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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/24/2005 9:18:57 PM | There will be a few signs, you should see at least a few of them before you can assume that she really had one.
She will start to take short shallow breaths.
Her eye's will be dilated.
A small red rash will be on her neck, maybe one side or both sides. It will look like you took your beard and rubed it on her neck a few times.
Her body will tense up relax, tense up and so on till it's done.
If it's the first time or the first time in a long time, she may be rather vocal. But it will sound more like a shocked sound rather than a Oh baby...
(That's about all I can think of right now, but I'll give ya a few tips that have always worked for me.)
First make sure that you have cut your fingernails down and your hands are smooth, if you can't do that because of your job or whatever, use a glove and some lube. But here we go...
First start off teasing, touch everything but her clit, after a few minutes, start to rub the clit but then go back to everything else around it. Remember, there's more to a women than just her ****, but once she's ready to go, start to rub her clit, nowplace your thumb on top of the clit so it doesn't move and take a finger and start to rub it, but do this as soft as you can. Remember a women's clit is the most senceitive thing on her body and it doesn't take much. After about 5-8 minutes of this she should be very wet, now take one or two fingers and slip them in about half way and point your fingers stright up till you feel a little ball. This will be the G-Spot. Now and this is kind of the easy part, but might take sometime. Just make the motion like your telling her to come here. Now if you can keep doing that while with your thumb or abother finger start to rub the clit you should give her an orgasim in about 10-20 minutes. Now remember unlike men, women can have an orgasim for around 20-40 minutes so, if you can keep the same speed in the same place you can keep it going for as long as you can take it. If you do it right, she won't know what to say afterwards. Now keep in mind that you have to be able to ask her if she likes what your doing and is comfortable, but don't do it every second. Read her body language. Now you can add things like licking her clit while doing this and it should make it feel better. Just make sure there's a lot of spit on your tomgue and DO IT SOFT AND SLOW, this isn't a race. But that's all up to you. I have always noticed that after that they've always had a small rash or red marks on their neck (no I didn't do anything to her neck). Well, that's something that has always worked for me and might work for you. Good luck... | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/24/2005 9:28:30 PM |  I've been told it is..
And people say books are a bad thing. Plus work in a warehouse with all women around you and you tend to pick up a thing or two. | |
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MsChar
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Joined: 10/4/2005
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/24/2005 10:20:14 PM | | foreplay is the most important part for a women , kiss her softly on her lips do not slobber and keep kissing her face moving towards her neck. slowly kiss her neck and suck on it moving your mouth back and forth get her neck a little moist and start to suck a little harder then feel her breast squeeze them lightly, at first and rub her nipple between your fingers while pulling on them lightly, never be rough with a women you want to get her in the mood most women like there breast played with alot .start to kiss her neck, after sucking on it move towards her breast take one in your mouth and lick it. and suck on it you do not need to make sounds when doing this. at the same time take your hand and play with her other breast squeze it lightly and then a little harder again rub your fingers your thumb and your first finger rub her nipple between your fingers. play on her breasts for a while suck both nipples at the same time if you can , squeze them both at the same time rub them against your face lick suck just keep playing but nothing hard slip your fingers down to her ****, feel her lips see if she is getting wet if you feel nothing go down more and push her lips apart and feel and see if you fingers find where she is wet. when you feel it take her juice on your middle finger and move it up to her clit and start to rub it lightly up and down do not move your hand just your middle finger. at the same time put your mouth on her breast and suck on her nipple softly then a little harder soon you will feel her start to squarm do not stop fingering her clit, start to suck harder on her nipple and then rub her clit faster, and faster ,untill she starts to buck and fight you to stop .keep going never stop you might need to use at this point two fingers, keep up and down movement faster, and faster ,some times you might want to rub her clit in circle motion but always go back to that finger motion up and down when she starts to scream ,and climb the wall do not stop climb with her move with her body .at this point she is reaching her orgasam and you will see her face at this point she will scream load at that point you will know your doing it right. never have sex in the dark you want the lights on to see her reactions of your love making . most women that I have been with use thire right hand and left to right circler motions on thire own clit this brings them off. also but what you should do is make her feel comfortable enough with you and ask her to masterbate in front of you and watch and learn how she gets her self off do not be afraid to ask a women to teach you how to please her .because the more women you ask the more you will learn and be great at making any women cum and have mulitaple orgasams .we all know your not going to stay with your first or second girlfriend . so learn always change and make up new things to do with women in your head sometimes you will know so much that you will sware that you are a lesbean traped in a mans body because you will know every way to please a women. before your self never please your self first always do the women first . if you feel like your going to cum stop and do something different this will make you not cum and it will be all over .keep changing her around pretty soon you will be able to keep it up for six hrs of pure intercorse with out cumming and trust me a lot of women need a man to last for hrs but once they cum a few times ,then you can let go and shoot your load ,and drop dead for a few moments. and be ready to go again the second time will last about two hrs then you will be dead for the night .good luck just take your time and both of you enjoy making love its not a race . its fun to learn just be careful try to fall in love some time in your life and make it work . never be like me always making love to different women and not careing ,about anyone at all .one day you will turn around and see that life just pasted you by and you never stopped to find some one to love and all the women you were with got married and has a family and what do you got to show for it just a sexual past . no wife no children no happyness . remember sex is not a job its fun it doing it with a women that you want to be with and please her and spend the rest of your life with . dont be a show off the number off women that you pleased means nothing . buit one women that you please that means something to you is worth everything life has to offer you and haveing children is the best I missed out on that part . | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/24/2005 10:29:45 PM | | what are you kidding me what women has an orgasam in 20 or 40 minutes what are you doing wrong shit if it takes you that long to get a women off you better go back and learn how to do it right . you need lessons my friend by that time she should have at least five orgasams , dam i would hate to be the women with you you must bore her i bet she has some one else pleaseing her besides you . she must fake it with you just so you would stop .dam i never had a women take that long 20 to 40 minutes what a laugh that was .you want to have multible orgasams not one in that long you want it one right after the next to be good . sorry guy you need to learn to do it right | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/24/2005 10:46:39 PM | are you kidding??????....whats wrong with asking?.......I've never came across to women who got off the same way....some liked more foreplay..... some liked to get down to business right away.
