| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 3:23:23 PM | maybe ur penis is too small, otherwise just once u get into it, go for gold like theres no tomorrow | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 3:30:12 PM | | Yes, let her know it is OK TO NOT HAVE ONE. Again, guys are so selfless when it comes to sex...it brings a tear to my eye. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 3:33:25 PM | If you can't give her one, how the heck do you expect me know. I don't even know her. Sounds like you have troubles though. hahahahahaaha.. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 4:45:15 PM | One way is through oral- if done right. And the easiest way for a guy to know what works for the woman he's with is to ask or experiment.
But pleeease don't make it an interrogation- do it along the lines of "do you want it slower?.... is that working better?......show me how you want it...". You could also have an erotic session of phone sex the day before you are getting together. This can make it easier for the shy types to describe what they like.
I wouldn't dream of speaking for all woman, but here's what gets me clawing the sheets: When you've seduced her into opening her thighs for you, hold them apart with your arms. Start a slow tease by massaging the inner thighs and gently pulling on the thigh skin with your thumbs until her outer/inner lips start to open for you. Move your mouth in close and start breathing warm moist air over her labia without making actual contact. Continue to work on stretching her opening wider with radiating massage strokes. You can also massage the flesh covering her pubic mound with a circular upward pulling motion to expose her clit. When you have it exposed, tease it with your warm breath, but no touch yet. Go back to holding her inner lips open while breathing warm air over the area. Alternate the warmth breath with long, slow front to back licks. If you use a hard pointed tongue- go lightly. Surpise her every few strokes with a probing tongue dip into her opening. Speed up some of the tongue strokes and alternate with slow strokes. When you have her really worked up, bring your tongue very lightly over her clit on the stroke coming from the back to front so your tongue comes lightly up under the hood of the clit. And I do mean light- remember this bud has over a 1000 more nerve endings than the head of your penis. Keep playing with alternating the tempo of licking (mostly slow) but keep in mind that tongue action that mimics the action and pace of penile thrusting is usually too rough for the clitoris. And its just not as thrilling as the slow tease and gentle licking. Of course some women prefer the faster, hard tongue action or a little of both- we are complex creatures after all. It's up to you to find out what your sweetie wants.
One last thing... I've found that when a lover sucks on my clitoris from the 69 angle, the intensity is so over the top that I IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII (can't type,...shaking). Funny thing is that I actually don't care for 69 all that much- I find its too hard to concentrate on doing a good job when I'm receiving. But a gentle sucking on my clit at this angle puts me over the edge almost instantly. Go figure. If anyone knows why this is, please share. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 4:46:52 PM | Sex should be fun! I say dont worry about the end result and just loosen up laugh and have fun...enjoy the ride so to speak.pressure kills a great sex life  | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 4:55:52 PM | lol
I love Family Guy when you could just hear Peter moaning more and more, Lois was like "hold...hold on", then Peter yelled "SHAZZAM!!!", and Lois was all like "good for you".
It was funnier on the show | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/25/2005 5:19:20 PM | u give her your credit card
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
that sounds like a comment from a married person (or previously married) LMAO | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/26/2005 4:18:23 PM | | Giving a girl an orgasm is a prosses that more times than not takes time and patience. But every girl varies. First of all you can't let it become a pressure. I'ts like the feild of dreams work for it and she will come. socond, the girl has to trust you fully before she can let herself become fully unhibited, so make her feel comfortable, and show her that she can relax and be herself. fourplay is also very important . The hotter you get her before the actual sex, the more likely she is to orgasm, and when she does the more intense it will be. Here are some tips. Set the mood for whatever she is into. If it is romance than serve a romantic candlelight dinner, run her a soft bubble bath, and take your time and spend your whole night concentranting on her. Whatever the mood you get the point. Also be adventurous don't be scared to try new things. go to your local adult book store and pick up some edible, warming, message oil. Give her a sensual message, once again taking your time, and slowly lick the oil off of her. And when you get to her honey pot, put some oil on her clittores, and gently blow on it wich will cause it to warm up. Then slowly coress it with your lips and your tounge. while your doing that use your index finger to find her G-Spot (if you don't know where that is ask her she will be glad to tell you) and caress it in a circular motion. And don't to forget to pay attention to the rest of her body. This is a good warm up tequnice. Also don't be afraid to ask her what really gets her moter runnin. There's no better expert on her than herself. And when your making love don't get lost in your own pleasures pay attention to hers too. Happy beaver hunting. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/26/2005 4:48:08 PM | | i love the orgasms my boyfriend has given me - even though i had to tell him how as he was still a virgin when we first met. You have to stimulate her. Rub her clit about halfway to two thirds of the way down before the tip in little circular motions and have sex with her at the same time - trust me. And it is a documented fact that no waman can actually have a proper orgasm just from penetration and no other physical touching. GET TOUCHING AND FEELING TO INCREASE THE SENSATION KID! TRY IT THERE IS NOTHING TO LOSE AND SHE WILL BE ENJOYING IT. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/26/2005 4:53:42 PM | | some spelling mistakes there. FOURPLAY = FOREPLAY. fore because it come be(fore) sex. CLITTORES = CLITORIS. MOTER=MOTOR. i'm not being funny but i hate wrong spellings. English was my favourite subject at school. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/26/2005 4:53:48 PM | | Simplist way is to ask her to give herself one and sit and watch and see what gets her to orgasm, isn't rocket science since she knows her body better than anybody does, and talk some and ask her! | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/26/2005 7:11:35 PM | | While sucking her cl*t slide two fingers inside, Reach inside and curl your fingers toward her stomach. Once you have a grip on her pubic bone rub the flesh inside her just above it, thats her g-spot then just massage,she will show you the rest. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/26/2005 7:56:36 PM | | tease her body make sex, love making, dont rush and touch her whole body, start with kissing her whole body, massage as you go, pay more attention to everything that is not sexual, in your mind, every part of the body is important during sex kiss and caress her whole body and then play with her softly with your lips your tounge and your fingers. around the inner thighs tease her until she begs for you and then give her what she wants. this should not be about u pay attention to her needs and what she likes ask questions. enjoy yourself. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/26/2005 11:10:50 PM | I just want to thank all the ladies in this forum for their great advice. Us guys may have a lot of things figured out, but we will never truly understand it the way you do. You have given me a wealth of knowledge that I will truly treasure. And I'm sure my sexual partners will too.
And one more helpfull hint. Guys don't be afraid to be a pupil. I travel a lot with my job. I'm an independant contractor. I always thought guys were supposed to be macho, and in constant controll. But, while renovating a hotel right outside of Miami, Florida. I got hooked up with a waitress from a cuban club on South Beach. She was eight years my senior (I was 22 she was 30). She taught me 2 very important lessons. The first thing she taught me, was that a womans body is a beutifull artform and it should be respected and enjoyed as such. The second thing is that sex is a mutual esperience, and not to be afraid to let the lady take the reighns ocasionally. They might just teach you something. Anyway I hope you ladies will bless us with more advice. I am an apt pupil. As corny as this may sound, I love making women feel good. And the more I learn from you the better I will accomplish that goal. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/26/2005 11:16:40 PM | | Oh, and funkymonkey I appologize for my spelling. But, I'm a construction worker, and before that I was in the army. So, my etiquite isn't exactly well refined. I hope that is grounds enough to forgive me. | |
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