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| Almost 24 and never dated or had a realationship, what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 5/15/2012 3:46:20 PM | | just for the men who struggle, thats all, because if a guy is getting rejected all the time by girls, even if he is just being himself, he has to work on, fix, improve many things about himself, meanwhile women however, the guy they want, are attracted to just has not approached them yet. So, thats where men have to work on themselves more. | |
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| Almost 24 and never dated or had a realationship, what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 5/18/2012 12:45:32 AM | Hey Mike,
I know what its like to be perpetually single. I will be 23 next month and have yet to have a relationship. Yes, it can be very frustrating at times. I sometimes ask myself those what if questions; "What if I had got my nose out of a book when I was in high school", "What if I looked differently"....and I've asked myself the "What am I doing wrong" and "What am I missing" questions as well. You are probably wondering how my babbling on about this pertains to your question. I guess what I am trying to say is, the more you worry about what you are doing wrong, what you could/should have done in the past, or even "Will she like me even though I lack experience" the more you will hold yourself back and hinder your chances. Be confident in who you are!! If a girl can't get past the fact that you haven't dated or been with a woman, then she isn't the right person for you in the first place. Just live life being true to yourself and loving everyday...sometimes good things come to those who wait. | |
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| Almost 24 and never dated or had a realationship, what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 5/21/2012 7:27:26 PM | Don't worry about it. Be comfortable with who you are. Nobody can validate your existence, or your manliness, but you.
I'm 44 and have never had a girlfriend either. Your love life is not what defines you. Hopefully. lol. You are defined by your beliefs, your actions, and the satisfaction you take in your job. And if no woman finds you appealing, then it is what it is. Your eulogy won't commemorate your love life. It only tells the world what kind of life you lived. | |
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| Almost 24 and never dated or had a realationship, what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 7/20/2012 1:17:38 PM | It wasn't all that long ago that I had my first girlfriend, Its really not an issue.
The difference between experience and inexperience in most areas regarding relationships is usually quite limited,
and don't forget, you're a grown man, its not like if you go to kiss or do something more with a woman that you have no idea what to do, I'm pretty sure you'll have that part worked out atleast to some degree.
Ideally though, try and find a woman who isn't all that experienced herself
(Despite how it may look, there are plenty of lovely young girls with little relationship experience.
Looking for women between 18-20 is where you will find most of them)
P.S/ and no, your age would hardly ever be a factor. | |
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| Almost 24 and never dated or had a realationship, what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 7/21/2012 1:10:58 AM | 1) Your dating experience has nothing to do with how assertive you are. You just need to be more confident. You know that voice in your head that always tells you not to say something because you worry about scaring a woman off? Ignore it. Be unpredictable. Women respect men who be themselves, and who don't kiss their asses.
2) Stop living by women's schedules in your life. In your own words you say that they don't have any more time for you. You need to start putting more focus on yourself and not be at their beck and call all the time. If a woman asks you to hang out, and you are legitimately busy, tell her so. If she starts talking your ear off about relationship problems, tell her to save it for her girlfriends, etc..
3) You need to build sexual tension. Sexual tension = attraction. Now I am not telling you to try and have sex with a woman right away. Nor am I telling you to be perverted, or to skip out on actually trying to know her as a person. However when you see opportunities to build sexual tension you have to take it. You know what some guys do on first dates/meets? They interview women, compliment them too much, and basically agree with everything they say. They don't flirt, they don't tease, and they never even hint at sex. On a first meet, I am not only getting to know her, but I am breaking the touch barrier, dropping innuendos, flirting, and teasing playfully. Women like a men who they can't get a read on, who are unpredictable, and who challenge them. | |
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