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Posted: 4/19/2012 12:31:06 PM | I think this is right up there with kiss or no kiss, someone
calling you sweetheart, honey, etc.
It all depends who says it.
If I think the person is attractive, I don't mind kisses, pet
names or being called hot.
If I don't find the guy attractive, if in fact I find him unattractive
or gross, then all of the above are clearly gross.
It's all in the context.
Finally......an honest woman! Thank you!
The way I see it,even if I am not attracted to them,it's still a compliment.
And I'm not an overly analytical snob, with a chip on my shoulder,'protecting myself' from 'socially inept',sex fiending,unattractive men who have the "audacity" to tell me I'm hot! lol.
THE NERVE of some men......sheesh! | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 1:09:01 PM |
And I'm not an overly analytical snob, with a chip on my shoulder,'protecting myself' from 'socially inept',sex fiending,unattractive men who have the "audacity" to tell me I'm hot! lol.
Again, you show yourself unable to partake in logical debate without having to resort to assumptions and insults.
I thought you were a bit more grown up than that, hearton. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 1:13:28 PM | Of some guy messaged me with "You are Hot!!!" I would question his mentality level.
That is just childish.
If a man messaged me that "I was attractive" then were talking the same language.
I wouldn't want a boy, I would want a man.
And one who could speak like a man. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 1:14:54 PM | Why is offensive?
Hot means you´re sexy, not horny | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 1:44:37 PM | Ditto this:
"I wouldn't want a boy, I would want a man.
And one who could speak like a man."
Good point; basically what I was attempting to say.
ms.t.d. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 1:48:28 PM | | Message 108, I agree but you left out PRUDE, lmfao. And we all know how that equates in a sexual nature. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 1:49:39 PM | | Some women have a profound effect on a man's initial communication skills. It's akin to being stranded in the desert and having an ice cream truck pull up and hand you a gallon of your favorite flavour. Brain freeze or something | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 1:51:41 PM |
Guys, I have a problem here. I want your opinion men and women. If someone you started to chat/text whatever, and after a while before you meet them they will say You Are Hot do you think they are break dealers. I find very insulting and I stop contacting them. Thank you
Lol, what's a man supposed to do. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:02:26 PM | Igor:
Sounds to me, that you have come through direct experience, to associate that phrase (or something like it) with a guy who is so focused on your physical attributes, that he entirely forgets about you as a person. Exactly.
But maybe you have an overall issue with yourself here, too. I have known a number of women over the years, who never resolved the conflict within themselves between wanting to be found sexually attractive, and being appreciated as a person. Interesting.. are you suggesting that these women have some type of base internal conflict or that they have developed one as a reaction to how men perceive and react to them?
I don't know about the Op, but for me its a matter of focus and degree. I can tell when a man is primarily focused on physical appearance, to the point that they tend to project what they want to see onto me in regard to all the rest, as opposed to actually getting to know me.
But someone simply telling me that I am hot in a message would not be the sole factor in determining this. Especially if I was interested enough to keep up some form of correspondence to begin with, which is what it sounds like in the Op. Not just an initial 'ur hot' message which is pretty much a universal turn off. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:03:21 PM | I have no problem with a woman saying that to me. Although when I look in the mirror I cannot see any reason why a sane woman with eyesight would think that I am hot. Not trying to make fun of myself but I can't see any reason that a man like me would be considered hot.
Ladies if you wish feel free to prove me wrong. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:08:42 PM | | Some men will tell ANY woman that she is hot; it is a ploy to lower her defenses. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:11:07 PM |
Ladies if you wish feel free to prove me wrong.
Well, ifin I was 20 some years younger, I might think you're hot, but I would say good looking, handsome or maybe even just cute, I know a lot of men cringe at the word cute being used to describe them :evilgrin: :o)
But, then you seem to be itching for compliments so maybe I wouldn't ...
Who really knows?! | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:13:59 PM | You're gonna have to get rid of Cheyenne and Bella if you don't want cute competition, is all I'm saying.
Be reasonable, Cheyenne's even got snow on his nose.
Naaawwww... | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:15:59 PM |
You are Hot!!!
Thank you!
You're not my type though. I prefer thin women. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:26:51 PM |
You're gonna have to get rid of Cheyenne and Bella if you don't want cute competition, is all I'm saying.
Be reasonable, Cheyenne's even got snow on his nose.
Sheesh, now he knows I was really looking at the last picture and didn't pay any attention to the others! :o) | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:27:25 PM | when a guy does blurt out "You are HOT!" at an early meeting, respond by saying (accurately) "No, you are feeling hot, and blaming it on me. I am still just beginning to try to get to know you." This sort of answer might give a guy who is capable of calming down and being a gentleman, the opportunity to do so. If the guy wont get off of that "you are sooooo hot" routine after, though, you can feel quite comfortable discarding him, for having proved that he is indeed just a slavering horn-dog.
what Igor said | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:27:34 PM |
But, then you seem to be itching for compliments so maybe I wouldn't ...
One would think I suppose. Now that you mention it that might have came off in a way that I did not intend for it too. Really I could care less what people think of my appearance because I'm more of an inner beauty type of person (although outer beauty is considered a plus in my mind but it's nothing without good inner beauty) but I really was just trying to say that though I don't expect too many women would find me hot on the outside, if one did say that I would not be put off or think bad of her because she said it.
If you do think I look good on the outside DreamerKel, well then thank you. If not life goes on. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:28:44 PM |
You're gonna have to get rid of Cheyenne and Bella if you don't want cute competition, is all I'm saying.
Be reasonable, Cheyenne's even got snow on his nose.
Yes dogs win cuteness contests over humans 99% of the time I suppose. By the way both Cheyenne and Bella are girl dogs. FYI | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:34:50 PM | I've heard it fairly often. While it's not as genteel perhaps, as other compliments - it's usually said in a positive way.
The only time I have trouble with lines like this is, if that's the ONLY aspect of me they concentrate on, and totally ignore other factors/interests that are likely to determine if we'll truly match up .
Then, I'm gone ... | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:37:12 PM | Gwen:
Some men will tell ANY woman that she is hot; it is a ploy to lower her defenses. A sad commentary that this would have any degree of success, which it obviously has or it wouldn't be so common.
I guess that's why it backfires with some. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:47:31 PM |
By the way both Cheyenne and Bella are girl dogs.
My apologies to Cheyenne. Ear rufflings and tummy rubs to both of them. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:49:10 PM | | you know your hot, so why the whinning? Be glad someone else likes you. God , I hate that! | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 2:58:41 PM | | There was a time I did not know how to take a compliment. They ALWAYS made me feel uncomfortable. I am not sure why, but I suspect it was because I felt I had to say something minimize the compliment. I don't do that anymore. I say, "thank-you for that," and conversation moves on. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2012 3:00:48 PM |
I find very insulting and I stop contacting them.
I'd take it as a compliment..........and all the more so if I am attracted to them.
Ehhh....I can see both sides. The problem is a lot of times that's the ONLY thing the guy say's....which more than likely means he's not interested in getting to know you.....he just want's to f*ck you. Your Hot = I wanna f*ck you (most of the time) | |
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