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 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
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Lascivious adoxography of an erotic nature


^^
that worked




*fans herself*
 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:48:32 AM

Lascivious
That is a positively delicious word, I've always loved the ring to it.. often less than inspiring in actuality though.
 Hitchensesque
Joined: 1/8/2012
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:48:46 AM
I think your question is a sign of exactly how pathetically picky women are today. Instead of just accepting a compliment graciously, you must look a gift horse in the mouth and pick over the gesture to find fault with it. This is complete and utter nonsense, and you would do well to consider that a guy went out of his way to tell you in so many words that he thought you were beautiful. My problem is more than your interpretation of the remark, but that you must question it at all. Perhaps you would be more satisfied if a gent told you you were ugly? Jesus! Once upon a time, compliments were considered chivalrous. Women like you who comb over men to pick out flaws give decent women a hard time...
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 754
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:50:23 AM

Lascivious adoxography of an erotic nature


^^
that worked


"Your beauty is that which is etheral and eternal, the way water shines across a swan`s wings after her first flight. The mystery of your eyes is more fascinating than the darkest moonlight sky."

Means "Your Hot!". Sounds a helluva lot better LOL.
Make an effort.
 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
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Posted: 6/12/2012 11:13:14 AM

Women like you who comb over men to pick out flaws give decent women a hard time..



noooooo... women like men to....



Make an effort.
 sddude
Joined: 12/9/2007
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Posted: 6/12/2012 11:25:35 AM
I have had women reject me because of my shoes were not shiney enough or cool enough.
Very true in fact some of my female friends say women actually judge guys by their shoes, one thing of thousands knickpics. Yes I try and have worked hard , but the shoes OH MY God!!! The shoes killed me ....mmmmm or is it because I am short ?

Anyhow, if a woman told me I was hot my jaw would drop and I would pee my pants.

Woman should understand some are so attractive they deserve the title of HOT, remember it is only temporary , an 95 year old man or woman very rarely are called HOT and if they did their adult diaper would leak from the excitement or shock.

Take advantage of it, one day people will never even imagine you were ever hot and you will wish for those days.
 3ffervescent
Joined: 7/1/2010
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Posted: 6/12/2012 1:52:26 PM

Anyhow, if a woman told me I was hot my jaw would drop and I would pee my pants.


Time for the Adult diapers...
because you Sir sddude are SMOKIN' HOT!


Take advantage of it, one day people will never even imagine you were ever hot and you will wish for those days.


hmmmm,
--Time to dust off a 20 yo photo?
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
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Posted: 6/12/2012 5:08:44 PM
Women like you who comb over men to pick out flaws give decent women a hard time..

noooooo... women like men to.... {make an effort}

True, I agree. Of course, the thread topic about "You are Hot" IS about a guy who has sustained an effort, but on the SIDE, has said "You are Hot". Huge difference between a line dropped via a first-contact email just saying "You are Hot!!!" and nothing else. Plus, anyone can set their settings so that an email has to be X characters in length to avoid that.

Hoping a woman will let a guy get in her pants for sending a message with three words in it, is not going out of his way.

True, but again, that's not what the thread's about. It's about if it's ever said after an ongoing conversation as the weeks (long time!) go by.
 Gertrude13
Joined: 5/14/2012
Msg: 759
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Posted: 6/13/2012 4:35:41 PM

I think your question is a sign of exactly how pathetically picky women are today. Instead of just accepting a compliment graciously, you must look a gift horse in the mouth and pick over the gesture to find fault with it.


Geez. It's so irritating when someone tosses chum into the waters...

Guess what? If someone considers me "hot," or even "beautiful," it's not because of anything I've done. It's a genetic accident. Or impaired eyesight on his part. Whatever.

"hot" really would be a turnoff before I've met someone. "Hot" means Fvckable. If I haven't met someone, I'm not ready to consider if he's Fvckable. The fact that men are able to determine this based on a picture puzzles me, but I believe them...

