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 roguevampire
Joined: 5/8/2009
Msg: 49
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Why is there such fear of being alone? If something is meant to be, it will happen, if its not, then it won't. Nothing you do will change that. People seem to be so scared of not finding someone. You can't force things. If love is meant to find you, it will.
 VoxClamantis
Joined: 2/19/2008
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Separated?
Posted: 6/6/2012 9:18:13 AM
The first thing you need to do is get divorced? I don't know about the UK but here in the US separated means still married.

Still separated after three years means torching to me.
 MyHandsHurt
Joined: 4/9/2012
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Too Fussy maybe?
Posted: 6/10/2012 2:15:32 PM
You are over thinking all this. You will give yourself such anxiety, or worse, panic attacks.
Don't LOOK for love. Look at these dates as "duty dates." They are designed to get you out of the house and out of your head. That's IT! Put no more thought into it.
Look hot and be good to yourself -- in the moment, each and every moment.
 Tristle
Joined: 9/11/2010
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Too Fussy maybe?
Posted: 6/10/2012 4:13:39 PM
I'm one of those 'date but nothing serious' (playa). maybe you should date but nothing serious. I wouldn't just not date cause you're not ready for it. dating us supposed to be fun dammit
 HeyDerHay
Joined: 5/22/2012
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Too Fussy maybe?
Posted: 6/13/2012 10:45:43 AM
For me personally a disturbing trend is all the "single" people out there who have decided not to keep a relationship with their children's' Father/Mother. I wouldn't put a natural gut instinct out of the equation if you're scared about "dating." You're very good looking by the way and I'm sure lots of guys would be willing to go with you. That doesn't mean it's right.
 WanderingRain
Joined: 3/9/2008
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Too Fussy maybe?
Posted: 6/14/2012 8:08:26 PM
In my experience living my short human life, I learned that you don't "find" love.
It's already inside you. All you got to do is release it.

Personally, I don't give a flip if someone doesn't find me.
I give my love away to whoever crosses my path. Whether it be the grocery clerk or the pharmacy lady... little bits of love for people we meet daily... I find it's enough for me to be happy about without finding that "one true love" .
 Stu-m-81
Joined: 12/2/2011
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Too Fussy maybe?
Posted: 6/15/2012 12:27:34 PM
I am horrendously fussy ! waaaay too fussy for someone of my looks in fact.

I also don't see the point in settling for second best - Why reach for the stars but settle for the moon ?!

I think it doesn't matter how fussy you are, or are not. I think what really matters is how you interpret other people.

I met someone who met every single one of my 'requirements' and filled about 2,000,000 more that i hadn't even thought of and.... typically, she was with someone - so i know that women like her exist, i've just got to find 'my' one.

Everything happens for a reason (fate) so i'll just keep looking until Fate crosses our paths =)
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 3/19/2012
Msg: 56
Too Fussy maybe?
Posted: 6/15/2012 12:33:06 PM
I am horrendously fussy ! waaaay too fussy for someone of my looks in fact.

I also don't see the point in settling for second best - Why reach for the stars but settle for the moon ?!


hey, I'm not THAT bad...

sheesh...


VVV


REALLY bad pun (shooting for the stars rather than settling for moon... which is a nickname I have from some. But when you have to explain a joke; it's not very punny)
 Stu-m-81
Joined: 12/2/2011
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Too Fussy maybe?
Posted: 6/15/2012 12:44:48 PM

I am horrendously fussy ! waaaay too fussy for someone of my looks in fact.

I also don't see the point in settling for second best - Why reach for the stars but settle for the moon ?!

hey, I'm not THAT bad...

sheesh...


Esqueeze me ? (lol)

*confused*
 MillwoodsVal
Joined: 5/31/2012
Msg: 58
Too Fussy maybe?
Posted: 6/15/2012 6:19:34 PM
Go on the dates (unless the guy gives you the heeby Jeebies), if he behaves well go on a second or third date. If not then walk away. It may just get you out of the house and you have a new friend. Not everyman is suitable but it doesnt hurt to get out. Friend dates are important too.
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