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Joined: 8/24/2006
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"1 in the stink, 2 in the pink...they love it!!!!!"

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 take Time To Know Her
Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 127
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 8/28/2006 6:32:06 AM
First of all ....fingers are just the begining, then him going down and then fingers again and then maybe my fingers and then maybe just maybe I will be ready for him to enter.
But no fingers?...and then not wanting him to go down?...all I can say is WOW..that sure is not me...lol
 ck4u
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 128
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 8/28/2006 6:58:18 AM
"When the going gets hot and heavy, why is it that some women back away from a guy doing some finger-foreplay on her? Sometimes, it seems like they just aren't o.k. with anything going in there except for 'Big Jim and the Twins'...for lack of a better name"

The first thing that popped into my head after reading that was..."NO WAY!"...cz' I for one relish the thought of a a guy's hand going down for a "strumming session" with my ---- as a preliminary start. Then Big Jim n' the twins would have to follow, only becoz i luv it...I do, i do!!

So I guess the reason would probably be being your so manly...your probably playing too enthusisatically (too hard) down in the nether regions and not even know it...it's pretty sensitive our clits u know... and if your a regular guitar player as u say u are, I wouldn't be surprised if your fingertips r kinda callused/rough from all the strumming...
 sweetcurves
Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 129
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 8/28/2006 7:10:21 AM
fingerplay is great if he knows what he's doing

gentle gentle gentle

and if i say ow, i mean OW and please back off!!!

i don't know about other women, but my clit is ultra sensitive, and she likes very very gentle play--u want me to cum, go easy on me
 Upearly
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 130
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 9/2/2006 12:15:06 PM
I see most all the answers are female -So heres a tip for the boys . Finger play is extremely stimulating to most all ladies if done at the right time the proper way. It will inspire your lady in the utmost sensual ways . One must be very gentle ,lightly tactile and sensitive to her body responces .There are a multitude of variations which include , shared handson ,eye contact ,kissing , and body caresses . Simply put , its a touch -look -listen - learn .
 Ahhh!
Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 131
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 9/5/2006 3:24:25 PM

Some men have perfected the art of oral sex but have yet to master the use of their fingers down there.


yeah, love lying there wondering "WTF is he doing down there?!?!"...
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 2/18/2009 3:53:57 PM
I have no idea. That sure isn't me. I'm the opposite
 flappo77
Joined: 2/6/2009
Msg: 133
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 2/18/2009 3:55:27 PM
women don't know jack from a pot hole. if you want to use your fugging fingers go for it. if she objects, tell her the joke about what the five fingers said to the face....SLAP! keep control don't be a douch.
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 134
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 2/18/2009 4:08:03 PM
I once had a guy put his fingers inside me and it was like having an examination. I just didn't enjoy it and asked him what on earth he was doing? He seemed surprised. So I honestly think it has to do with the guy and if he knows what he's doing.....................
 Wench2pointOh
Joined: 6/10/2008
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 2/18/2009 4:58:44 PM
I have seen guys with jagged nails and hang nails that I wouldn't let near me .. but then thats really just poor grooming so they probably would not get that close anyway.
 yepimstilllonely
Joined: 12/28/2008
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Posted: 2/18/2009 6:27:17 PM
Never, ever, ever pushed a finger away, unless they look dirty...then I may not be into it. ha.
 lioness.82
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 137
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 6:07:54 AM
Maybe because some men are to rough or they try to jam them in there to the point where it can hurt.

also if there hands are dirty and full of grease its not exactly are turn on.
 phantom179
Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 138
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 6:12:00 AM
thats why we have dettol hand rubs
 Closer2U
Joined: 2/19/2009
Msg: 139
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 6:40:37 AM
FINGERS ARE FOR THE CLIT


Says you. I have that covered!~ Um.....and a d*ck doesn't have half the control or access to a g-spot as FINGERS DO!~ Shoot....who needs a d*ck if you have fingers!
Seems to me,you aren't doing it 'right" or she would be screaming for more!


"1 in the stink, 2 in the pink...they love it!!!!!"

HELL YEAH~
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 140
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 8:29:47 AM
personally the main complaints that me an friends an other woman have is,, NOW wait i can't speak for everybody eles just my friends myself an some others..

A) it reminds us of teenage days an the immature in exsperienced boyfriend/boyfriends feeling an poking around down there in an effort to act like they knew what they was doing,wow score 1 gold star for you you found the zipper to my pants ooooo, o wait he found my clit ouch what the f uck is he doing ok it's not a button on a shirt theres no need for that just stop,,sorry but don't need to be reminded of thoses days..

