| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 1:42:28 PM | | Perhaps the girl is afraid about HER cleanliness. if you put your fingers in there, chances are you are gonna smell what is on those fingers. so if she feels "not so fresh" she may be worried you will find out she is a skank. Do these same girls mind you going down on them? if they don't let you, i would say this is definitely the problem. | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 3:04:34 PM | maybe bad experiences stick in thier... um ... mind....
and it will take some careful and tender attention to create a new paradigit... :)
... i think its the hygene... a lil bit of nail... or ruff skin...
use a rubber glove... no glove, no finger love 
and maybe to much ruff stuff...
and put some lube on those things too... | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 3:15:35 PM |
When the going gets hot and heavy, why is it that some women back away from a guy doing some finger-foreplay on her? Sometimes, it seems like they just aren't o.k. with anything going in there except for 'Big Jim and the Twins'
Well if she is backin' up on you, sounds like a problem in technique to me...Either your tryin' the "dig for gold", "fist of fury" or "jackhammer" styles... Hell the bottom line is some women dont like it that rough, you need to experiment and find out the right technique...what works with one partner, might not work with another...the "sweet spot" is only a couple of inches back on the upper wall of the vag, you dont need to "dig" that deep to find it...
I've been with self-conscious women who don't want a guy going down on them
I have never met a woman that didnt love a little oral stimulation...If she didn't want you goin' "down town", It was a warning worth taking, unless you really dig cottage cheese... | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 3:51:24 PM |
When the going gets hot and heavy, why is it that some women back away from a guy doing some finger-foreplay on her? Sometimes, it seems like they just aren't o.k. with anything going in there except for 'Big Jim and the Twins'...for lack of a better name.
I've been with self-conscious women who don't want a guy going down on them, but I can't figure out what the problem is with fingers.
Can any of you ladies out there enlighten me? I'd really appreciate it!
Why don’t you ask the person, perhaps they had a bad experience or aren’t comfortable. | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 3:52:23 PM | The only time I'd push a man's hand away would be if he had a history of trying to insert too many fingers into me.
I'm not interested in fisting and fingers just aren't shaped like a c*ck.
To get 2 fingers into me, a man has to be gentle and slow ..... not ramming them into me..... and more is pretty much out of the question unless the guy has small hands ... then 3 MIGHT be a possibility.
I love to be fingered, but generally speaking 1 is sufficient.
I like to be f*cked hard and fast with a cock, but not with too many fingers. | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 3:53:40 PM | Technique has alot to do with it... some women love to have a guy force his fingers into their puss... Some women like a gentler approach. Gentler is usually the best way to try until you find out differently...
DO pay attention to nail grooming... you wouldn't want a woman scraping your dong on her teeth when she's doing you, would you?
cut and file your nails SMOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOTH...
Start out gently massaging her clit in a circular motion very gently with on (preferably wet) finger... move on gradually from there with an up and down motion or up, down and sideways... and if she digs it, her labias will wet and part like the red sea for moses...
then do what she likes, but make sure you don't surprise her too much at first.  | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 6:18:03 PM | The only time that I've seen this phenomenon......
was by a skirted woman that was sitting too close to the ball return on moonlight bowling night.
 eat more chicken | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 6:32:24 PM | | because ur****is shaperd right and doesnt move like ur fingers, guys if they pull there fingers out to fast it hurt slike a **** trust me, it isnt that we dont love it its that most guys dont reolize that it can hurt or like we dont know were ur hand have been gross they could be all nasty...like personally i love getting fingered. oh my god it rocks and u can get away with it any where u go.... | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 7:46:34 PM | Hi Jim,
The clit is a very sensitve area, and if you are getting a little overzealous it may be your partners way of delicately telling you that you are doing it too hard.
Communication has been and always will be the key to screamin' good sex. | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/27/2005 11:34:06 PM | the only reason I would back away is if he isnt good with his hands above the clothes touching, there is NO WAY Im letting him down there.
Plus some girls are really shy. I mean if she backs away the first time, maybe its a sign to take it a little slower. One step at a time
I like guys who are willing to take their time concentrating on what I want. Not all guys are willing to give their girl a little bit of foreplay. I mean, yeah it takes us longer to get off.
I like fingers. I like foreplay. game on. lol | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/28/2005 1:37:23 AM | | I would never back away from fingers unlesss they were too rough with them .. even then you just tell them how to do it and you're both well on your way to being happy :) The best is when you are getting fingered and then they go down on you at the same time .. My god that sounds good right about now | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/28/2005 2:21:29 AM | Want to find out exactly what you lover wants??
Just say.. we're going to take turns... you're going to tell me EXACTLY what you want tonight... down to every little detail, and I'm going to do it. I'll keep trying til I get it just right for you.
Tomorrow is my night.
Simple, once you think about it. | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/28/2005 9:44:28 PM | | tiffi78, I wish I could have the gentle fingering I had when I was young..now that was something. Now it would have to be from the "tried and proven" or straight from Madame Amour's Fingering Finishing Final Form. Sincerely Suzzanne | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/28/2005 10:00:20 PM | | tiffi78, Thanks for reminding me, I'll have to cut my nails. Welllllll, maybe not, I doubt if I'm going to be that lucky. Regards Francois | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/28/2005 10:07:06 PM | | Ohh, Ahhh, Francois: don't be like that! Don't be so negative; you'll need your nails clipped, for when you Astra-Travel. MMMMMMMM, now that is just so, so, so much fun! Sincerely Suzzanne | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 10/15/2005 3:35:22 PM | | a Finger is awesome! I take and slide my finger down there and ease along his finger...till he circles and swoops...and slides just like I need.....and when HE cant take it anymore....wooo weee....I am usually about to explode! ....so ....then I want it hard and fast.....hehe... | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 10/15/2005 4:16:15 PM | WHy use a finger.... I love to go down on a woman.... Start slow with my lips... kissing, rubbing then slowly working my tongue up and down on the inner thighs, working my way into the outer lips with my tongue.... slowly touching the clit with the tip of my tongue..... working back and forth on the clit.... working my tongue back and forth, in and out until she can take any more.... That is way some women back away from the finger...... | |
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| Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 10/17/2005 8:21:45 AM | She must have had a bad experience at one time and hasn't gotten over it...fingers are great and I like them SO much my old man has actually said his co@k is jealous of his fingers! Ha ha ha!  | |
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