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 Author Thread: how do u give a girl an orgasm?
 ramblerman

Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 126
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/27/2005 8:25:13 AM
try it with the credit card
 nicemale

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 127
how do u give a .....?
Posted: 10/27/2005 8:41:23 AM
I use my tong for a first O..... lets say pre-O!!!!!
Than I start to use my 'hardware' for further and bigger O's
 okieroper

Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 128
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how do u give a .....?
Posted: 10/27/2005 8:47:43 AM
Well just have them gift wrap it in a nice box and attach a card along with it .....

try to remember the batteries
 nicemale

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 129
how do u give a .....?
Posted: 10/27/2005 9:32:01 AM
^^^^^^^^Great!!! ........Gives you some extra time for the otherone???
 michaelr1

Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 130
how do u give a .....?
Posted: 10/27/2005 12:17:24 PM
Just show them a pic of corona please. Thats enough to give a guy or a girl an orgasm.
And marine hard does have a good point, it's like building a house. If you don't have the right ezuipment you will never get the job done.
 boswell

Joined: 1/29/2005
Msg: 131
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/27/2005 1:26:57 PM
man, this thread is brutal. i noticed that no-one picked up on the word "think" in your post. fact is it may have already happened without you knowing. not likely, but possible. believe it or not, there are some women who are so intent on not making a lot of noise, that you just can't tell if they have or haven't, so you gotta ask. and then there are those who make a lot of noise no matter what you're doing, so you still can't tell. you gotta ask. and, in fact, you can even ask them to tell you while it's happening which is even better because then you can watch to see if what the bodily clues are, and after that you probably won't need her to keep telling you, cuz you'll know. but when in doubt, ask!

now, as for how you do it, see my post about the car battery and whipped cream in the "weird homemade sex toys" thread.

seriously tho, a "non-physical" tip? get turned on by the thought of it happening and you being able to make it happen, that is to say, her being willing to let you make it happen. sometimes it's a gift she gives you when she trusts you enough because there is almost always some opening of the heart involved for women and if she doesn't trust you enough to feel she can open her heart to you, the orgasms aren't going to be that great or that frequent, unless she's thinking of someone else while it's happening.

rodney dangerfield joke: last night i was making love to my wife, and after a while nothing was happening. she says to me, "whatsamadda, you can't think of anyone either?" i tell you i get no respect.

good luck.
 Little Whip

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 132
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/27/2005 1:29:06 PM
Take her shoe shopping!
 TheGenie

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 133
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/27/2005 2:35:12 PM
I usually take out a huge wad of 100 dollar bills, and wave it several times in front of their faces. They cum almost instantly every time. Try it sometime.
 Fractalwater

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 134
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/27/2005 7:35:10 PM
How to make a women orgasm?

Give a damn, and like her for her and make sure she knows it.

The rest is mechanical.
 varietyguy

Joined: 3/24/2005
Msg: 135
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/27/2005 8:42:49 PM
first you get a big old penis pump and enlarge yourself then you start to bang the girl really hard. it helps also if you spend a little money on her too. take her to burger king or Mcdonalds, hopefully you have some friends that can give you a discount.
 ramblerman

Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 136
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/28/2005 2:10:20 AM
yes little whip,shoe shopping with your mans credit card
 raylane

Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 137
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/28/2005 10:12:40 AM
I agree with pandy it sucks but its true. Women go thru a lot of shit, but when it comes to sex and the right partner youv'e all got it made. 2 different types of orgasims and lets not forget the multable ones.So just relax try a little stimulation with your fingers during fourplay and sex. Youv'e got to get that P***y going. Some women like the anal thing ask her. It's also a spiritual thing youv'e got to put your whole mind body and spirit into it. Without your soul I find it hard to make any woman cum to there potential.
 Burnsie99

Joined: 6/22/2005
Msg: 138
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/28/2005 10:40:12 AM
This one is easy to asnwer... Go down on her, look for the man in the boat (trust me you will know what I am talking about) and that is the spot you concentrate on.... ask her when you are down there what she likes the most...
 happening

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 139
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/28/2005 8:38:12 PM
Hey dude!! The way I have always done things is first: (There is a reason for this so keep reading) Have her give you oral sex first; then eat her until life arises again for a second go, but wait until she screams "Fuk me - now!!!" before indulging into her vaganal bliss!!!
Important!! Go slow at first with little twists before building up to a faster pace with wider twists mixed in!! Remember that you want her to explode, so hold back your explosion before hers goes off!!!! I've never lost one yet!! Lol!!! Also, when eating her, make sure her lower half is raised up (I prefer the couch for this) so you can more freely use your hands around her waist and butt and up to her ,.... well.,, you know! You do use your hands on her while going down on her? Don't you!!? Anyways, I hope you eventually give her what she wants!! And keep learning her triggers and mechanisms and keep pushing those buttons!! Good luck!!
 dave1234