if there is one thing i must say here and that's find out if she has experienced the 'g-spot'....those are awesome to watch...
but asking what she prefers seems like something ya might wanna consider until you've mastered the 'zones' on the female body and how they can turn her on. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/24/2005 11:22:43 PM | Ummm, please go back and re-read that or better yet I'll just re-type it, she can have an orgasm for up to 20-40 minutes. Meaning one that lasts that long. But it's ok, I can understand that you have never had this before so you just "assumed" that I ment it took that long for it to happen. Maybe it's you who should find a guy who knows what he's doing. I'm sorry, but there is few things I will "toot" my own horn on and this is one of them. Every ex that I've been with has said nothing but good things about it and if an ex can say that your good after a brake-up well I'll take that to the bank. Thank You!
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LoL, Sorry thought you were a woman. LoL, shouldn't put woman in your name if your not one. Da, Well! But that whole just rubbing the clit thing, well. It's not a toy man and you can rub it raw. See, so doing as I said hitting the G-Spot and using slow soft movements on the clit well that's how you get the long lasting orgasms and less of a chance of hurting her. Give it a try.... | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 7:09:13 AM | The female orgasm is a myth like the clitoris. It was made up to keep men on their toes.
Give up now and concentrate on your own fun | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 10:00:50 AM | | My friend you talking to someone with experience it does not matter the size of your penis, b4 you start anyhing tell her that you want both of you to just have fun not to think bout anything else but fun, lick her nipples, ask her where are the most sensitive parts of her body, she will tell you then some girls don't like it but lick it or try anything good by stimulating her desired areas so that she gets wet, if you can stay during the second round like a lil longer that will be good b4 , the weapon once you inside her hit that **** left and right dont take your penis out stay n there take out just 1 or 2 inches and go in circle, robb it like you should i am a sex expert but the first thing don't frustrate yourself with it just take it like a game. sex is pleasure not pain, u feel me, email me i will tell u some more can't open a book here 4 all men:) | |
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Joy.
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Joined: 6/26/2005
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 10:03:01 AM | I'm always amused at how talented guys really believe they are. And quite honestly, I've yet to experience a single orgasm that lasted 40 minutes! I mean, c'mon....let's be realistic here.
The best way to give me an orgasm?? Hand me my little vibrator! :) | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 10:08:14 AM | Yeah joy... I was about to say...
40 minutes?????????????? 40 seconds is probably my personal record, but then again I'm not that experienced. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 10:10:08 AM | Ok, after all the advice you have gotten from here and I'm not saying it's bad advice, but you need to go to her. Stop asking other people how to please her and ask her what would please her. We can tell you what we have done to please women in our lives, but everyone is different.
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I never said that I have given anyone an orgasm for 40 minutes, I said a women can have one for up to 40 minutes. My personal best is only 10 minutes. She still tells everyone that and she doesn't like me. So you do the math. Unless by telling her friends that I can give a female a orgasm for 10 minutes is a bad thing, well she's really getting back at me then... Now it's not something that can be done at the drop of a hat, everytime. You have to be into it, sometimes you want a quick one and sometimes you want more. Just depends on what you want... | |
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Joy.
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Joined: 6/26/2005
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 10:22:14 AM | | He thought he gave her a 40 minute orgasm....it's more likely she actually had an epileptic seizure. Gotta love men - simple, selfless, love gods that they are!! | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 3:05:23 PM | -=- come on the best way is to buy her a new diamond ring lol it always works -=-
Your better off buying her the Wonder Stick 2000... | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 3:19:52 PM | | find yourself a V8 engine your'e not using..now build in a strap on...install a pull cord and while she's not looking you........wait..were you serious? | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 3:22:30 PM | | I know some women don't have orgasms until they are in the thirties. I guess they become more comfortable with their bodies and know what works with them. Mix it up. Try different things/positions. She will find her way. Let her know it's okay to not have one. Wake her up in the middle of the night/too tired to think of those insecurities. Repeat performances/ I was with a girl that could never have an orgasm the first time but after she was primed it was MUCH better. Bottom line-if what you are doing isn't doing it for her, do something different. Oh yeah, oral before and during can do wonders | |
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