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I have a friend who makes money as a masseuse, it's not something I could do, but good luck to her. It's helped her pay her mortgage off and she's made a lot of lonely and sex starved men very happy.
Oh i love the selective terminology because she's a friend....... if she's making a lot of sex starved men very happy then she's providing sexual services which is a prostitute not a masseuse. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:08:55 AM | Oh i love the selective terminology because she's a friend....... if she's making a lot of sex starved men very happy then she's providing sexual services which is a prostitute not a masseuse.
Nothing selective about it at all. She calls herself a masseuse as does the majority of women who give a hand job at the end of the massage. If people want to stick a different label on her, then that's up to them. She provides a service the same as a car mechanic...only the service she provides is considered immoral by many. I've known shoddy car mechanics whose morals I'd question more than hers. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:09:29 AM | Agree with woz - if she is providing a sexual service for money then that is prostitution
I also have friends that are lap dancers and one freely admits to providing extra services - It's not something I have a problem with either - Each party in the situation knows what is happening
The guys on this programme where a bit different, one guy who took the dark haired girl out clealry said he was hoping for something more
Then she got home and immediatley put the earrings he bought her on ebay - urrggghh
msg 54 - It's maybe isn't her fault but it is definitley her choice to take advantage of it for her own gain
So... because other people do it, it's OK?
It's not cool to mislead someone like that | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:16:19 AM | one guy who took the dark haired girl out clealry said he was hoping for something more
Just because he was hoping for something more its not the womans fault ,its only like some on here , who go on dates for a fast mealticket or a free night out , they may not get as much as those women out of it , but even so the man may be hoping for more and the woman could just be wanting a free night out or a slap up meal .
It's maybe isn't her fault but it is definitley her choice to take advantage of it for her own gain
No different to women taking advantage of men for their own gain when it suits them , maybe not in that way but some do take advantage of men for their own gain in other ways .The men and the women in that case are as bad as each other , the women for take , take ,take and the men for being such gullable people . | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:26:29 AM | MSG 52
I think it's your friend who is fond of sticking labels on what is prostitution. I'd love to get the input of a real masseuse on this, I expect they get mightly fed up with blokes asking for 'extras' thanks to the likes of your friend and her job description confusion. As for the car mechanic analogy....are kwik fit offering hand jobs now? | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:28:21 AM | Just because he was hoping for something more its not the womans fault ,its only like some on here , who go on dates for a fast mealticket or a free night out , they may not get as much as those women out of it , but even so the man may be hoping for more and the woman could just be wanting a free night out or a slap up meal .
I think you are on thin ice with that remark, Almost.
Unless of course they say on their profile, "looking for free night out and slap up meal" then I think a man would have expectations at least of a relationship starting even if it doesn't because they are not compatible. What I am saying is that both should only go on dates from here with the express intention made clear. Dates means, "perhaps a relationship", Friends means "just as friends" and many good women (and men I suppose) would expect to pay their share of those exploratory meetings.
As for the car mechanic analogy....are kwik fit offering hand jobs now?
Could someone please answer that quickly! I need a new tyre and was thinking of using etyres!
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Yes, I think they do go on a date with those expectations. Both should! I don't think they should be disappointed if they are not compatible, that is the nature of the game, but you do go in the hope that one day you will find "the one". | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:34:42 AM |
I think you are on thin ice with that remark, Almost.
Unless of course they say on their profile, "looking for free night out and slap up meal" then I think a man would have expectations at least of a relationship starting even if it doesn't because they are not compatible. What I am saying is that both should only go on dates from here with the express intention made clear. Dates means, "perhaps a relationship", Friends means "just as friends" and many good women (and men I suppose) would expect to pay their share of those exploratory meetings.
To what some men in here who has chatted to me has told me , some women only want a free night out despite what they say on their profile , yes i agree the man would have expectations of a relationship starting , but surely they dont go on a first date with those expectations , and its usually the first date where it starts and ends for the women out for a free night or a meal .And i am not disputing some women would share on the first date , as i did say SOME women .
It's not cool to mislead someone like that
They didnt mislead anyone , the men knew the score | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:53:18 AM | msg 57 - I got the distinct impression that they were misleading the guys
Not all of them, the model didn'e even meet any of them
The other two were definitly playing a dangerous game - why did the guy in NY get the hump if he didn't think there was anything else going on? | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 4:11:08 AM | why did the guy in NY get the hump if he didn't think there was anything else going on?
They made it clear to the men that sex was never part of the deal , like one woman said guys want it to be more but it doesnt mean its going to happen , as it said in the programme the mens wallets stay open the womens legs stay shut , so they knew the score .