Joined: 11/7/2004
Msg: 140
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/29/2005 5:57:27 AM
Someone said by reading the comments a person makes in their posts one can learn a lot about the person. I'm here to learn.
 NS_PI

Joined: 2/24/2005
Msg: 141
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 10/29/2005 6:39:49 AM
Ok i read the first few pages and i agree with alot of you, an orgasm is never guaranteed. But if it is advice you are looking for on how to get her to orgasm well here is what i have learned and tried. First you have to get her in a "good" mood. Start with kissing her neck and running your hands through her hair, passionate kisses ect. Slowly make your way down kiss all around her nice tits, then move to her nipples and caresses them with your toungee will massaging the breast with your hand. By now she is in the mood and feeling pretty good. Now kiss down her stomache and trace her thong/undies line with your toungee, do not go for the kill, tease her a lil, get her juices flowing. Ok now either pull those undies to one side or remove them and lick her from the bottom of her p*ssy to her cl*t. do this a few times to get her nice and wet and lubricated. Now comes the tricky part take your middle finger and ring finger and slide them inside her curling them slightly inside her til u feel her inner wall. Now make a "come here" motion with your fingers.( u will feel a spot get firm it is about the size of a brazil nut, this my friend is the illusive G-SPOT) While u are doing that suck on her clit(not too hard like u are suckin on a milkshake but enough u can pull it towards you in your mouth and stimulate it with your toungee) DO NOT GRIP IT IN YOUT TEETH, suck on it and stimulate it with your toungee...keep those fingers going(that part is very important). IF you are doing this all right.....BAM!!!! Orgasm and maybe if you are lucky she is a squirter!!!!! Well dude hope this helps you out and anyone else out, take care and best of luck!!!
 Corona_Please!

Joined: 8/29/2005
Msg: 142
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/1/2005 7:31:42 AM
Just touch me...rightttttt there.....ohhhhhhh baby!
 kperry1981

Joined: 1/29/2005
Msg: 143
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/1/2005 7:47:33 AM
I usually use my tongue and my fingers. Not every woman gets the big O from penetration but all women get one when you kiss her on the "lips" just right.
 Skoobah

Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 144
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/1/2005 7:36:19 PM
Go down...
Stay down...
Get Down...
On the tonge...
In the eye...
on the belly or back...
 smoothappeal

Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 145
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/1/2005 9:52:58 PM
Skoobah:

I think Boswell got it right (I think I'm remembering his screen name correctly). There were a lot of jokes and some "physical" tips but listen to me pal ... it's not what you do but how she feels about it.

Yeah, sure, there are clit things and toys and various manuvers that others have tried and sitll others (women) have experienced that work for them. Your FIRST mission is to get into her head. Make her anticipate the orgasm and want it. How do you do that you might ask, talk to her. Ask her what she likes, try an evening together where you RESTRAIN yourself and focus on her. Take some of the physical sensations described in this thread and try them. it won't take long to learn what turns her on. Tell her you want to help her reach an orgasm. (by the way, if she says she doesn't want one, head for the hills).

Ever tried to eat spinach, maybe you like it, maybe you don't but it's for damn sure that you won't know until you try it. Same thing with her, she's got to have one to know she wants one. The first one is the hardest, after that the anticipation is nearly automatic.

I wanted to refrain from sex tips but I will tell you that oral sex, well done will do wonders (that is you going down on her, not vice versa). But whatever you do, PAY ATTENTION TO HER. If she signals you with moans and movement respond! Keep doing what feels good to her. Tease a bit, take her along then back off, then go at it again. When she is becoming uncontrollable, don't stop, take her to the end. If you are her first (and it sounds like you are) she will remember your for the rest of her life, regardless of how your present situation turns out.

Best of luck
yours in oral gratification

Smooth
 Habbier

Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 146
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/14/2005 1:24:02 PM
eat them slow, have on finger in her a@@ and with the other hand 2 finger as you are eating her. Works every time. But save this for the special lady in your lives
 waitrya

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 147
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/14/2005 1:32:59 PM
so much advice, theres NO WAY u can go wrong now
 Mr 5/9

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 148
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/14/2005 1:36:00 PM
Spend a lot of time on the clitorous - oral or use your hand. Don't go fast and give the girl friction burns! Be really gentle - i mean really gentle. Too many guys think the faster and harder you go the better it is - not true - especially if she has never had one with you before. Whilst doing that concentrate (with the other hand) on the inside of her entrance - use your finger to find her spot. It is usually at the top but inwards towards you - do you get me? curl your finger upwards and inwards once inside her and tease her gently - this may work - its not an exact science but i found it to work numerous times. But the main thing is be gentle and pay equal attention to both areas - the clit and the so called ''g spot''.
 JAMISON

Joined: 2/7/2005
Msg: 149
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/14/2005 1:36:38 PM
Have her sit on your face any say your alphabet
 steve93437

Joined: 2/4/2005
Msg: 150
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/14/2005 3:21:53 PM
Give her your winning lottery ticket
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