next best thing.

I would prefer to have a real live man next to me but hey each to his own!
 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 9/18/2009 5:15:58 PM

Are you people for real.....Seriously if you have to seek sick sex on a computer you should be behind bars....I would say you have great potential to be a sex offenders.....Like seriously get help ! Were are your morals !

Oh dear. I was expecting a bunch of these after this statement:

How sick can sex be if you are having it by yourself, with a virtual being on the other end of a keyboard (or cam or whatever???) Hey, to each their own, but throwing around the sex-offender card really speaks more of the writer of this than those being written about. (At least in my mind.)

~OT~ I personally find no value in the whole cyber idea, but I can understand the draw. It's just another one of those personal preference things. (I like a real live man when sex happens in my world, but I'm funny that way.)
 jacob8088

Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 65
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 7:27:08 PM
I'm not sure why people cybersex, nor is it any of my business.
 OnDMove

Joined: 4/10/2009
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 7:48:39 PM
"I'm ever so delicately clicking on the post reply button as you wait with rigid anticipation for me to post my verbiage all over the screen.

You anxiously await my response like it's the last one you'll ever see in your life. I smile mischievously. I consider the G rated venue and I pull my chair closer...closer...closer...bonk...oh shit, hit my screen."

Very clever. I think that kind of thing is like watching someone eat a steak dinner when you're starving to death or shooting yourself in the foot with your pellet rifle.

Watching others have sex or some chick writhing on her bed on a computer screen or sticking her twat in my face at a strip club is like self-inflicted pain! Sex is not a spectator sport. If I can't participate, I don't want any part of it!

Cheers(hic!)
 singlesuperdad

Joined: 8/26/2009
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/18/2009 7:55:57 PM
I agree with sabrosura it stimulates you head, I mean brain, lol.
And


I'm ever so delicately clicking on the post reply button as you wait with rigid anticipation for me to post my verbiage all over the screen.

You anxiously await my response like it's the last one you'll ever see in your life. I smile mischievously. I consider the G rated venue and I pull my chair closer...closer...closer...bonk...oh shit, hit my screen.


miss contemplative thats classic.

what wrong with some harmless playing between two adult, that may be to far away from each other to be face to face? you'll get no reaction from porn or mags.

no chance of preg
no chance of stds
different strokes for diferent folks
 Pashune

Joined: 8/21/2008
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Posted: 9/18/2009 8:30:23 PM

what wrong with some harmless playing between two adult, that may be to far away from each other to be face to face? you'll get no reaction from porn or mags.

no chance of preg
no chance of stds
different strokes for diferent folks


I second this. It offers stimulation, relief, and a bit of fun for yourself and whoever may be on the other side. What if you're partner is on a business trip for a while? What if a disaster prevented you two from living together for a while? Just what if?

Though explaining cyber sex to the unknowing is like explaining calculus to a kid who can't pass basic math. It's like culture shock to some.. You might as well give up until they experience it (If such a thing happens).
 Ependa

Joined: 7/16/2009
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/19/2009 12:05:42 AM
no clue, wouldn't do it..I can frustrate the F* out of myself all by myself. Pointless, agreed.

edit....


Why? Beats me!


lmfao, coffee cognac ..very punny
 sevenbishops

Joined: 9/11/2009
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Posted: 9/19/2009 1:51:39 AM
This comment is generally pointed towards the men......

I found this thread quite interesting. The reason being, a high % of people who were "for" cyber sex, did not even have a pic. Wierd huh!

My thoughts on cyber sex...... The majority of people who participate in cyber sex are just lonely people. Shy. Insecure. Intimidated. Non-social. Home bodies.

I do not look down on these people. I feel sorry for them.

Get out of your house. Stop masterbating. Be social. Make friends. Make plans. Go to restaurants, bars, clubs, sports events, social gatherings, etc......Grab your balls. Man up. Approach the woman. Instigate conversation. Next thing you know.....she just might like you and no more cyber sex. Its not rocket science!
 IdoDares1

Joined: 11/19/2007
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/19/2009 4:35:47 AM
My guess is Yaaajustme dug up this 4 year old thread just to stir the pot. Afterall no posts since 2005 then suddenly bring it up and stir folks up.
 boinkboinkboink

Joined: 3/20/2009
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Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/19/2009 8:05:39 AM

My thoughts on cyber sex...... The majority of people who participate in cyber sex are just lonely people. Shy. Insecure. Intimidated. Non-social. Home bodies.


Judgemental, twit! Many are happily involved in relationships. I am one of these people. Granted it is a long distace relationship, but it has lasted for almost two years. In that time I have spent several months in person with her. I think I am doing much better than many of you WITH your picture attempting to develop in person relationships. When we are attempting to maintain a relationship from a distance a computer, camera, and microphone is all we have, and helps greatly to maintain our relationship so it can grow to the next stage in 8 months time when she finally moves to my place.

Is it any wonder why many of you are single. You are so closed minded! I love this site! Doing the absolute opposite of what is advised by the majority of the people here has GREATLY assisted my current relationship! Very, very educational!
 sevenbishops

Joined: 9/11/2009
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Posted: 9/19/2009 6:13:16 PM
"Judgemental, twit! Many are happily involved in relationships. I am one of these people."

If you are in a relationship thats doing so well....why are you still on here? Probably because you have no life. Same as for people who cyber sex. Pathetic! Say what you want after this...I expect you to. But no matter what...... YOU participate in cyber sex, have a relationship through a computer and you are still on a dating site. Very educating. Thanks for the laugh!
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 9/19/2009 6:42:47 PM
WOW someone in particular is on a moral high horse!!!
Holy heck ya better lock over half the people here up in a cell!!!
Quick go get help you sex offenders!!!!
That was sooooooooo entertaining!!!
 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 75
Why do people cyber sex
Posted: 9/19/2009 6:50:31 PM
sevenbishops: This comment is generally pointed towards the men......

I found this thread quite interesting. The reason being, a high % of people who were "for" cyber sex, did not even have a pic. Wierd huh!

My thoughts on cyber sex...... The majority of people who participate in cyber sex are just lonely people. Shy. Insecure. Intimidated. Non-social. Home bodies.

I do not look down on these people. I feel sorry for them.

Get out of your house. Stop masterbating. Be social. Make friends. Make plans. Go to restaurants, bars, clubs, sports events, social gatherings, etc......Grab your balls. Man up. Approach the woman. Instigate conversation. Next thing you know.....she just might like you and no more cyber sex. Its not rocket science!




This was generally commented towards the men, but I want to add.......cyber sex is only ONE of many variations of stimulating oneself/intimacy - it doesn't necessarily mean a person that partakes in this is sitting in front of their monitors having cyber sex all day/night lol because they have nothing better to do.

It may not be for everyone, but I say the imagination can be a pretty AWESOME thing to exercise in more ways than ONE!!!
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