| | Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?Page 3 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9) | That's "pique" one's interest, folks. As in getting one's interest "piqued."
Interest can rise, "peak" and then decline, too,but that's not what you folk are meaning here.
ED BEAR
23 and having a had time finding a partner for sex? Sounds pretty par for the course. | |
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ted61
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/3/2012 7:34:13 AM | | There are just a lot fewer women looking for casual encounters, thus harder to find. Like anything in life, if you really want something, you have to put in the effort required to get what you want. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/3/2012 7:53:42 AM | It's not hard if you are in the right place looking for casual sex.
Top 10 places to find women looking for casual encounters.
http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-hookup-websites_10.html
How ironic POF is on this list!
No.2 PlentyOfFish.com
There’s plenty of fish in the sea at PlentyOfFish.com with more than 10 million users, and given the choice wording of some female profiles, making that sexual connection might be like shooting fish in a barrel.
Mosey on over to the intimate encounters section (you don’t even need a membership to start surfing) and start fishing through the endless pages of chicks who all share the same dirty thoughts. Accounts at PlentyOfFish.com are free and one of the best parts about it is the messaging system; it notifies you when your bait has been read or read and deleted, which makes for easy adjustments when you’re casting your reel. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/4/2012 10:04:18 AM | OP,
You can see from this thread why a lot of people who are actually looking for an Intimate Encounter don't want to say that's what they are looking for. So many forumites who aren't looking for Intimate Encounters feel entitled to bash and belittle anyone who is. And actually coming to the forums and asking a question about it is just looking for abuse. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/9/2012 5:28:40 AM |
Then YOU don't have time or energy for a RELATIONSHIP!!!! Good girls DON'T need to get laid!!!
The OP made it very clear he doesn't have time for a relationship, ergo the need for a casual thing....
Good girls don't need to get laid?? Speak for yourself...Why must you equate "good" with "prime and proper" and "bad" with "slut"? Good girls need love too! LOL
I've been in similar situations where I just didn't want a relationship but I still have needs. So women are sluts but men are just horny? WRONG
Now if women are going around banging multiple men, that's different.....
We're all busy but have needs. I have really good friends that started out that way and after one or the other of us got into a relationship, it stopped. If you go into it knowing what it is, it's really nice sometimes....And in my case, we were monogomous because that was one of the ground rules.
I really don't see what all the fuss is about!
"Women don't give it away!!" "I'm no slut to be used and tossed aside" "I find that degrading!"
C'mon, it's the 21st century! Do it if you want too and if you feel used then don't do it!! Pretty simple....
Find a man who treats you with respect and set some ground rules....It's not for everyone but some of you should stop making generalizations and hush your mouths! | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/9/2012 9:36:42 AM | | Don't be fooled here loll there is more on here looking for that than you know,they are just hiding it and it is not for the most part under intimate encounters. In short half the profiles on this are full of it and fake that or older than time loll amongst other things. Type in POF reviews you will get the message. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/9/2012 10:03:57 AM | | To really reverse it, why is it so hard to find someone who is capable of stimulating your interest beyond sex? As hard as finding casual sex for most people is, finding someone to enter into a mutually beneficial union with is even harder. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/9/2012 10:12:23 AM | So many judgmental answers! Wow, closed minded much?
It's ok to want what you want, sometimes you can find it here, though I have friends who swear by Adult Friend Finder and they seem to like it very much.
On a personal note, even if you are just looking for casual encounters, MOST women need to be talked to and trust to be established before running off to have sex with every Tom,****and Harry that asks for it. Keep that in mind when approaching the object of your admiration :) | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/9/2012 3:59:18 PM | Women on here are always saying, or anyway implying, that sex is easy to find at 'the bar'.
Would you please give us the address of that bar, and some directions to it. None of the bars I've ever hung out in were like that. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/9/2012 5:40:29 PM | Baldguy500
I am sure you are joking with this profile. Classic for the wrong pics for a start. I dont imagine any woman will read much more than the first sentence or two, if that. You just wasted your time and if you think you are funny....not. I agree men are looking to hook up on here and maybe a few women, but not the sane attractive ones.
But hey it is free!!! The forums are the best though and so much more interesting. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/10/2012 6:47:45 AM | you know what i find funny is when a women has looking for a intimate encounter on her profile but doesnt accept emails from people looking for the same thing as she is. or a woman that doesnt have a pic on her profile requires one from someone to messages her. talk about hypocrisy.
i love all these self righteous people on these sites judging everyone. every situation is there there own if you dont like it dont respond to their messages get on with your life.
lionesse19 is a joke herself. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/10/2012 10:02:23 AM | I think the OP is thinking about this all the wrong way. Women DO WANT to have an intimate encounter. Pretty much all of them. I can't actually think of one that doesn't... and you are almost guaranteed to get one if you take her out a few or more times, be a gentleman, perhaps make her laugh, engage her mind and generally give the impression you don't just want to put your hands in her knickers.
Of course if you do just want to put your hand in her knickers, you can pay for it. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/10/2012 10:29:32 AM | OP,
DO NOT go to Craigslist or AFF or Fling, ect. where there are a zillion cluess men for every woman. You are competing for diseased vagina. It's stupid. You are risking STD and it won't be worth it. I was on AFF and I met one women who was honest enough with me at our public meeting to tell me she has herpes. I thanked her profusely for telling me, deleted my account, and never looked back. Dodged a nasty bullet.
Fact is, 1 out of 3 women, statistically, will sleep with you on date #1 if she likes you enough," from a normal dating site". And these are normal, sexually healthy women who would never admit on POF or to any friends/family that she actually has hormones and sexual desire. Don't believe the facade and keep clean. Stay on normal dating sites and don't touch the women who have "intimate encounter".
"Not looking for anything serious" is the PC way for most women to state that she just wants to have ..... fun.
Gold dot next to the profile means green light.
Learn how to flirt and seduce without commming off as a perv and you should do fine. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/10/2012 12:25:44 PM |
wow some people on this site truly are judgemental on a whole new level.
No kidding. God forbid that a woman should just want some action, too.
Good girls DON'T need to get laid!!!
Only defective girls do?
*exaggerated eyerolling* | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a girl for casual encounters?
Posted: 5/20/2012 8:17:08 PM | Ladies who bought up AFF, etc.
The problem with AFF and craigslist and fling for men is that most of the women on those sites are bots trying to lure you to their pay websites. When I was separated and just wanted to find fun, that is what I found. Waste of dollars to join those sites.
It is NOT hard to find some women that just want to have fun on this site, you just have to start with the head upstairs and treat them like a lady. Men are simple creatures Feed me, F*ck me, leave me alone. Women are a bit more complicated. Sex and foreplay for most women starts in the mind. Make a woman smile and laugh, you will have your pick of the pond so to speak. | |
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