So conclusion is a wast of cyber space like the "meet me option. Dose it have a may,be thingy like the meet me?
I like the 'Meet Me' concept, but it's so separated from the main part of the site. I think to incorporate it into the profiles, and an option for a person to require a double-yes for someone to write them would:
(a) Give namely women piece of mind that they're going to get much fewer wack-job emails coming out of nowhere
(b) Have her inbox less full, since it'd only be by guys they have some attraction toward
(c) Thus, lessen guy who is/would be not hot per se, but a considerable prospect in her eyes, due to less paperwork on her hands
(d) Even without that requirement option set for a 'wanted gal', more guys would still want to use less of their time drumming up an email initially if she wasn't interested in the first place. Mine as well only write if there's a mutual initial interest, right?
I believe it'd be a win-win for everyone. However, there would be message traffic to some extent, notably if you give one the option to Require a double-yes. But it is a huge site, so I don't think that'd be too much a problem.
They could even make an option to write a message alongside a 'Yes', so if the guy REALLY wanted to get some words across and she had a double-yes requirement on, if she did say Yes in return, the message would appear.