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Are you saying every single man you have known is "insecure in their manhood, and their penises"? Every single one of them, never met a one who wasn't?
Well….I haven’t discussed penises with every man I’ve known, so the answer would be, no.
When a man is insecure, he lets ya know, loud and clear. Over and over and over.
‘Is it too small?’
‘If I was bigger you’d like it more.’
‘I’m too small to satisfy you.’
‘You like him better, don’t you?’
Blah blah blah.
Then of course he wants me to measure it for him and then I have to lie about the result. 
Also. It’s no trick to determine an insecure man, as a woman. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 7:59:26 PM | fleuron, you said every man you've known whether you had sex with them or not has been 'insecure in their manhood'!
I would take that as a general bashing of ALL Men. Is that what you meant to say, that every man in the world is insecure in their manhood? That is how I read your words and I asked but you deflected the question and went off on a tangent about penise size. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 8:15:15 PM | Moonbeamlover,
Your post made me laugh quite hard. Thank you.
Cosmo is just about the funniest magazine in the world, IMO.
I will not try any "sumo lap jump on him in the middle of sex," now that I have this important information.
I am so relieved that I know. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 8:46:53 PM | One on one men I’ve known (though not necessarily had sex with)
fleuron, you said every man you've known whether you had sex with them or not has been 'insecure in their manhood'!
I would take that as a general bashing of ALL Men. Is that what you meant to say, that every man in the world is insecure in their manhood? That is how I read your words and I asked but you deflected the question and went off on a tangent about penise size.
behind blue eyes... I think you accidentally twisted her words from her intent. She said one on one men she knew , not every man she knew let alone every man in the world... (one on one I'd take as some romantically, not every single last one she knew, let alone painting that over everyone she didn't...)
That was how I read what she said anyways. Peace :)
Moonbeamlover,
Your post made me laugh quite hard. Thank you.
Cosmo is just about the funniest magazine in the world, IMO.
I will not try any "sumo lap jump on him in the middle of sex," now that I have this important information.
I am so relieved that I know.
adora, LOL; tell me about it. Some of those questions were wicked twisted; but that one took the cake for "what the heck were they smoking when they came up with THAT?" (though if there is anyone bitter and angry in here better not give anyone any ideas lol)
VVV
and another one gets it :) *cheers* | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 8:49:27 PM | | As far as I can tell, "You're hot" is, at best, an unimaginative and meaningless complement, and, at worst, a complete sexual objectification. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 9:05:25 PM |
"You're hot" is, at best, an unimaginative and meaningless complement,
Unimaginative? So is:
You have nice eyes. Your hair looks great. You have a nice smile. Literally every possible complement that isn't about the girls body (eg. complementing a talent in art, music, cooking, baking, sewing, etc). Reciting poetry / song lyrics.
get the idea?
It doesn't matter if you say "you're hot" or you compare her beauty to some flower.... It's a lame, cliched, line. Why go through the effort of memorizing a poem when you can just say a simple 2 word sentence?
The delivery will never change the meaning. You guys really need to get that out of your head. The girls in this thread do not want to be complemented, PERIOD. They think it's only the phrase "you're hot", but in the epic words of Stiffler's brother: "You have nice eyes. That's a really nice top. Wanna ****?" | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 9:20:49 PM | behind blue eyes:
fleuron, you said every man you've known whether you had sex with them or not has been 'insecure in their manhood'!
I would take that as a general bashing of ALL Men. Is that what you meant to say, that every man in the world is insecure in their manhood? That is how I read your words and I asked but you deflected the question and went off on a tangent about penise size.
How did I deflect?
Me:
Well….I haven’t discussed penises with every man I’ve known, so the answer would be, no.
Why ask for clarification and then ignore me? I think YOU wanted to go on a tangent, no matter how I responded.
How you choose to take it is entirely up to you, however; that’s not what I said.
Moonbeamlover:
behind blue eyes... I think you accidentally twisted her words from her intent. She said one on one men she knew , not every man she knew let alone every man in the world... (one on one I'd take as some romantically, not every single last one she knew, let alone painting that over everyone she didn't...)
Thanks, Moonbeam. :)
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Posted: 6/22/2012 10:03:49 PM | Here's the first post
fleuron
One on one men I’ve known (though not necessarily had sex with) have been insecure in their manhood, and their penises. I would imagine degrading and demeaning women somehow makes some men feel better about their perceived inadequacies.
So how were you involved in a D!CK measuring contest with the men you didn't have sex with?
Then there's the 'one one men I've known', I read this as every man you have known personally has been insecure in his manhood.
You may have meant it differently, but that's the way it comes across. It may just be a thing of text based communication, but that's the way it reads to me.
Then again maybe it's your picker and you pick insecure men. I can say in my 58 years I've never asked a women if I was big enough. Then I may just be secure in my size & manhood, so I never felt the need to ask. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 10:33:59 PM | Oh, FFS. Obviously I’m talking about someone I was having sex with. I didn’t measure random c0cks that happened to be walking by. How did it become a contest? That might be fun on Ladies’ Night, like the butt check at the door.
