| | Is it OK to make out on the first date??Page 4 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | Not sure why anyone should be judged or considered easy if they
make out on the first date for pete's sake.
I'd make out on the first date if I really liked the guy and he was
a great kisser. Why not?
Oh I know why not...making out could lead to other things that
are bad, like having sex...or worse having a relationship.
I'm not sure what some people are waiting for, but personally,
I'm not getting any younger, and if I meet someone I really like,
I have no problem at all making out with them...or having sex with
them.
That doesn't make me easy, that makes me open to possibilities.
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Posted: 6/11/2012 7:52:59 PM | Recent date went =really= well. He initiated kissing ...and it was awful. Second date was fun ...yet kissing still really, really off-putting.
Maybe it's better to know that sooner than later? | |
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Posted: 6/11/2012 11:44:24 PM | | OP, didnt read above me, but I just wanted to say you need to be clear on your personal boundaries BEFORE going on the date, for BOTH people's sake. You are in charge of you :) | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 9:03:57 AM |
browneyesboo
I'm not sure what some people are waiting for, but personally,
I'm not getting any younger, and if I meet someone I really like,
I have no problem at all making out with them...or having sex with
them.
Why aren't there more women like this?
Why, why, why, why (beating head on desk)....
Okay, tantrum over, back to your regularly scheduled programming. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 3:11:39 PM | | hey if i am feeling it i love making out on the first date. but that does not happen very often and when it does i normally end up being with that someone for a long time. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 11:07:51 PM | We're all adults on here,well,I hope so anyways.
What happens between two people is their business only,period. If they wanna play in the mud,then so be it.I wont be judging anyone. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 8:34:47 AM | | No, it is not good to make out at first meeting; he may not respect you for being too easy, unless he is just looking for a quick one. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 10:36:28 AM |
No, it is not good to make out at first meeting; he may not respect you for being too easy, unless he is just looking for a quick one.
How do you know this? Just because you would feel that way doesn't mean everyone thinks like that. I have made out with women on a first date because the chemistry was there. I still respected them and would date them again. I've had relationships with women I made out with on first dates.
A man will respect a woman if a) he is a respectful individual, and b) she is someone that is worthy of his respect which has to do with her personality and character, not with whether she kisses or has sex on a first date.
Personally, I don't judge a woman by whether she kisses me or has sex with me on the first or second date. I would rather be with someone long term who isn't afraid to show how she feels and if we have intense attraction and chemistry then she should be mature enough and comfortable enough with herself to show that. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 10:45:37 AM | I've done it both ways...quick to make out, and then with others, a bit of a wait. All my best experiences were with the ones that waited. The ones that dove into the make out/sex stuff immediately ended up being alley cats with a variety of issues that ranged from a lack of faithfulness, multiple partners and STD's. Seriously! And all from online, too.
This was just My experience. This isnt to say ALL men who want to make out immediately fall into this same set of circumstances. I have to say this because people constantly view personal experiences as broad generalizations, and often stop listening to what the post is actually saying.
I experimented with "moving fast" and I just found I didn't like it. I Agree, what happened to a little anticipation? Some bonding that actually takes place out of the bedroom? | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 2:09:11 PM |
AlfredoDP
No, it is not good to make out at first meeting; he may not respect you for being too easy, unless he is just looking for a quick one.
It must be horrible going through life feeling so average, that what ever he/she would do with you, they would do with any other date too. I've always felt if my date made out or had sex with me, it was because I 'was better than the average Bear'! | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 3:21:42 PM |
I went on a date this past Monday. TheFeel free to share yo date went realy well..there was definitely chemistry. Do you think its ok to make out on the first date or is it too soon?? Feel free to share your thoughts/experiences. =]
As long as you're doing it purely for your own pleasure and you don't care whether or not you ever hear from the guy again, go for it.
No, it is not good to make out at first meeting; he may not respect you for being too easy, unless he is just looking for a quick one.
As long as she's just looking for a quick one as well, it doesn't matter whether or not he respects her. He is just as ``easy" as she is.
If making out on a first date suggests to a man that a woman is ``too easy,'' she ought to check to make sure her hymen is intact before she agrees to a second date with him.
If he's anything like the poster in message 80 (and sadly, many men are), there probably won't be a second date. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 3:54:48 PM | | I doubt many of us here are virgins and you can wait and wait and build up the expectation just to wake up the next morning, as the ladies would say, "did I shave my legs for this"? | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 4:01:03 PM | | I personally do not see anything wrong with a bit of making out on a first date once the chemistry is right. It's IMHO even advantageous as it gives you at least a hint early on about the possibility of physical compatibility. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 7:31:47 PM | | OnlydateIF: I know my boundaries and I always stick to them no matter what. This happened about a month ago...so it's long over and done with. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2012 10:04:12 PM | LMAO,I dunno about you women and guys havin all their "teeth".
Whats funny about it is,I see it every day, a hot woman,walkin around proudly mind you,with the BIGGEST,dirtiest,scummiest lookin guy hanging on their arms,but yet,"online" you women stress the "gotta have all your teeth" Really??! Seriously,you women have double standards at times,amazing! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2012 10:06:42 PM |
don't mean to threadjack, but I was interested in a post like this because it happened to me about a week ago. I'm over 40 so I usually know what I am doing (I said usually), but something felt like too much too soon even though there was no way I was going to say no. I kind of told her the next day that maybe the making out was a little nuts, but it felt damn good. Her response was if it was her fault for initiating she takes full blame, but so be it. I kind of like that. A woman not apologizing for doing what she wanted when she wanted. I definitely want to see her again, but wondering how we take it back a notch after the makeout session on the first meet. We'll see I guess.
I can totally relate to this as I went through the same type of experience recently (it was a second meet though). Trying to dial it back as we speak because I like the fellow and I do not want to jump in with two feet and a blindfold on. I always say the first few dates (if you are looking for long term) should be about getting to know each other. I am glad that the weather is nice so that we can keep our dates outside for awhile. Can't get too steamy over a picnic, right? | |
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