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 caitlinlawless

Joined: 4/3/2009
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 1:58:22 PM
sorry hun, i would'nt know. i love it...not going down orally is different..i gotta be real comfy with a guy for that to happen...like a few months of dating comfy.

happy posting:):)
 caitlinlawless

Joined: 4/3/2009
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:02:49 PM

women don't know jack from a pot hole. if you want to use your fugging fingers go for it. if she objects, tell her the joke about what the five fingers said to the face....SLAP! keep control don't be a douch.


you apparently have no idea what your talking about.
im surprised you have ever gotten a woman within 5 feet of you, because that comment oozed stupidity.
 deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 152
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:11:49 PM
That GIRL~~~~~ said it all. fingernails not smooth can kill the moment. Be gentle.
 michaeld70

Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 153
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:04:05 PM
I can say that I've never experienced a woman not liking a finger, and I think that this was the first time that I have even heard about it.
 coldlogic

Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 154
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 5/31/2009 7:46:11 AM
I dont like it , because i automatically think about how they touched so many things throughout that day , and i wouldnt want that in there.

so unless they stop to wash there hands i probablly wont be that into it.

and also when girls have really really long nails or fake ones it can hurt sometimes
 AmeliaMD

Joined: 1/9/2009
Msg: 155
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 5/31/2009 9:05:30 AM
Sometimes fingering feels weird/awkward. It feels good sometimes, but think about your finger(s) as a really tiny penis. Women don't like small penises. Just put your****inside, what is your problem? What are you digging for up in there, gold?
 miss_contemplative

Joined: 3/12/2008
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 5/31/2009 9:50:03 AM
So many men are way too rough with manual stimulation. It's been my experience that unless he has the right amount of pressure and friction, he's literally hurting me. When that happens, rather than to give him a complex and reject his manual advance, I will just guide his hand elsewhere and hope he's far more skilled in other areas. The tongue is a softer bet.

And I suppose long fingernails, embedded dirt under the fingernails and rough, calloused hands would probably be a good reason to avoid being manually toyed with.
 wtf!!!!!!!!!

Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 157
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:16:58 AM
A well skilled tongue is such a better way to go.
 oceanpearl202

Joined: 9/21/2005
Msg: 158
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 5/31/2009 10:29:20 PM
who are these women? this can't be!
 easyrider2

Joined: 4/1/2008
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Posted: 5/31/2009 11:03:58 PM
The only time I back away is when the hand is too heavy. Most guys seem to think a woman's **** needs the same jack-hammer approach they use to get themselves off. Slow and easy just does not seem to be a concept men can understand. When he does get it, then I can cum with one flick of his finger. Try backing off, touching ever so lightly, making sure she is wet. It that doesn't work, tease her by touching everything except her clit. Stroke her inner thigh, right up to her lips, but not inside her until she begs you to go there. Even then, watch her reaction, if she pulls back, chances are it is too much pressure or faster than she wants. If all else fails, ask her. I know, it's kinda like that direction issuse, but it often works to simply find out what turns her on.
 Gigglemepink

Joined: 5/11/2009
Msg: 160
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 5/31/2009 11:07:40 PM
sometimes it hurts. some men have raggedy fingernails that cut and scrape.
 Rod479

Joined: 5/11/2009
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 5/31/2009 11:53:48 PM
I have NEVER met this problem... sorry bro.
 MandaLM

Joined: 3/21/2009
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 6/1/2009 12:09:38 AM
I can understand the whole not wanting a guy to go down on them
I admit I am kinda like that at some moments,
but I don't know why they wouldn't want to be fingered
unless the guy does it too rough and it hurts or is uncomfortable
but they'd have to actual get to that point to figure that out,
if they don't allow it at all then...I don't know, their loss I guess! lol
 satx78218

Joined: 10/30/2007
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 6/1/2009 2:09:38 AM
ah, playing the old germ card. "they're everywhere! they're everywhere".
 kaylee wilson

Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 164
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Posted: 6/1/2009 2:26:59 AM
the smallest hangnail can rip and tear ,also putting too many fingers in before shes really good and wet , also going at it like your trying to start a fire all of these can cause pain might just be cause shes a squirter and shy about it ???
 kaylee wilson

Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 165
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 6/1/2009 2:27:10 AM
the smallest hangnail can rip and tear ,also putting too many fingers in before shes really good and wet , also going at it like your trying to start a fire all of these can cause pain might just be cause shes a squirter and shy about it ???
 daydreamer57

Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 166
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 6/1/2009 3:41:28 AM
I havnt had any woman shy from that....specially after tracing that area lightly...usually that primes them for more ....
 PeggyMc50

Joined: 4/22/2009
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 6/1/2009 3:54:27 AM
Well the only thing I can think of is MABY you are not putting your fingers in the right place. I sugust you go to your search engine, look for pictures of a womans vaganal area. If you are just shoving them in her vagina that is not very satisfying for a woman, You will have to curl your finger up so you rub the top,and wiggle it back and forth to hit her G spot.
Good Luck
Peggy
PS, I wish more guys would go down on me, Out of 4 marrages only one did that for me,and it was FANTASTIC.
 PeggyMc50

Joined: 4/22/2009
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 6/1/2009 3:55:33 AM
Maby you did not trim your finger nails and it hurt.
 meowmix85

Joined: 6/2/2009
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 6/5/2009 7:50:36 PM
fingernails. guys don't often think about their nails, and even the shortest ones can scrape and hurt the insides if you aren't careful.
 widowsdesire

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 6/5/2009 8:37:50 PM
Are your nails clean and trimmed short?

I have been scratched more than once by a former lover whose nails were too long.

Dirty nails would also be a turn off.
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