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| Has anyone had a good relationship with someone on POF?
Posted: 7/7/2012 12:23:44 PM | Yes! After a year of being on here I was ready to give up but I have finally met the man of my dreams! I had a lot of bad dates, met some weirdos and boy could I tell you some stories! But i met someone now who is beyond my expectations and absolutely cherishes me! I didn't think it was possible! Honestly you just have to meet the right one there ARE good people out there still! POF is only the vehicle to meet them and cannot be blamed for the quality of people or lack thereof......I believe it just takes time to find the right one but like anything in life if you want it bad enough and keep praying it will happen so have faith.
I seriously cried a lot of tears over bad dating experiences and was ready to give up.....now I have found someone who means the world to me and who I can trust with my heart. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2012 12:35:38 PM | Hello me again. I forgot to mention that the first guy I ever met on POF is now a lifelong friend of mine. Our romantic relationship did not work out due to distance but we kept in touch as friends only. He is now in a relationship and so am I. We are both happy and I am so thankful to pof for having met him. He is a great friend I am so happy to know him and never would have met him had it not been for pof!
In addition I met a girl on here, no I am not a lesbian we met on the forums, snd now we talk everyday, give each other advice and support and I am certain we will be lifelong friends too...
This was all made possible by pof. I have a lot to thank pof for... | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 9:48:04 AM | | I have met some real quality people. No one disgusting or gross. I guess I am lucky. I have met a real lady, last week. On our first date, she was kind and gentle. Real class. I am deeply impressed. Maybe our relationship will be excellent. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 10:46:12 AM | I've had nothing but good things here. Two amazing girls contacted me 2 months after I joined. One was a local near my age, but infinitely hotter. 2nd just emigrated back from London, 20+ years younger- celebrity in the emerging market/banking world. I met another younger from a few blocks away. 420 enabled, chatroulette nutball, did stuff with plastic sheep- she moved on: lived like a squirrel in an unheated basment, hated my cheap shoes, cheap ways and cheap attitude.
Only dated one, but like gas-tanks for a car. Simpler mechanics with one. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 6:41:33 PM | | What I don`t understand is people are on here to meet people. I send out messages to women and alot don`t even respond at all! I think if someone takes the time to show interest in you. That you should at least give them the common courtesy to reply with something. There are so many women on here that think thier s--t don`t stink! It kills me how these women are on here to meet someone and they snuff people! J.D. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 6:56:46 PM | I am 0 for 16. Most of the guys are very flawed in some ways. I am not perfect, but I know how to make a man feel wanted and cared for. I met someone three weeks ago. From the first night we began phone conversations that would last anywhere from 3 - 6 hrs. Crazy, I know, but we shared so many things, past experiences (marriages), kids, our expectations, etc. He had a keen sense of humor and was very intelligent. That I loved.
By the second week he told me he loved me, wanted me to meet his family and friends, etc. DANGER! But I fell for it and loved him too. We shared sooo many things in common. So so many things. His humor was superlative. We laughed and laughed. Though I still had my reservations.
We met and had a great evening together, dinner, etc. and spent the night together at his home. Very smooth and romantic and just so right. We spooned all night and it was just perfect. Didn't hear from him for 2 days. I was a little put out. I guess I'm from the old school, when a man would call you the next day to, well, see how you were and hopefully, intensify things and say how lovely it was. A couple of days later I began receiving phone calls and texts. Again, I miss you, I love you. I want to be with you so much. And again, he was so damned funny. A sense of humor I have never experienced. I won't go into the details.
We were to get together the next week. He had an upset stomach and "fever". Un Hmmm. In any event, he has been contacting me on a very regular basis, talking on the phone, sending sweet texts, etc. I know I did things to screw things up. I suspected him of being with someone else and basically said so. After his excuses I said I was going to spent the weekend with people who "wanted to be with me" and his response: "Another snide remark". It went on from there to more things that were not nice - mostly from me. So he thinks I am someone who is always looking for trouble where there is none and am "transferring" my thoughts to him.
I have never been more unhappy. I have lost 6 pounds in less than a week and feel very unhealthy. I don't think he ever wants to hear from me again. He once said that he didn't "need this" had had it before and didn't want it again, yet he called me subsequent to that and things were alright again.
