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 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 76
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OP how would you react to your gf being online telling guys how hot 'n sexy they are...while you are at work ??


hell, maybe she's even tellin 'em how good their ""packages"" look....
 zunflower
Joined: 4/14/2012
Msg: 77
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/22/2012 7:05:44 AM
I'd have serious problems with a man who was supposedly in a relationship with me and was chatting to girls on a dating site. It means that you are not deeply serious about your girlfriend and still want something on the side. If that wasn't the case, there are many social networking sites out there, including facebook and google plus.

In any event, what is your purpose in paying women compliments? To flatter them so that they can start something with you?
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 78
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/22/2012 7:36:08 AM
No, it's not cheating, but get off the dating site. You didn't make your profile to only talk.
 greenxblue
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 79
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/22/2012 8:45:48 AM
good morning, i like pof, im having some interesting chat conversation, with some nice people..)
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 80
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/22/2012 9:25:36 AM
Have those convos on Facebook, or omegle...

Nobody makes the conscious choice to come to a dating site just to talk to people. There's even dating forums that aren't on a dating site.

There's more to your story... It's like the guy that goes into a strip bar because he likes the beer...

Get off the dating site
 amore01
Joined: 2/14/2012
Msg: 81
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/22/2012 9:42:40 AM
this must prove that op is not getting the attention he desires from his gf and is now become an attention whore,and we are just feeding him.
 xgillybx
Joined: 11/24/2011
Msg: 82
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/22/2012 9:45:19 AM
My thoughts entirely! OP you're getting boring now!

(messages this short cannot be posted? Oh yes they can!)
 avalon_moon
Joined: 4/2/2011
Msg: 83
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/22/2012 10:14:58 AM
Yep, the Op's last message shows he had no intention of listening to anyone's views, it was all a ploy for attention. I feel sorry for his g/f.

Edit: message 87...quite possibly.
 fall-blossom
Joined: 3/22/2012
Msg: 84
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/22/2012 10:21:40 AM

Yep, the Op's last message shows he had no intention of listening to anyone's views, it was all a ploy for attention. I feel sorry for his g/f.

Maybe the OP just wanted to get a rise out of everyone in which he succeeded. He is probably laughing at us all.
 greenxblue
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 85
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/22/2012 11:10:48 AM
hi, i took the time to read all the posts here.. i never cheated on anyone.. and i would never..everyone is entitled to their opinion. i tried to delete this post, but the option is not there, im not laughing at everyone, im just laughing at u fall-blossom ;P
 RDA7272
Joined: 1/11/2012
Msg: 86
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 1:26:26 AM
cheating is anything you dont want your significant other to see, hear or read...end of story ladies and gentleman :)
 Mamiesmemory
Joined: 8/17/2008
Msg: 87
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Posted: 4/23/2012 9:02:29 AM
Well gals, write down this guys profile and block it. It is called weeding out the bad ones.
 MyNameWasTaken2
Joined: 2/14/2012
Msg: 88
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 9:41:02 AM
Why not focus your energy on flirting and working on your relationship with your girlfriend rather than looking for greener pastures here. You might be surprised how good things could be for you.
 bebhinn37
Joined: 5/18/2011
Msg: 89
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 12:27:50 PM
I don't this its wrong or considered cheating... but I am in a relationship and do complement woman on here. This is how I look at it..my girl knows that I have an ad on here cause I'm just looking for friends and I will tell my friend if they look cute that day. I would do that in front of my girl. It's not like I'm saying omg your hot and I want to have nasty sex with you!! Just you look cute..nothing wrong with that. I like to get complements. So I don't mind complementing back.
 sledgehammer79
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 90
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Posted: 4/23/2012 1:33:59 PM
Yes it is cheating. If you truly love someone you wouldn't be looking at other girls on a dating site. Yes this is a DATING site. End of story!
 Aura1shine
Joined: 3/2/2011
Msg: 91
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:10:48 PM
^^^^^^He is corrected! On top of that in your profile Intent: is looking for a relationship even in your status stated that you are not single/not looking!
 TLM82
Joined: 4/20/2012
Msg: 92
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Posted: 4/23/2012 2:19:01 PM
You are not cheating YET however you are putting yourself in a situation that will get you in trouble. Some woman will catch your eye and things will spiral down hill. As someone else stated that is what Facebook is for. NOT POF. To each his own but you are playing with fire and you are more than likely going to get burned.
 nitemonger
Joined: 4/7/2012
Msg: 93
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 2:59:42 PM
you hit the nail on the head.... i found out my ex was cheating on me via facebook (they had oral sex, and were PLANNING on meeting up again... ) and it was initiated by a married man who was trolling online to cheat on his wife. supposedly he was a good friend from long ago... so me thinks that the OP is someone who is trolling online to get his jollies, rather than actually working things out with his significant other. and my ex??? well, she's a sad case of a woman who i guess is always looking for men's validation. i was stupid into thinking she would be faithful to me.
 a_Libra_rising
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 94
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 3:04:01 PM
Yeah, the OP is cheating, going to cheat, has intentions of cheating. But so what? Not like anyone can stop him from cheating. Not even his girlfriend.
 nitemonger
Joined: 4/7/2012
Msg: 95
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 3:06:21 PM
TLM82, you said it correctly. he's putting himself in a position TO cheat. trying to delude himself into thinking he's not doing anything wrong, but going on a dating site, complimenting other women, is kind of like a "gateway" to cheating... he is looking to cheat. to deceive, trick, etc etc. if his girlfriend doesn't know, if it's a side conversation he doesn't want his GF to know about, it's cheating. i don't understand how some people just don't "get it"...
 ForReal1962
Joined: 4/2/2012
Msg: 96
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 4:35:01 PM
Seriously... Are you you kidding me??? We don't call it "shopping" If you are in a committed relationship you don't get on a singles website. You can compliment other women without being on a website.

Respect R E S P E C T.... That's what I am talking about.

If the tables were turned you would call us bad names.
 ForReal1962
Joined: 4/2/2012
Msg: 97
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 4:36:32 PM
Awesome response :) Best I have seen so far.
 greenxblue
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 98
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 5:52:48 PM
i wish this post would get deleted, im not a chetah!!
 marrieddeirram
Joined: 10/19/2011
Msg: 99
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 8:52:39 PM
Dude, I am Married. Why am I on here? Because half of the other people on here are married! Or Connected or whatever. I love the way these people all judge others, I suppose they are divine.

If you wanna chat, call a spade a spade. I compliment women all of the time! Lets face it their are some beautifull girls on here!

If they didn't want to be complimented then they would be dressed differently. Almost every pic shows cleavage or legs. I mean dang we are guys...Ladies and gents be nice!!!!
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 10:36:02 PM
Hmm. . complimenting people in the real world is different than going on a dating website, to compliment someone. Very different. If one is married, and has a profile on a dating website, what's that say about one's marriage?
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