| | Are men really willing to wait for sex?Page 13 of 17 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17) | | We will wait, but not forever! Players are from both sexes, and nobody wants to waste their time! | |
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| Are men really willing to wait for sex?
Posted: 6/27/2012 1:42:59 AM | | what are the reason for waiting for so long.If you don't like the guy or not attracted to him ,why go on a second , third or more dating.By having sex with someone or dating someone people can find out how they are compatible emotionally and physically. Why waste good 3/4 months to find out they are not compatible in bed with each other.That is a total waste of time for MAN.Don't you think so? | |
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Posted: 6/27/2012 4:45:37 AM | | If the Bible says no sex outside of marriage - how does one differentiate between sex being okay after 1, 2 or 8 months of getting to know someone? just musing about that as I read the thread origniated by a christian. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2012 10:07:41 AM | I just don't think I'm a good match for women who need me to convince them of something.
I think that this is a healthy way for anyone on either side of the coin to see things. I'm sure you've passed on and said "no thanks" to a lot of smart, interesting, nice looking women who weren't easy. If you know what you really want and like and what makes you happy, then I think you should be able to focus specifically on that. It's no big loss if one person doesn't work out because there are many people in life to choose from.
I feel the same way about someone who walks away after two coffee dates because I didn't jump into bed with him. I'm usually pretty happy that I didn't waste any time with that person. Likewise, I don't want to have to convince someone that I am worthy of a committed relationship and that I am a fun person to hang out with. I am. I think you are absolutely right, if you have to work too hard to convince someone of your worth, it's a sign that this person is not a good match.
There are a lot of men (and women) who are not capable of making a commitment and would rather play the field. If that's what you want to do, that's okay with me. I'm not going to judge you. I just rather have the opportunity to say "no thanks". Personally, I'm not interested in sleeping with 50 guys just so I can find one who is capable of making a commitment. For me, it's just better to be upfront with people about the things I want so I increase my chances of finding someone who wants the same things.
edit. . .
Sorry, my misunderstanding regarding you. I do choose well and I am very clear about the things I want.
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Posted: 6/27/2012 12:52:33 PM | "A Few Months..."...?? . . . . . Okay . . .
As long as it didn't equivocate to the descriptor : ~A Few Extra Pounds~
And...
As long as se doesn't mind my 'A-M-R'...
(Alternative Modes of Releif)
Then again . . . . I couldn't guarantee that I wouldn't get all cuddly-touchy-feely while asleep...
and I Have been known to Sleep-walk, too!!
Then again . . . as I told my last partner . . .
"There are women out there...a LOT of 'em...that would KILL for what you're _Refusing_..!!"
So . . . .
...~ n e v e r m i n d~... | |
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Posted: 7/13/2012 1:35:22 AM | | That's very sweet! ;) and I believe a guy should wait awhile, as this is a important step and to just ruin it by having "sex" means like your not serious about the relationship! I'd rather make "love" and that's when the ladys ready! She will give those clues! An if your serious she will show it then! Because your commitment to wait for her! ;) | |
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Posted: 7/13/2012 6:25:59 AM |
"she's frigid"....."she must not like sex"
As the old saying goes, "There's no such thing as a frigid woman. Only stupid and clumsy men". This is very true.
I stopped jumping into the sack with women to test our "sexual compatability" when I was in my early 30's. Some women think sex is a marriage ceremony. Some women just go bat-shit crazy and restraining orders are a hassle. All a woman has to say is that a man threatened her, but try being a man and try to obtain one against a woman. Doesnt matter if she follows you everywhere you go, leaves threatening messages, kills one of your pets, paints threatening grafitti on your house, etc. Its next to impossible to get one if youre a man. Now, I will forego sex just to avoid the headaches. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2012 8:11:54 AM | The man you really want will be willing to put in the time to earn the trust from you that leads to sex.
If you want to know how to do it right, get the book,
Act like a lady, think like a man.
by Steve Harvey.
The guy knows what he is talking about. | |
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| Are men really willing to wait for sex?
Posted: 7/13/2012 9:59:42 AM |
If you want to know how to do it right, get the book,
Act like a lady, think like a man.
by Steve Harvey.
The guy knows what he is talking about.
