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 Author Thread: how do u give a girl an orgasm?
 Osgoode

Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 176
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/28/2005 1:06:11 PM
Womanswish1 - you're only 45 years old, man! Much too young to feel you've missed out. As for the little girls? You gotta love them. nothing better after a bad or hard day than to go see your youngsters as they lay sleeping. All cosy and peaceful and warm and safe in their trust that daddy is there. All this and not only wanting, but knowing, how to please a woman? Man, step up to the plate. P.S. - I liked the respectful and loving tone you use when referring to your wife. You were lucky to have her, and she was lucky to have you. Thank God you were together long enough to bring those sweet girls into the world. Take care, Good Luck
 marykay

Joined: 4/30/2004
Msg: 177
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 11/28/2005 4:18:17 PM
Okay neonknight...you, me...NOW!
 want to chat

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 178
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/1/2005 3:38:27 PM
first u must now not all women have them.u have to put the hole emphasis of the night on her,talk sexy and sleezy, ask questoins and make her feel like shes everything, always ask for instructions that things feel good ,she has to feel major sex appeel.,and dont ever be in a hurry, if that doesnt work watch the sunday night sex show with sue johansen. good luck and always add wine
 bds4711

Joined: 11/22/2005
Msg: 179
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/1/2005 3:50:26 PM
Have you asked her?

That would be the best approach.
 40xbr

Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 180
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 1:40:23 AM
I have never failed to give a woman an orgasm with my tongue! Once I have done that an orgasm through intercourse is not hard to accomplish!
 homeboy_66

Joined: 4/15/2004
Msg: 181
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 1:57:59 AM
Did you try fingering at the G spots (which would be the nipple in the vagina)???? That pretty much turns them on. Fingering and talking dirty until she has it...that's my experience with one lady.

And also, I guess it could be becaus of "oversex" too. And have a look at this site. Maybe this may help you out A LOT MORE:

http://www.herballove.com/library/resource/orgasm/ov.asp
 forums_only

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 182
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 2:07:30 AM
I lost my virginity at 16 years of age... but never had an orgasm until i was with the right ugy who i cared about I was 25 when i figured it out! And it took another 3 years before I could squirt....

Try watching a Seymour Butts video - they give a visual instruction on how to do it.

good luck dude

(ya gotta forgive my spelling tonight ugys - I've taken my bedtime medciation which makes me really drowsy and I'm not really focusing on my typing tongightl

gnite all...I'm done..
 GoddessThemis

Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 183
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 3:29:56 AM
Use your hands and some lubrication - I recommend KY. Find her clitoris and don't be afraid of it!!! Be gentle at first and use more pressure if it feels good to her. A circular motion is good and it feels really good with a finger inside at the same time.

Don't get frustrated to think she's not having an orgasm thru intercourse, that's doesnt happen all the time.

BTW - The "G" spot can be found by putting your finger inside about 1-2 inches in and pushing (not too hard) upward (toward the abdomen)


LOL - I'm thinking about a new thread "HOW DO YOU GIVE A MAN AN ORGASM???!!!"
 justwhistle007

Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 184
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 3:44:34 AM
Sweetie you can't give a girl an orgasim. She has to be able to give one to herself. You are just a dildo with a pulse. Sorry to be so blunt but if she knows her body at all she will cum for you.
 john74

Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 185
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 3:49:32 AM
Get her on top of you after she is fully aroused. ask her to ****. finger her ass and suck her breast simultaneouly....in no time she is out.
 Blu_guru

Joined: 7/30/2005
Msg: 186
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 4:06:42 AM

how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 7/27/2005 529 AM
with style
 marketguy

Joined: 9/14/2005
Msg: 187
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 4:13:22 AM
Well the first thing you have to realise is that all that screaming and moaning is usually just for the movies. Also, every girl is different.

But since you asked, here is what usually works for me. I'm not here to brag, but I've had some luck with this.

The first thing I do is keep up the foreplay for a while. How long? Well that all depends. I usually go until it really sounds like I have her going. Incidentally, I find kissing her neck and nibbling her ear usually does the trick. But again, this is just my experience.

Then it's off to the oral sex. What most guys to is think that once they find the clit they should never leave it. This isn't always so. Move around a little, maybe there's other parts she responds to. I also like to put two fingers in and curl them in a "come here" fashion. If done correctly, and again depending on the girl, that keeps her hot.