It's not about picking out flaws. It's about choosing someone who is likely to be a match. If he feels the need to tell me I'm Fvckable before we've met, his goals might be different from mine, and he might not be interested in the qualities I have that would persist after gravity and time do their nefarious work.

Different strokes for different folks. If men think women SHOULD be flattered by compliments like "hot" or "sexy" prior to a meet, then they should say it. It'll scare off the ones he wouldn't have liked anyway.
 free4all59
Joined: 5/8/2012
Msg: 760
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Posted: 6/13/2012 11:40:18 PM

WHY do you have to comment on a woman’s looks at all?


because until we meet it is the only thing we know about you for sure.
besides no matter how much you protest it and deny it, you want to be complimented on your looks. The op has two pic's on her profile that just scream "look at me and how hot I am" so forgive the feller that she'd been talking to for saying what she's dying to hear.

besides any man who likes a woman for her mind would also like to mess with a rubicks cube for years(and never figure it out, he probably never will).

if I see an attractive woman that I want to compliment on here, I always add to the message that "I don't expect a reply" but that I just "wanted to pay (her) the compliment"
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
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Posted: 6/14/2012 1:01:50 AM
This now infamous thread has inspired a change of heart in me.

From this point on, I will no longer involve myself with any woman who is unable to offer me more than "hot" or "sexy" in her effort to compliment my appearance.

This will enable my local drug store to remain in business on my hand lotion purchases alone for at least the next 20 years.
 FootzbeulChris
Joined: 12/1/2010
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Posted: 6/14/2012 1:13:44 AM
She is completely right, ignore the comments on most old fashioned guys in here. Welcome to this new society and its population explosion, which has increased the desperation on males due to the amount of competition. If they want to say "you are hot" why not just say 'I like the way you maintain yourself' same compliment two different perspectives.
Contact me if there are any other questions. I'm a dating coach.
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 763
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Posted: 6/14/2012 4:40:04 AM

It's not about picking out flaws. It's about choosing someone who is likely to be a match. If he feels the need to tell me I'm Fvckable before we've met, his goals might be different from mine, and he might not be interested in the qualities I have that would persist after gravity and time do their nefarious work.


No.... Most guys use "hot" synonymous with "beautiful". Most guys use "hot" the same exact way women use "hot".

The problem is you. YOU are the one that assumes a guy is saying he'd bang you... Which, here in the real world of dating, is 99% of the reason that ANY guy is even talking to you.

SURPRISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Relationships that we form with one of their purposes being reproduction use sex as a factor in them....
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 764
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Posted: 6/14/2012 4:45:15 AM

Uh, because the second version is just as lame as the original based on some notion that it somehow sounds more erudite.


You know what... Let's give these girls what they think they want to hear. Let's start quoting poems and stuff for them, and really articulate our opinions of them. That's what they want, right? The thing that in literally every movie that you see it happen, it almost immediately leads to sex?
 3ffervescent
Joined: 7/1/2010
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Posted: 6/14/2012 4:50:37 AM

From this point on, I will no longer involve myself with any woman who is unable to offer me more than "hot" or "sexy" in her effort to compliment my appearance.


It was fun...
--but, you have your black shirt on in this photo...

I am only going to offer to throw you down and virtually "dry hump" you to within an inch of your life -- in the white shirt.
Unless,
of course you are prepared to remove 'said shirt' completely,
then Jelly Wrestling might be on the table, (or the floor or an even more appropriate setting)

because you Mr Pig, are the Swine of fantasies--


This will enable my local drug store to remain in business on my hand lotion purchases alone for at least the next 20 years.


Got to love the local store...
Mine has a great stock of batteries.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 6/14/2012 5:19:36 AM

You know what... Let's give these girls what they think they want to hear.

The crux of this is that you think we want to hear anything at all - and this is proof of it. Admire the beauty if you absolutely have to, and move on. Leave us out of it.
 grizzelda
Joined: 6/25/2006
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Posted: 6/14/2012 5:40:05 AM

You know what... Let's give these girls what they think they want to hear.