You are taking this WAY too personally. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 10:57:38 PM | Then why say "though not necessarily had sex with" when you're talking about men you're having sex with? The way you posted sounded like every man you have ever known was "insecure in their manhood", which could also be relatives or platonic friends too.
The term manhood refers to more than the size of their d!ck, it's everything that makes them unique as a male. Just as womanhood is the things that make you unique as a woman and diferent from a gender neutral being. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 11:05:47 PM | Oh, Subway...
Good idea (I was wondering what I would do for dinner tonight)
-but I think the foot long is too big
Meatball sub it is... | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 11:05:47 PM |
I wish I had a 12 incher.
Why ? you think women would tell you "You are Hot!!!" You'd be a sex object, you don't want that, do you ? ;-)
^^^^
Mememto.. you screwed up... a 12 incher is not enough... you need meatballs too! ... I suspect that they also want some variety... like swedish... italian ... and some like them spicy! You need to expand your menu! | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 11:20:27 PM | | Sometimes you walk in just for a footlong and end up with an unexpected side of chowder. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 11:22:05 PM |
The term manhood refers to more than the size of their d!ck
Covered that in Msg. 1006.
I think you’re proving my point.
I wish I had a 12 incher.
Oh, Subway...
I’m suddenly ravenous. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2012 11:37:06 PM | fleuron:
you're very welcome. I knew what you meant :)
holy cow... leave for a while and come back and the hot room is suddenly flooded with a whole bunch of big and spicy meat...
and not a twizzler in sight... | |
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Posted: 6/23/2012 12:50:26 AM |
justlookingvt: ive already got 2 meatballs, just need the footlong.
Don't tell me!! Look at Fleuron, she is ravenous!! Ask her if she wants sweedish or italian with her order ;-) | |
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Posted: 6/23/2012 12:55:25 AM | | Fleuron I read all your posts in this thread and it sounded like Misandry to me and that surprised me as I didn't of you that way. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2012 8:09:32 AM | | I agree, "Your Hot" generally means your appearance has done something for them in most cases. I think you should approach this on a case by case level as not every man uses this euphimisim to imply sexual content. I also agree that more than likely the persons profile will read "not looking for anything serious", in that case, I would thank them and move on. No need to be rude. Im older than you considerably and get this remark quite frequently, sometimes if your converse with the person you find they actually do have more depth than first displayed. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2012 8:13:34 AM | | LOl, so true and hilarious!!!!!!! BAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/23/2012 8:30:38 AM |
Fleuron I read all your posts in this thread and it sounded like Misandry to me and that surprised me as I didn't of you that way.
I’m sorry you choose to misunderstand me even after clarification.
You’re so wrong. I love men. :heartyou:
ETA
Fleuron I wanna go with for girls night out..............I have the ruler ;)
Spitfireee, it’s on.
Hope we don’t end up on CNN. :wink:
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Posted: 6/23/2012 9:12:51 AM |
"Your Hot" generally means your appearance has done something for them in most cases.
Absolutely. I would think something like "You look nice this evening" would carry less weight than "You know what? You are hot." The latter is bolder to someone you don't know, and there can be issues about it being given or taken too strongly, but the whole issue of it not really meaning they find the gal physically attractive is kind of silly.
I think you should approach this on a case by case level as not every man uses this euphimisim to imply sexual content.
I think it's guilt-by-association. Just as a simple "You're hot" is a quick, simplified statement (ie general), it's generalizing in return if/when the woman thinks in any context or tone, that the guy MUST be the same as stereotypical construction worker whistling at a cute gal walking down the sidewalk. And of course, even if it does seem a bit that way, ya can't say said guy doesn't find you physically attractive. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2012 11:27:58 AM |
Fleuron I wanna go with for girls night out..............I have the ruler ;)
I guess it's time to put that extender I got at Home Depot to good use! :-) I knew there was a reason I bought the dang thing! :-) | |
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Posted: 6/23/2012 12:18:49 PM | yes! lol
if a men tells me I'm HOT with the intention of thinking that that's what he needs to say to get me into his bed, i would prefer cutting his balls off or perhaps crushing his balls but since i could get jailed for that, i would simply just put them on my blocked list and move on! They clearly want to get laid! | |
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Posted: 6/23/2012 1:00:24 PM |
if a men tells me I'm HOT with the intention of thinking that that's what he needs to say to get me into his bed, i would prefer cutting his balls off or perhaps crushing his balls but since i could get jailed for that
gujifijian78, You are Hot!!! .... tempered! | |
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Posted: 6/24/2012 10:43:37 AM | | So when I'm in the store or something, and the cashier tells me that I have nice eyes... Is she up to more than just giving me a complement? | |
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