| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:33:07 PM | Hello, how are you doing with your three kids hope all is doing and performing goods
you ask a question which goes like this Thread: Would a man seriously date a woman
with three kids, and i want to answer it, a man can marry and even show you the
greatest love that you never had before and even take good care of your three
kids ,show them love and respect ,and i think that kind of a man is me i can
do it if you really seriouse in talking to me and i will like to chat with you
this is my yahoo messenger id edwardman0 add me to your yahoo messenger
and that is also my email add me to your list and let us chat i always be online
every day. waiting for you to add me to your list so that we can have a nice chat.bye
Thanks
Jimmy | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:34:18 PM | Hello, how are you doing with your three kids hope all is doing and performing goods
you ask a question which goes like this Thread: Would a man seriously date a woman
with three kids, and i want to answer it, a man can marry and even show you the
greatest love that you never had before and even take good care of your three
kids ,show them love and respect ,and i think that kind of a man is me i can
do it if you really seriouse in talking to me and i will like to chat with you
this is my yahoo messenger id edwardman0 add me to your yahoo messenger
and that is also my email add me to your list and let us chat i always be online
every day. waiting for you to add me to your list so that we can have a nice chat.bye
Thanks
Jimmy | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:34:54 PM | Hello, how are you doing with your three kids hope all is doing and performing goods
you ask a question which goes like this Thread: Would a man seriously date a woman
with three kids, and i want to answer it, a man can marry and even show you the
greatest love that you never had before and even take good care of your three
kids ,show them love and respect ,and i think that kind of a man is me i can
do it if you really seriouse in talking to me and i will like to chat with you
this is my yahoo messenger id edwardman0 add me to your yahoo messenger
and that is also my email add me to your list and let us chat i always be online
every day. waiting for you to add me to your list so that we can have a nice chat.bye
Thanks
Jimmy | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:35:23 PM | Hello, how are you doing with your three kids hope all is doing and performing goods
you ask a question which goes like this Thread: Would a man seriously date a woman
with three kids, and i want to answer it, a man can marry and even show you the
greatest love that you never had before and even take good care of your three
kids ,show them love and respect ,and i think that kind of a man is me i can
do it if you really seriouse in talking to me and i will like to chat with you
this is my yahoo messenger id edwardman0 add me to your yahoo messenger
and that is also my email add me to your list and let us chat i always be online
every day. waiting for you to add me to your list so that we can have a nice chat.bye
Thanks
Jimmy | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:35:56 PM | Hello, how are you doing with your three kids hope all is doing and performing goods
you ask a question which goes like this Thread: Would a man seriously date a woman
with three kids, and i want to answer it, a man can marry and even show you the
greatest love that you never had before and even take good care of your three
kids ,show them love and respect ,and i think that kind of a man is me i can
do it if you really seriouse in talking to me and i will like to chat with you
this is my yahoo messenger id edwardman0 add me to your yahoo messenger
and that is also my email add me to your list and let us chat i always be online
every day. waiting for you to add me to your list so that we can have a nice chat.bye
Thanks
Jimmy | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:37:07 PM | Hello, how are you doing with your three kids hope all is doing and performing goods
you ask a question which goes like this Thread: Would a man seriously date a woman
with three kids, and i want to answer it, a man can marry and even show you the
greatest love that you never had before and even take good care of your three
kids ,show them love and respect ,and i think that kind of a man is me i can
do it if you really seriouse in talking to me and i will like to chat with you
this is my yahoo messenger id edwardman0 add me to your yahoo messenger
and that is also my email add me to your list and let us chat i always be online
every day. waiting for you to add me to your list so that we can have a nice chat.bye
Thanks
Jimmy | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:37:37 PM | Hello, how are you doing with your three kids hope all is doing and performing goods
you ask a question which goes like this Thread: Would a man seriously date a woman
with three kids, and i want to answer it, a man can marry and even show you the
greatest love that you never had before and even take good care of your three
kids ,show them love and respect ,and i think that kind of a man is me i can
do it if you really seriouse in talking to me and i will like to chat with you
this is my yahoo messenger id edwardman0 add me to your yahoo messenger
and that is also my email add me to your list and let us chat i always be online
every day. waiting for you to add me to your list so that we can have a nice chat.bye
Thanks
Jimmy | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:38:14 PM | Hello, how are you doing with your three kids hope all is doing and performing goods
you ask a question which goes like this Thread: Would a man seriously date a woman
with three kids, and i want to answer it, a man can marry and even show you the