The crux of this is that you think we want to hear anything at all - and this is proof of it. Admire the beauty if you absolutely have to, and move on. Leave us out of it.


The irony of this is that this really isnt about the woman at all in most cases. Who she is, is completely irrelevant, its more about a stranger seeing an female body he would have sex with if given the opportunity, it doesnt matter if she is as dumb as a bag of rocks or a Mensa candidate, he isnt paying any attention to who the person behind the tits and ass is, that isnt important to him, its all about the body parts and what HE wants to do to IT.

What many men dont get is that for a lot of women, we know this, we have been exposed to this behavior since our teenage years, some more than others, so this isnt a compliment at all, its some idiot spitting out a thought that is about as relevant to who she is as what the price of bananas is that day in Lower Slovobia. Some women see this as a compliment, some dont. Either way, NO ONE has to behave a certain way to any comments.
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 6/14/2012 5:45:53 AM

NJ_Phil:
Another twist to the "You are Hot" topic is this.

You see someone really attractive, email, text, meet.. Damn Is she freakin Hawt or what. Feels like you died and went to heaven.

Then you meet.. No, don't touch my hair, I just did it.

LMAO!

You'd better not be talking about me.

And the answer is still no - you may not touch my hair. :-D
 NJ_Phil
Joined: 10/1/2011
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Posted: 6/14/2012 8:33:59 AM

LMAO!
You'd better not be talking about me.
And the answer is still no - you may not touch my hair. :-D


At the time I wrote that, it wasn't about you....but remarkably you have fallen into that category. Duh 'ya think?
What is it with women and the "Don't touch my hair" thing. Running my fingers through your hair..(cough), I mean someone's hair, is a complete turn on.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
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Posted: 6/14/2012 8:38:28 AM
What is it with women and the "Don't touch my hair" thing. Running my fingers through your hair..(cough), I mean someone's hair, is a complete turn on.


Haha, right dude.
I'm mean with that tho. I usually am not fussy with stuff, but when I guet weird azz demands like that, I usually take on a twisted grin, pull out my lighter and go "Okay...can I light up your hair? Won't be an issue when you don't got none..."
I dunno. If someone is so touchy about themselves, I wouldnt date them. You can touch me wherever you want, I think the same courtesy should be extended in return (xcept the back door; off limitz to everyone)
 Eagle Fish
Joined: 7/14/2009
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Posted: 6/14/2012 8:42:16 AM

Guys, I have a problem here. I want your opinion men and women. If someone you started to chat/text whatever, and after a while before you meet them they will say You Are Hot do you think they are break dealers. I find very insulting and I stop contacting them. Thank you


Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you…. The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her.’”

I have no idea what I’m talking about?
 ThusSpokeZarathustra
Joined: 4/24/2012
Msg: 772
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Posted: 6/14/2012 8:46:02 AM

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you…. The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her.’”

And takes her for long walks on the beach.
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 773
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Posted: 6/14/2012 9:08:44 AM

I am only going to offer to throw you down and virtually "dry hump" you to within an inch of your life -- in the white shirt.

because you Mr Pig, are the Swine of fantasies--


What will I get for wearing an all white Elvis style jumpsuit?
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 774
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Posted: 6/14/2012 9:17:55 AM
What will I get for wearing an all white Elvis style jumpsuit?


Dunno about her, but if you let me film, I can get your own spot on Youtube

lol


Mine has a great stock of batteries


Growl, someone is naurghtieeeeee ;-)
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 775
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Posted: 6/14/2012 9:39:55 AM

The crux of this is that you think we want to hear anything at all - and this is proof of it. Admire the beauty if you absolutely have to, and move on. Leave us out of it.


It's a safe bet that MOST women crave that attention. They want to hear the guys make comments.

Women don't wear a top that is barely fitting your boobs in it because you want to have a really deep conversation about politics with a guy.

Women don't wear form fitting clothes so that a guy will notice their new haircut.

Maybe YOU take offense to it, but walk down the street one day... And really look at how many girls you'll pass that are looking for that attention ;)
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