Funny book---I don't agree with all his advice; and I think some of it is game-playing, but it has fabulous entertainment value. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2012 11:19:13 AM | I learned many lessons when i was a young man .. One of which was when there is chemistry and two people who see a future with each other waiting for sex rarely happens
a long time ago I was smitten for a fair young lady .. and even though I knew she was not a virgin and neither was I ..she declared she wanted to wait ... being so smitten I persevered and endured many a cold shower .. I spent what was to me a fortune dating this young girl and many evenings were concluded with her making out with me to the point of physical pain on my part ..and I presumed she also was experiencing the same pain and want I was ... she even wore my engagement ring for a time ...till she gave it back to with the explanation she could not marry me because she was pregnant with the child of my best friend
like an above poster said PLAYERS come in all shapes and genders
since then as soon as a woman and I have the exclusivity talk if not before ..I expect sex to be a part of the equasion | |
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Posted: 7/13/2012 6:37:19 PM | | There are men out there willing to wait depends on how long though. I still have my V card guys wait for me but I usually end it, its not that easy but I refuse to bed jerks. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2012 7:19:26 PM | you know what a mans waiting for sex is??
friendship.
and once i get it, i will leave you, and never want to talk to you again.
and i will tell you why
because you put me in a position, where you knew what i wanted, but you wouldn't just give it up, so you forced me into a position i didn't care to be in, and abused my time. i didn't give it freely. it was all just to get your twat.
and many of you ladies have guys like this as friends just waiting for the opportunity to come when you'll ****.
only time a guy looks at you as a friend, is when your
-jabba the hutt ugly
-known you forever so you become very sisterly like... and even then, that is prone to change.
-or somethings wrong with you mentally, or physically.
most of the guys you talk to ladies are married guys anyways.. you all are sharing men, and don't know it, since you have this idea that there are free, single men.
you don't look at single men, a man that doesn't have women.
you instinctively want a winner, a man that can get women, or has them.
that's why when you meet a man, and he tells you he's single..
he has 7 women, who he doesn't call his girlfriend.. and you compete with them.
soo hell no are we waiting.
and if we do, there is a plan in motion. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2012 7:25:44 PM | I am currently dating a lady and we are not having sex. We have been going out now for a couple of months.
There is no rush to jump in bed, but without that level of commitment I am not obligated to date just her. Once I am sleeping with someone then I stop dating others. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 12:01:49 AM |
Funny book---I don't agree with all his advice; and I think some of it is game-playing, but it has fabulous entertainment value.
I agree, it is hilarious in some places.
Even males don't agree with everything he said. If a woman did, I'd think she's playing games. ;-)
Overall, I think that if a woman is confused or clueless about how to deal with men, she could get a good return on her investment, plus a few laughs. :-) | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 3:41:11 AM | I had a high school boy friend that was on again, off again for over 3 years that waited 20 something years to sleep with me...
--that was a sensational night.
(followed by a couple of other sensational nights)
--but, both of us knew it wasn't going to go anywhere.
We now live too far apart (over 1600 kms), and have lives that don't include each other
but, he still sends me a valentine every year - as he has always done.
So, yes -- men are willing to wait for sex.
But,
I have also had a date that resulted in another same day date that resulted in everything but (by Bill Clinton's definition of ) sex. That resulted in a 4 month relationship, not just a one night stand... (until I broke it off)
So, I guess, it really does depend on the frame of mind at the time. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 4:10:43 AM | I would not wait. I am a high libido guy. I am always hungry for sex. What does waiting proves? If 2 people are not compatible or were not meant to be then the relationship will not last. I heard of people who had sex on their first date and ended up spending a life time happily together.
Remember you got divorced 4 times. You could be the problem and not giving the sex up too early | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 10:26:45 PM | | Sure, but you better be at least talking about it. If I have to wait 3 months for sex, I want to know if we're going to be compatible before we get there. I dont want to go to bed with you after all that, only to find out that you hate to give head and have no intention of trying to learn to love it! Thanks but no thanks! What I'm saying is, men are going to base any relationships that come after a divorce on sexual compatibility first. We had love, now we want sex! | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 12:19:17 AM | Listening to some of the guys on here say things like "I need to take it for a test drive" or "if she hasnt given it up by the 4th date, Im outta there", got me to thinking. Let me ask a question. So, if something happens to you, like an injury or illness, and you can never get your rocks off again, what are you going to do? Are you going to blow your brains out or something? If you would say yes, then I suggest that you go ahead and do it. Do the world a favor. Anyone, who's only motivating factor in life is their genitals, is a pretty worthless human being.
I know some couples who are in loving, long-term relationships, but because of a problem with the "equipment", they or their wives, can not have sex. Sex is not everything in a relationship. It is important, but it is not the most important thing. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 7:09:05 AM | I like sensuous, sexual women. Some women have that spark...playful, proactive and enjoy turning their guy on...sex for them is fun. Other women, try as they may, just aren't as much 'into it'. ..a guy finds himself 'asking' for this and 'asking' for that.
From my life experience , i know that I'm happy with a sensuos woman. the one that grabs your hand and puts it between her thighs in the movie theatre. I suppose it's possible for the woman who makes you wait after more than a few dates to be that woman, but it's less likely.
By the fourth date or so a woman is oozing sexuality and wants me as much as i want her. If not, then...'meh'.. she's probably gorgeous and I'm more like a dog hanging around her until another hot woman catches my attention. | |
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