greatest love that you never had before and even take good care of your three
kids ,show them love and respect ,and i think that kind of a man is me i can
do it if you really seriouse in talking to me and i will like to chat with you
this is my yahoo messenger id edwardman0 add me to your yahoo messenger
and that is also my email add me to your list and let us chat i always be online
every day. waiting for you to add me to your list so that we can have a nice chat.bye
Thanks
Jimmy | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/13/2005 6:39:02 PM | Hello, how are you doing with your three kids hope all is doing and performing goods
you ask a question which goes like this Thread: Would a man seriously date a woman
with three kids, and i want to answer it, a man can marry and even show you the
greatest love that you never had before and even take good care of your three
kids ,show them love and respect ,and i think that kind of a man is me i can
do it if you really seriouse in talking to me and i will like to chat with you
this is my yahoo messenger id edwardman0 add me to your yahoo messenger
and that is also my email add me to your list and let us chat i always be online
every day. waiting for you to add me to your list so that we can have a nice chat.bye
Thanks
Jimmy | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/14/2005 8:24:57 AM | | I have 3 kids and have had no problems dating. I have been in a relationship for about 4 months now with a guy who has never been married and has no kids. They are out there. | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/14/2005 8:40:05 AM | | I am only 26 and have 4 kids, 2 live with me and 2 live with my ex. Don't want to spend the rest of my life single so I sure hope that men will date women with more then 1 or 2 kids. If he doesnt want to get with you just because of how many kids you have then it's his loss and not yours, and most likely not worth your time anyways. | |
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| heres a mans point of view
Posted: 11/14/2005 11:04:32 AM | K i totally disagree you wanna know how many times I"ve been told" Get real you have three kids you weriously think we can have something like a Relationship!" Your fun and all to be around but for long term no thanks. And I so disagree woman will date men with kids far easier than men will woman and on a more serious level then just sex , cause its a good quality to be a nurturer woman are just expected to be nurturing so we get no brownie points for being the main supporter of children, it's considered expected we are female after all? RIGHT! I am an aweosme parent and no guy is meeting my kids, as for a father for them hello maybe we should date first! Then take it day by day. I am independent have my own place, and plan on keeping it that way... So here is the reality: It's hard as hell to find a real man out their just to get to know without him taking off his pants before the car door even opens , having 3 kids makes it even harder cause unlike woman without them we have more and higher standards in general becuase of the example we are showing our children. We all know men want **** woman want love kinda like squeezing a grape into the eye of a needle , just ends up messy. So call me bitter, I'm just going by reality  | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/14/2005 12:19:55 PM | | I'm a 28 year old single mom of 4 kids...but I don't think of them as baggage. I'm upfront in the beginning! If that scares them, no hard feelings...he's just not the one for me. There's someone out there that will love you AND YOUR KIDS! As a single mom, we just come as a packaged deal! | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/14/2005 7:14:02 PM | | I have three beautiful children. I just started dating and I get very nervous that I am not going to find a man that wants to be with a woman who has three kids. I am not looking for a father for my kids, they have that. I just want a friend and a partner. I just want to find someone who will be good to my kids. | |
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| heres a mans point of view
Posted: 11/14/2005 7:26:09 PM | | Yea....my wife of 9 years has been seeing another man, while I work and take care of our 3 kids. I personally feel like it's women who don't want to be involved with a man with kids.. | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/14/2005 7:39:14 PM | | I have 1 child, and I actually have some compassion for these men who run, I think that they don't feel fully conected to your children because they wish that they were their own and thats what makes it hard for them. There are some great men out there who will take care of your children as they were their own, but in their mind they still think some of the time that they aren't theirs. I think its even harder on the guy when the real father is in the picture. I know that if i was in my boyfriends shoes I would have ran a long time ago, because I want "my own" family in a way. Men tend to have the need to feel as if everything is theirs, and when the real father is in the picture they have the constant reminder that they are not "daddy". And i think its really hard on men dating women with older teenage children, because children can be harsh, and hearing the word " I don't have to, your not my dad?" can be hard on a guy escpecially when hes been filling the role of daddy in his eyes. But i dont think this applies to all men, some are just truly A**HOLES!! | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/15/2005 8:10:27 AM | Perhaps some single parents should work harder to attract the opposite sex, instead of accusing those people who don't want the extra responsibility (which isn't their duty to share, either) of immaturity and selfishness? Our burden in this world is already heavy enough, so can we really blame somebody because he/she doesn't want to increase his/hers? I don't think so.
