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 greenxblue
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 98
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i wish this post would get deleted, im not a chetah!!
 marrieddeirram
Joined: 10/19/2011
Msg: 99
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 8:52:39 PM
Dude, I am Married. Why am I on here? Because half of the other people on here are married! Or Connected or whatever. I love the way these people all judge others, I suppose they are divine.

If you wanna chat, call a spade a spade. I compliment women all of the time! Lets face it their are some beautifull girls on here!

If they didn't want to be complimented then they would be dressed differently. Almost every pic shows cleavage or legs. I mean dang we are guys...Ladies and gents be nice!!!!
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 10:36:02 PM
Hmm. . complimenting people in the real world is different than going on a dating website, to compliment someone. Very different. If one is married, and has a profile on a dating website, what's that say about one's marriage?
 icallbs
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 101
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 10:55:03 PM
@November


If you correctly love this girlfriend and you desire her to be a part of your future, you will learn every way that you can to build on to the relationship you are trying to have. Love is like a bank, a love bank. With a relationship as your account, each and every thought or action is either a deposit or a withdrawl of that love bank account.


It's so reassuring to know that there are other people out there who believe this and know that the practices of our lives lead to the things that "happen" in them (there are exceptions, but for the most part we create our life by what we do on a daily basis). Rock on.

OP, i haven't yet read all the responses, but already I can say... wow. So glad you're not my bf.
 jennink26
Joined: 3/11/2012
Msg: 102
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 11:05:14 PM
It is definitely cheating.You log into a DATING site to flirt and compliment other women for fun? bullshit. You do it to boost your ego and get laid on the side since your gf works odd hours. I had an ex that did that shit and I found out and dumped him immediately. I found out because my friend was on the site as well and he hit on her, and since I had removed my profile at the time I had no idea it was going on, and she told me. I read the email and it was more than flirting. It was sexual in nature. So I'm sure you are doing more than complimenting women. Get a life. I hope she dumps you. People like you make it near impossible to trust anyone these days.
 jmark4
Joined: 7/3/2011
Msg: 103
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 11:38:38 PM
anyone that is with someone that is spending time online "complimenting" the woman is a purposely playing with fire. You are not going to shore up your relationship by talking to other women. Lets be adults here.

Cheating to me is doing something that you would not normally do when your partner is there. You sure wouldn't be complimenting these women if she was there!

Also guys like to say they are being nice when in reality they are putting out feelers to see how many and who will react to them. Then they are "friends", then more.

In my book you are playing with fire and you know it. Start putting the time you spend "complimenting" single girls into making your relationship better.

her working odd hours doesn't give you the right to do this. Also if you are so pure and innocent, give your user name and password to your girlfriend so you have accountability and have nothing to hide. Won't do it? didn't think so.

Maybe some others can't see what's up, but I do.
 jmark4
Joined: 7/3/2011
Msg: 104
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/23/2012 11:43:34 PM
married you've got to be kidding. lol

I guess then if a woman is dressing sexy we have a right to harass them or even aggressively pick up on, or have sex with them. I mean if they didn't they wouldn't dress that way, right?
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lol; omg; I really have heard it all. why do people get married or be in relationships if they are going to cheat. And then they have no conscious about it. No wonder our country is so f'd up.

I would love to know what cheaters tell their kids when they come home from school after cheating on their tests.

"well dad; if they didn't want us to cheat, they wouldn't have given us arms so we could write the answers on them, or hoodies so we could hide the answers in!"

lol; I truly have heard it all.

And dont answer for all men; I've never cheated and never will.
 dizzzelz
Joined: 7/13/2007
Msg: 105
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I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/24/2012 3:06:06 AM
damn lol its a complicated one, i didnt read all of the comments but what if you had this profile even before you met your girlfriend and you come here all the time not only to date maybe to make friends, but to be very honest giving a compliment for a guy is normal.

plus as far as you know what you are doing and going into i dont think so its cheating, coming on this site may be an addiction of the past maybe to catch up on friends but if you see a cute gorgeous girl u will say shes cute and what keep it to urself and if you said it how one can say its emotionally cheating damn man gimme a break lol i really dont know but i know if you know u r not cheating then ur not cheating it not that teleportaion is avaialable and thing and getting teleported and ppl cheating on computer, and i av heard someone saying about if your on facebook chatting then its fine, cumon facebook have goot tons of dating apps going on plus some random ppl add you and u do do, cheating is not good and i am not in favor of cheating look inside ur hart and you will get ur answer, in the mean time pass my compliment to them girls aswell i will tell them you were not cheating ;) simple
 icallbs
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 106
I'm not single..Is complementing women online considered cheating??
Posted: 4/24/2012 7:31:31 AM
OFF TOPIC: are all you text-speakers allergic to punctuation and separate sentences? Or does your smart phone not include punctuation keys? Run on sentences are hard enough to read; full paragraphs of them are impossible. By the way, the mark separating those two phrases was a semi-colon. It's a useful tool, just like periods, commas, and knowing where and when to use all of them.
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