B)most have no clue what thier doing when they try to "finger" some have a bad flick flick motion like there flicking at a piece of lint like really are you serious? who is suppose to enjoy this do you even know what your looking for?

while some do the poke poke jab poke poke jab..that's the same annoying feeling as when somebody comes up behind you an pokes you then jabs you in ur shoulder to get ur attention,, it's like sir really is it that serious? quit it ya i know you found the hole!good for you!

C)an the worst of the worst is if the person has dirty hands an ragidy an jagged finger nails an they just start ramming thier finger/fingers in,see the guy may think wow she's loving this meanwhile the only thing your doing is causing pain an scraping an scratching up the inside of the vaginal walls which this can lead to bleeding an itching an infection..
so maybe she's not squirming from pleasure but she is squirming an making weird faces because she's in pain an is thinking what the hell is he doing!! he has no f uckin clue.. an sometimes this leads to the woman to burst out cussing an just saying look lets skip this s hit..

overall you can't just jam your dirty fingers an jagged nails in there an think it's cool or "hot" just like you can't just surprise somebody with a finger or penis in the ass an think the person wont notice or you not realizing that your meer seconds away from being kicked an punched by them because you thought it was hot an they wouldnt notice..

it just doesnt happen like that in real life,, we dont live in porno movies.. well maybe some people do guess that's why some has such ridiculous exspectations,, it's like dude she gets paid to do that..an can't you read the look on her face she hates it too.

personally now i'm upfront an will say if i wanna be fingered while in the middle of an act or before i'll do it myself don't need anybody eles down there fumbling around or scratching me up with thier hands an nails..women know thier bodies better.. well atleast i know mine..

 knowswhat
Joined: 4/11/2009
Msg: 141
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 11:46:59 AM
Did it ever cross your mind that they don't like what you're doing? Or maybe, they're just not ready for that at that particular moment? Perhaps you could consider asking her...she is in the room, isn't she??
 openlybi775
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 4/15/2009 12:05:22 PM
The problem is that NOT TO MANY MEN know how to use the fingers very well at all!

With some women it could be a nasty childhood molestation issue or rape or something!

Others just dont like fingers, they'd rather have that****

Most of the time its the men that don't know how to use the fingers correctly!

Here is the problem,women are to shy to spread em and show you in the light what the hell to do right!

heheh

Happy
 catkin2007
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 143
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 12:13:45 PM
Could be that some of the men have not been good at using their fingers. There is an art to it and some just don't understand. Of course the best answer might be, why not ask her and see if you can work out the issues together. Communication always works best... in all situations... including and especially good sex.
 KinkyBastard
Joined: 1/3/2008
Msg: 144
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 12:16:10 PM
Ah just dive in with your tongue, eat and enjoy!
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 145
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 12:50:24 PM

Kinky**stard said:
Ah just dive in with your tongue, eat and enjoy!



good answer good answer
 KinkyBastard
Joined: 1/3/2008
Msg: 146
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 1:01:49 PM
^^^ Why thank you, my Queen...

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 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 147
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 1:19:40 PM
and i'm thinking about that gal who gives you a blow job and scrapes her teeth on him to the point of it being painful, or squeezes your balls like she's trying to crack walnuts... ummmm thanks but no thanks -i dont like it when woman do that to me
(meaning -i really love it when women do that to me -just not you -ouch!)

-its probibly the way your doing it to her, since guys dont have a practice pussy or any instructions, were expected to just jump in and fly without crashing. porn isn't helping -the guy is usually trying to ram his whole arm inside of her or doing that finger pounding thing like in the movie "kill bill" to break the coffin lid open. -maybe watch a little lesbian porn -that looks a bit more realistic since the girls are being gentle, careful and precise -(like a watchmaker tuning a rolex)
-when all else fails -ASK HER!
 CosmicMisfitJon
Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 148
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 1:48:23 PM
I wonder if Freddy Krueger has this problem.
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 149
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 1:52:46 PM
I can be more turned on by a guy's hands than any other part.... mainly because fingers give me great pleasure (and no, not a substitute for their johnsons)...
 caitlinlawless
Joined: 4/3/2009
Msg: 150
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 1:58:22 PM
sorry hun, i would'nt know. i love it...not going down orally is different..i gotta be real comfy with a guy for that to happen...like a few months of dating comfy.

happy posting:):)
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