I was rejected by many women when they knew I was a single father. Of course, I called them shallow, immature, etc., until I realized that, if having a child is such a deep thing, with so deep consequences in your life, how can I call somebody "shallow" because this person is not ready for/doesn't want these deep things?
What to do, then? What I did was to improve myself to the point that my attractiveness -yes, it sounds self-soaping, but it's true- was enough to compensate for the extra challenges that dating a single father entailed, AND, I get rid of my "if you don't date me, then you're immature" attitude.
Yes, I could have simply stayed as I was, sulking and blaming women because they didn't want me, trying to convince myself that it was them, not me, but at the end, those women would not even notice it, and I would have stayed alone. | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/15/2005 11:28:44 AM | K I disagree with you I Purposely never dated anyone for four years after my nine year relationship ended, So I wasn't adding unfair emotional baggage to anyone else. And being bitter that a guy just want a F U ck lol As if what guy doesn't all i am saying and be real here guys is that you see it easy to f u c k a so called Milf ..but when your ready to settle down you go for that chick that has had one hand in your pocket book the whole night! So halo all im saying is TRUE MOthers make the best lovers ,partners , and friends. And we do have a standard for wanting more than some drunk guy at the bar we hope might buy us drinks the whole night if we show enough skin. ****Now on another note i read this article and i thought this totally does not apply to me and i know i was not surveyed in this but what do you ladies and gents think about the articlle? I'll say my opnion for later :
Would you marry for money?
by Duncan Hood
Nobody these days will admit to marrying for money, but just because we don't talk about it doesn't mean it's not happening. A recent study by two economists and a psychologist at the University of Chicago and MIT shows that one of the main factors women look for in men is still — you guessed it — their income.
The study, conducted by Günter J. Hitsch, Ali Hortaçsu and Dan Ariely, attempted to find out once and for all what characteristics men and women look for when they're searching for a mate. It did so by analyzing the data from more than 23,000 users of online dating services to discover which personal ads got the best response. The researchers looked at the impact of everything from height and weight to race and occupation.
The results were clear-cut. A man's income was a huge factor in determining the response to his ad. Men making over $250,000 a year received more than twice as many overtures from women as men who made $50,000 or less.
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/15/2005 11:46:38 AM | | It doesn't matter how many kids someone has - however, if they have severe financial issues, do drugs, and don't take care of themselves, that would tend to keep me away ;) Seriously though, I don't base anything on that - I loved the Brady Bunch! | |
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| Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids
Posted: 11/15/2005 12:37:38 PM | I would date someone who had a child. Why not. She might be a good woman who's circumstances included having that child. If they dig me (meaning the woman), then I see no reason a child would hinder our relationship, if the women genuinely wants to spend time with me. You make time for both.
However, more than one child may be a bit much for me handle. The reason I'm "dating" is because I want to get to know the woman. I probably can't do that when the children are taking all our "getting to know eachother" time.
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