Finally comes the actual act. There's three positions I'm aware of that help stimulate the g-spot to get her off.

1: Missionary. Belive it or not, if you shift yourself up on her body, you can hit that sweet spot.

2: Doggy style.

3: Reverse cowgirl. That's when she's on top, but facing away from you.

Hope this helps.
 dirtoutlaws

Joined: 7/6/2004
Msg: 188
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 4:50:31 AM
Ha Ha..Funny Shyt..
 GoddessThemis

Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 189
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:12:34 AM
I've never had a finger in my butt, but then again I've never pierced my labia either. Stick with the clitoris first before you venture the hershey highway or tossing salads. I'd like to think of the ass for exit only. Everytime a man has asked to do me up the butt I always say sure but let me shove a banana up your butt first to see how it feels. This usually works to if the subject of "How the heck to I say No to Anal sex?".

And the ass comment came from a man, so I gotta ask what's been in his butt since he knows that women will have an orgasm over it!!!!
 itallianno

Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 190
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:16:59 AM
There is alot ways to her pleasure and orgasms.

1-Give your credit card to her.
2-Give her an challenge to make her feel attracted to you then play a lot before sex. This is will make her fel really hot.
3- Woman can have several kinds of orgasm:
3a - The most common it's give her oral in her clitoris slowly. If you do fast can hurt her.
3b - Another way it's give her oral in her clitoris and put your finger into her vagina and touch her G Spot.
3c - an penetration touching her G spot.

Those ways are most common ways to make her feel pleasure and orgasm multiples. My ex-girls never complaint.

Itaian guy - itallianno
 war_child666

Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 191
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 11:48:04 AM
lick her clit back and forth till she ****s ur face adn every now and again lick lower but not higher and nottoo much pressure on her period
 joe1964

Joined: 4/26/2003
Msg: 192
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 2:09:03 PM
Very interesting subject. I know I love nothing more than knowing the woman I am with is enjoying our special time together as much as I am. I truly enjoy giving oral attention to her whole body. I also try to see if anal sex or stimulation turns her on or not. Nothing better than taking your time orally with a nice clean lady. I do have to say though--it is important that the woman express her likes or dislikes through moaning or breathing or some other way so we men know if were onto something or not.
 drtoby187

Joined: 11/16/2005
Msg: 193
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/3/2005 7:35:04 PM
(see if you can out-foreplay her)

yeah and use edible sex toys Ice cubes, popsicles,ect. chase the cube with your toung do this on their breasts and stomach then down their legs. good fore play action
use other things like poprocks and halls cough drops. ( don't insert them in her put them in your mouth), I never had the need to use these but I heard it works. I myself just like the Icecubes.
(note)
she can also use the icecubes on you have her put one in her mouth. and go down on you.

don't forget about the feet, they hold mysterious powers.

Dr. Toby
 Habbier

Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 194
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/14/2005 7:43:50 AM
sarhv . .va va voom

Anyways I guess its best to always ask. What happens if she is to shy to tell you
 sexyshooter

Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 195
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/14/2005 7:46:53 AM
Usually is she sucks really hard and fast...she'll get a huge one!!!
 PJ-Colo

Joined: 10/13/2005
Msg: 196
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/14/2005 8:00:28 AM
Buy her an orgasm gift certificiate...
 abbiekemp

Joined: 8/2/2005
Msg: 197
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how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/15/2005 4:12:37 PM
why should a women not give directions. If you want it done to YOUR standards then tell him how to do it. If you don't then don't complain when men can't do it because you aren't teaching them how. K *kisses*
 Blastkist

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 198
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/15/2005 4:21:37 PM
Make her masturbate in front of you and you'll get a good idea how her body works. If this was already on the board, sorry but I wasn't going to read through allllll of those posts.
 jordang

Joined: 11/29/2005
Msg: 199
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/15/2005 4:40:20 PM
Not all women can orgasm from intercourse alone. 1/3 of women rarely have orgasms from sex :)

It's part psychological, part physiological :)
 Blastkist

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 200
how do u give a girl an orgasm?
Posted: 12/15/2005 4:55:38 PM
Yeah but we all know that men would NEVER allow that to happen right? I mean they'll work it till the deed is done...riiiggghhhttt??????
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