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I'm sorry,but at 65..I can only HOPE someone still wants to have sex with me!
Liar liar pants on fire 
I'm sure you received as many c*ckshots as anyone else  | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 12:22:34 PM | The internet takes the element of a slap in the face or a drink all over you out of the question, so naturally people tend to try their luck a little more. You need to develop a thick skin to it really and take it in your stride
Not to say there aren't decent blokes out there, it's just a bit of a hassle shifting through all the riff raff. But don't think we don't have the same issue. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 12:28:48 PM | | Well what ever works for you and good luck. The bottom line is that I am happy. I'm no longer single. And I have someone who appreciates me and not appreciates sex. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 12:42:46 PM |
Liar liar pants on fire
I'm sure you received as many c*ckshots as anyone else.
That's funny since I actually do have a few!Difference being..I asked for them!
But I'm 47 right now and I just meant that by then,
I'd feel lucky someone wanted to have sex with me and that she shouldn't
be complaining.Sometimes...sex leads to GREAT relationships! | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 1:02:22 PM | men could survive without sex.
they choose not to and just be animals about it.
no body "needs" Sex.
its a human want and feeling.
how do the christians and nun do it ;) | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 1:05:51 PM |
how do the christians and nun do it ;)
Uhh, I resent that, I'm a Catholic, and I'm pretty sure I could out-pornstar you any day of the week lady 
And nuns don't have sex. Only in porn movies...
Life sucks doesnt it? lol | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 1:09:21 PM | how do the christians and nun do it ;)
With little boys? Oh wait...that's Catholics.
Sex is a need.We are WIRED to have sex, at the very least to procreate.
And men and women who consider it a priority shouldn't be looked down on in anyway.
edit.....LMAO! E-Hit me then!
OK....my apologies..ONLY priests do that.
And we Atheists don't all do 3-somes!Not anymore at least. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 1:11:10 PM |
With little boys? Oh wait...that's Catholics
HEY! I'll e-hit you, I swear. Only priests do that, Catholics DON'T... I watch porn, wank off, like to have threesomes just like the next depraved atheist, alright?
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Posted: 4/25/2012 1:50:19 PM |
men could survive without sex.
they choose not to and just be animals about it.
no body "needs" Sex.
its a human want and feeling.
how do the christians and nun do it ;)
centuries of religious repression and tying sex into guilt over having killed a carpenter who was then lifted into deity status to continue to keep people in check and less likely to act upon their natural urges to rape and pillage...
allegedly
there are few pleasures in life more easily gotten then sex,,,,,,,you can do it yourself and the pleasure given always equals the pleasure received......
why would you deny yourself one of life's most basic needs and wants that is totally harmless and feels really really good?
oh ya your assumed guilt and the fact that you have been brainwashed into believing an ancient myth which tells you sex is bad and can only lead to some guy being nailed to a cross to pay for it
really?
again,,,allegedly | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 1:59:30 PM | "See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time.
Robin Williams "
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/r/robinwilli386960.html | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 2:14:42 PM | I wrote something and deleted it. Needless to say some people need to get out more to know what religion is really about. And need I remind you the thread isnèt about religion, its about what the definition of a decent man is. So stay on topic. Even though my blood boils thinking of all the juicy crucifixion stuff I could put to good use, Ièm biting my keyboard really hard.............
For that Mod who watches me and banned me twice, I hope you'll change your opinion of me for letting insinuation like that go by without saying anything LOL. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 2:17:26 PM | I wish I knew what to do to help, but not sure what to do to change it short of blowing off every guy as soon as he starts head-games & foolishness.
Ummm, that IS what you do about it. Why would you do anything else unless you're a glutton for punishment and for some reason like to play those games even though you keep losing when you play?
men,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,need sex,,not want,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,need
Wanting something very badly does not turn it into a need. You won't die if you don't have sex, so you don't need it. However, if you want sex, pay for it. It's a sure thing any time you feel the urge and by paying for it, you eliminate a lot of complications.
why would you deny yourself one of life's most basic needs and wants that is totally harmless and feels really really good?
I'd be last person to deny myself some pleasure, but I recognize it for what is, a want, not a need.
how do the christians and nun do it ;)
I don't know about the nuns, but the christians I've dated did it just fine with no more hesitation in getting naked than anyone else. The ones who were catholic just went to confession a lot.
Like it or not OP, everyone finds exactly what they're looking for." That's why there are no online dating sites, and many people have to work at a job that they hate, because there are no other jobs available ? ; Concluding that they found the job of their dreams, because they hate their jobs ?