One of them doesnt even meet the men she rinses , yet the men were still willing to buy her stuff , so more fool them .
Good luck to them if men are daft enough to buy buy buy then so be it . | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 4:47:20 AM | I think it's your friend who is fond of sticking labels on what is prostitution. I'd love to get the input of a real masseuse on this, I expect they get mightly fed up with blokes asking for 'extras' thanks to the likes of your friend and her job description confusion.
If we're going to go down the labels route (hardly surprising since the title is called golddiggers) most people are aware that masseuse and massage therapist have different connotations. Anyway, she is a "real masseuse" and is qualified to the highest level in therapeutic body massage. She also has an accountant and pays her taxes too.
As for the car mechanic analogy....are kwik fit offering hand jobs now?
Oooh, I dunno.... I think they're probably too tyre-d and exhaust-ed to do that. ;-) | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 5:29:30 AM | | I keep trying to get my masseure/massage therapist/bloke that comes to rub me up and down, to give me extras. So far he has been reluctant.............despite me moaning loudly and crying out in a loud voice 'Harder baby' so that the neighbour who fancies the pants off him, think's he's hot stuff. Obviously a gayer. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 5:34:57 AM | Lets not forget that for every woman who goes on a date with a guy just for a free night out (amateur gold digger), no matter what it says on their profile, there are just as many men who expect sexual favours in return. I've never seen on the 'first date' section a guy saying, nice walk, dinner and then sex. These are the men and women that give dating sites a bad name.
It's always been my nature to pay my own way, I started when I went out drinking with the 'guys' when I joined the RAF. WRAF have the wonderful title of 'groundsheets' so I figured, if I didn't allow a guy to spend money on my drinks, he wasn't entitled to expect anything in return.
In the past, when I used to date from here, some guys were offended at me offering to pay my way when they had invited me out. I ended up making sure they were ok with it before the actual meeting. That could be an 'age group' thing more than anything though. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 5:57:02 AM | Lets not forget that for every woman who goes on a date with a guy just for a free night out (amateur gold digger), no matter what it says on their profile, there are just as many men who expect sexual favours in return. I've never seen on the 'first date' section a guy saying, nice walk, dinner and then sex. These are the men and women that give dating sites a bad name.
I think that this aspect of "dating" has been explored before on here, and I think the general consensus was that men and women's expectations are pretty similar. Some, both men and women, want just to meet, some might hope to have a sexual relationship. But, as you say, those who "expect" sex in return for a meal or those who "expect" a free meal in return for turning up are equally as bad. But many men (sorry, can't speak for the women but I am sure there are many who would welcome a night of passion after just one meeting) might very well try for a home run on a first date even if they do not "expect" or consider it a "right" in return for a meal. That, to me, is not quite the same thing.
And when I was in the RAF for 9 years I never met any Waafs who were considered groundsheets, but I was a bit naive until later in life. About last year, actually!!!
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Actually, quite right, but they were still called Waafs when I was in, because you couldn't pronounce Wrrrwwaaafs!!! LOL | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 6:11:30 AM | | ^^^ I wouldn't know anything about WAAF's, that's Womans Auxilary Air Force which I believe disbanded in 1949 . I was Womans Royal Air Force (WRAF). | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 9:09:58 AM | Didnt watch it....
But if a man wants to buy a lady gifts and she wants him to then fair play to the lot of them.
If there wasnt demand for it these girls clearly wouldnt do it, its just another service being offered at the end of the day. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 12:26:10 PM | Msg59 ....I agree. I had more respect for the model who was treating it as a proper business and effectively had a pricelist ....the girl in New York sounded like a right **** bragging about how she was gonna get that bag before having another row.
Of course the men were bloody stupid for falling for it. But I couldnt really have any respect for the women either. That said, they're not after my respect I guess, so each to their own! | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 12:59:19 PM |
I can see a market here for blokes who are willing to 'listen' in exchange for gifts !!
They might ask to go shopping though or want to have a chat just when match of the day is starting. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:06:36 PM |
So is a 'hitman'.
Doesn't make it moral or acceptable.
What ARE people teaching their kids today
And so's a drug dealer...... the point is if there wasnt demand for these type of things be it moral or acceptable then all this wouldnt around !!!! | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 3:47:17 PM | | It's likely that alot of these men that meet these people online have issues with depression, social anxiety, low self esteem and they are being exploited. The idea that these women are providing a worthy service is ridiculous to me. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2012 4:53:36 PM | msg75....with a board name like yours I suppose I should know what to expect :rollseyes:
Most of the women on the programme were nothing more than low-life skanks without morals.
What had the men done wrong please tell me ? | |
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