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 ExitingTheStage
Joined: 5/25/2011
Msg: 976
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There should be an automatic internal POF thread eliminator that can detect redundantly stupid threads that are hot.
 ExitingTheStage
Joined: 5/25/2011
Msg: 977
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 7/24/2012 8:35:16 PM
It's been awhile.
Almost seems like my last post did it's job?

It's all the same threads hashed over and over and over....

Annoying... like this thread.
 enterurusername
Joined: 4/9/2012
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Posted: 7/24/2012 9:23:16 PM
I know I'm insanely good looking, I don't need someone else's confirmation.
 Plenty_of_FreeTime
Joined: 10/26/2011
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Posted: 7/24/2012 9:30:51 PM
I think it has a lot to do with geographics,back in the beach cities of So Cal the expression "You are hot" is pretty common place and most will take it as a compliment.
Hey it beats the hell out of being called,"You are cold"!
 Butterfliesbloomed
Joined: 7/9/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2012 12:32:51 AM
how about being approached on the street and asked for you number "because you're hot"? Would most people be offended by that?
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 981
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Posted: 7/25/2012 8:28:33 AM

how about being approached on the street and asked for you number "because you're hot"? Would most people be offended by that?


I guarantee you they wouldn't be here to complain about it.

There was a thread about approaching women, and I think it really fits this topic too. Pretty much the best way to put it:

If they're interested in the guy, they probably won't have a problem with it.
If they're not interested, he's a creep just looking for sex.

I think most people know that's the reason that the initial approach ever happens. But it seems like they don't want to accept that as reality.

But then there's the people who say it lacks originality... There's not really anything else you can say that's any better though.
 bostonkev
Joined: 6/5/2008
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partyon
Posted: 7/25/2012 9:15:32 AM
would love to party with both of you. you are way hott
 JoeClyde0853
Joined: 6/22/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2012 10:36:57 AM
I think most people are here to meet a potential partner. Guys should be upfront with women. If they find her sexually attractive. I think the women should know this upfront. So that she doesn't have plausible deniabilty and places the guy in the "friendzone". Knowing full well he has aspirations of sleeping with her.

I doubt you would consider the comment a dealbreaker to a guy you were equally attracted too. So in actuality. He is saying the both of you time and money. Honesty is the best policy.
 Tall-Italian-Prize-1980
Joined: 4/5/2012
Msg: 984
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Posted: 7/25/2012 10:40:19 AM
How about you don't drink n type, there should be a breathalyzer attached to your computer . LMFAO !!!! And if a man tells you your hot prior to meeting u in person, u should be elated n thankful n repay that generous man by performing multitudes of felatio upon him.
 ComplekCity
Joined: 1/17/2011
Msg: 985
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Posted: 7/25/2012 10:46:05 AM

I want your opinion men and women. If someone you started to chat/text whatever, and after a while before you meet them they will say You Are Hot do you think they are break dealers.


It would be irrellevant to me whether or not they sold automotive parts.
 surfaceofficer
Joined: 8/8/2011
Msg: 986
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Posted: 7/25/2012 10:50:55 AM

how about being approached on the street and asked for you number "because you're hot"? Would most people be offended by that?


No...but I still wouldn't give them my number. If she thinks I'm THAT caliente...why not give me HER number?
 mtpassengerseat
Joined: 12/8/2010
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Posted: 7/25/2012 10:53:02 AM
let's face it, it's completely different for men and women

dudes don't really hear it all that much or get approached randomly.....so it's different

now an attractive woman hears it how many times in a week?

now whispered in my ear, as you walk by ====Hot

slurred to me @ last call=== not so much
 _Full_of_Awesome_
Joined: 6/26/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2012 11:32:27 AM

how about being approached on the street and asked for you number "because you're hot"? Would most people be offended by that?


I would love it!
 basschops
Joined: 5/2/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2012 12:38:01 PM
geeze alot of women wana be called hot, be flattered
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 7/25/2012 12:48:54 PM
'What causes a woman to be "hot" generally for a guy? I think all it takes is to not be dead, mostly...how flattering.
 mtpassengerseat
Joined: 12/8/2010
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Posted: 7/25/2012 1:12:17 PM
^^^^

stop talking to the dudes still discovering fire and painting on cave walls
 MusicFred
Joined: 3/2/2011
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Posted: 7/25/2012 1:30:10 PM
I wouldnt :p I like people who have good taste (haha its a JOKE)
 1968bobwi
Joined: 7/2/2011
Msg: 993
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Posted: 7/25/2012 2:12:51 PM
I always thought "You are Hot" was a immature thing to say to a mature woman.
 Serephena
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 994
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Posted: 7/25/2012 5:35:08 PM
I agree. I cannot stand when a total stranger starts talking to me on here and says sweetie, cutie, baby, hun, etc. Those to me are nicknames that should be saved for people in a relationship. For a complete stranger to talk to me like that irritates me, they are obviously talking to all the women on here like that and I think it is disrespectful. It just screams "player" to me.
 Butterfliesbloomed
Joined: 7/9/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2012 5:42:56 PM
I think there's a problem with some women who are constantly getting hit on because of their looks, most women don't want to be reduced to just a piece of meet. I think i would like the looks to not even matter to be honest, but it isn't so. we live in a very shallow society. Do people realize how disrespectful they are being by putting so much value on beauty anyway? I am not blaming anybody because its in in bedded in us but still... i wish as a society we would be a little more evolved. If someone i'm dating compliments me that im pretty, i would hope to good they put no value in my looks, and hope they ONLY value who i am as a person, as a being.
 Happy Dude 63
Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 996
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Posted: 7/25/2012 8:05:56 PM
You dont want to be considered hot?

What were you going for in the Red Dress pic? Demure?? I dont think so.

:}

Anyway, tell a guy when he says that, that it makes you uncomfortable. Many guys have only a few tools in their bag to compliment a lady. For some guys Your Looks is their best one.
 sweetnsmiles
Joined: 6/14/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2012 8:18:39 PM
Take it as a compliment that anyone even emailed u in the first place and took and interest in u. sometimes guys dont know what to say and find themselves saying something cheesey or whatever. just be happy that someone took an interest in you. because the man is suppose to choose you, ur not supposed to choose him.
 Happy Dude 63
Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 998
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Posted: 7/25/2012 8:25:41 PM
When I am first getting to know a lady I never talk about her looks. I feel it is obvious I am attracted to her, so in my eyes of course she is hot.

Besides saying you are HOT is boring. HOT...big deal...Let me figure out something about you. HOT is easy. EVERY guy sees you are HOT.

I am not lazy when it comes to you. Let me listen to you and hear you.
HOT is not gonna keep me happy. Your mind and soul will..HOT is just some more spice, that we need.

Hot...HOT..hehehe You are HOT...now love me!
 sweetnsmiles
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Posted: 7/25/2012 8:29:02 PM
and when guys call u sweetie, cutie, hun, baby, ect, they are the ones that are trying to show affection, not players. theyre trying to get u comfortable with them and trying to make a connection. southern guys are just charming and its their nature to say those words regardless and some ppl take it as flirting and i know its just their charm. i call a lot of ppl sweetie as well. its just my nature.
 whatagirlwants12
Joined: 3/13/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2012 8:30:54 PM
Insulted? No
Heck after 40 someone thinks you're hot enjoy it, doesnt mean someone that uses HOT as a description of you, you would consider dating....thats a different story.

Maybe In a few years you'll not have to worry about such offensive comments.......???????
I guess I'm just not easily offended....
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