I think you missed the subtlety in that comment. What peope say they are looking for and what people actually seek out are often very different things. Finding what your looking for doesn't mean that you got what you say you wanted or that you're happy with what you got. It could easily mean that a person won't admit to him/herself what attributes in a person really guide his/her choices. Self delusion is often a disadvantage.
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Posted: 4/25/2012 2:33:18 PM | " And need I remind you the thread isnèt about religion, its about what the definition of a decent man is."
I agree.
OP, there are many definitions of what a Decent Man is. I don't believe that Religion is one of those qualifications. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 2:38:07 PM | @ thunderstorm78
I can't survive without food and water but of course I can survive without Internet, music, and all the stuff I love but I'm going to be an animal and listen to music even though I could survive without it.
BTW are you here just to survive as opposed to living a good life? That's what animals do. They survive.
What do Christians do? Well "Christians" marry their high school sweetheart and have a lot of sex. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 2:42:35 PM | I think this is just a matter of weeding through the "frogs to get to the prince" type of thing.
And not to forget our male counterparts...weeding through the "witches to get to the princess". | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 2:58:36 PM | OP _ stop trying to date guys who are better looking than you...
stop trying to date guys in areas/places where sex is out in the open in many cases....pubs/bars/even the internet...
there are tons of full on decent guys out there, not just half decent even IN clubs/bars and the internet.... yet whatever about it is about these venues - for you...the guys who you are flocking to, these are the guys who can actually act in this manner towards yOU>>>
believe me they cannot act this way to every woman they encounter nor do they... but they can to you...
what is the dynamic between you and them ?
are they better looking than you ?
are they kinda on the wilder side of things ?
do they tend to have criminal records ?
what types of guys are these, aside from just being guys you met in a bar/pub/internet...
are you going after guys you find more edgy ?
additionally - once a guy stops returning your calls and only calls you on his schedule... have you learned to cut that guy off as a potential suitor ?
same thing with guys who begin sexual talk, etc ?
when do you recognize true red flags ? and what is your reaction to these ?
do you continue to hang out with said guys ?
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Posted: 4/25/2012 3:45:37 PM | [Quote]hat's funny since I actually do have a few!Difference being..I asked for them!
But I'm 47 right now and I just meant that by then,
I'd feel lucky someone wanted to have sex with me and that she shouldn't
be complaining.Sometimes...sex leads to GREAT relationships!
Real TALK. A woma that kknoows she isn't getting any younger. I'm sure she's got many skills under her belt..I applaud this. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 3:47:31 PM | [Quote] how to the christians and nun do it :)
They **** little boys.
They don't tell a soul. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 5:42:36 PM | Thunderstupid78
men could survive without sex.
they choose not to and just be animals about it.
no body "needs" Sex.
its a human want and feeling.
how do the christians and nun do it
So says the 19 year old.............. Kid you do realize that the majority of us in this thread have forgotten more about relationships then you have yet learned.
Hon since you’re so young I’ll cut you some slack here and not be too harsh.......... But you need to educate yourself a little before you go spewing nonsense like that.
Here’s a good place to start- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs
Once you can read that and carry on an intelligent conversation on the topic, then JUST MAYBE someone MIGHT take you seriously, instead of just writing you off as a dumb ass kid.
Adam | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 6:13:48 PM | A lot of mens profiles start with " where are all the decent, honest women on this site?"
What does that mean? How can you tell? Why start off with that in the first place? That is what is offputting to me. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 7:04:01 PM | "A lot of mens profiles start with " where are all the decent, honest women on this site?"
What does that mean? How can you tell? Why start off with that in the first place? That is what is offputting to me."
I don't like it either, when women do the same thing. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 7:09:27 PM | "how do the christians and nun do it ;"
In the Apostle's Church (Orthodox Christianity) priests are allowed to marry because intimacy is an important part of humanity. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 7:14:41 PM | decency in people starts in holding one's personal honor dearly, making it worth more than anything in the world and then acting accordingly towards other people.
you want decent men/women, people? then i suggest you look at their actions, since talk is cheaper than the toilet paper you use to wipe your asses with...
just saying, is all | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 7:38:17 PM | | nice thread y'all, but did anyone notice the OP seems to have left the room? | |
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Posted: 4/25/2012 7:41:04 PM | "nice thread y'all, but did anyone notice the OP seems to have left the room? "
It happens, and sometimes a lot faster than this. | |
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