I am still crying and so upset physically and emoti0nally. Perhaps I haven't put this in the right perspective, but he really seemed to love me and wanted to be with me forever.
Am I crazy? Answer: YES! But I would like to hear from anyone who cares to share an opinion.
Thanks, guys. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 6:57:37 PM | I am 0 for 16. Most of the guys are very flawed in some ways. I am not perfect, but I know how to make a man feel wanted and cared for. I met someone three weeks ago. From the first night we began phone conversations that would last anywhere from 3 - 6 hrs. Crazy, I know, but we shared so many things, past experiences (marriages), kids, our expectations, etc. He had a keen sense of humor and was very intelligent. That I loved.
By the second week he told me he loved me, wanted me to meet his family and friends, etc. DANGER! But I fell for it and loved him too. We shared sooo many things in common. So so many things. His humor was superlative. We laughed and laughed. Though I still had my reservations.
We met and had a great evening together, dinner, etc. and spent the night together at his home. Very smooth and romantic and just so right. We spooned all night and it was just perfect. Didn't hear from him for 2 days. I was a little put out. I guess I'm from the old school, when a man would call you the next day to, well, see how you were and hopefully, intensify things and say how lovely it was. A couple of days later I began receiving phone calls and texts. Again, I miss you, I love you. I want to be with you so much. And again, he was so damned funny. A sense of humor I have never experienced. I won't go into the details.
We were to get together the next week. He had an upset stomach and "fever". Un Hmmm. In any event, he has been contacting me on a very regular basis, talking on the phone, sending sweet texts, etc. I know I did things to screw things up. I suspected him of being with someone else and basically said so. After his excuses I said I was going to spent the weekend with people who "wanted to be with me" and his response: "Another snide remark". It went on from there to more things that were not nice - mostly from me. So he thinks I am someone who is always looking for trouble where there is none and am "transferring" my thoughts to him.
I have never been more unhappy. I have lost 6 pounds in less than a week and feel very unhealthy. I don't think he ever wants to hear from me again. He once said that he didn't "need this" had had it before and didn't want it again, yet he called me subsequent to that and things were alright again.
I am still crying and so upset physically and emoti0nally. Perhaps I haven't put this in the right perspective, but he really seemed to love me and wanted to be with me forever.
Am I crazy? Answer: YES! But I would like to hear from anyone who cares to share an opinion.
Thanks, guys. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 8:15:22 PM | Dayoff:
How about if a woman writes a man a nice email?
I agree with you...but the men on here are the same! Very rarely do I ever get a response from a man, so I just stopped writing. It's a two way street. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 8:30:32 PM | | I met a great guy on POF when I was 22 and we were together for 5 years. Our relationship was great at first, but my insecurities plagued the relationship and I ultimately made a terrrible decision and ended our relationship before trying to really work things out. We are still great friends, we are just not compatible to live together and I ultimately found a great friend and someone I still love to this day =) | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 9:19:52 PM | Success to me is A) they are who they say they are B) They were actually single C)They showed up to the date D)Made me smile, laugh, giggle
I havent had a LTR come of this website. LTR begins over a year for me. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 10:11:54 PM |
Most of the guys are very flawed in some ways
Ofc... That's why they're on a dating site.
This is something a lot of women have to get into their heads. The perfect guy, he laughs at these sites... because he doesn't need them to get a date since he's so great. He'd NEVER end up on here.
We're all here because we have personality flaws that left us turning to a website to meet people. It's nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to get mad about... it's just the truth. We're all social rejects, and the faster you accept that fact, the faster you can meet a great guy...
Also, just because a guy doesn't call you for 2 days, it doesn't mean there's another woman. NOBODY likes being accused of cheating. It might be a good idea to work on that insecurity. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 10:48:45 PM | | I have a guy I know who is getting married from this site. From what I've seen, it's basically like the old SNL "Lowered Expectations" - it's good for people without much going on who have already kind of given up, to meet each other. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 5:19:29 AM | Well let's see....
One was an alcoholic, one was an emotional basketcase with Borderline Personality Disorder, one was a sexual deviant with anger issues, and then there was the married lawyer lying his ass off and claming to be divorced.
I'm such a lucky girl.
I think my luck has finally changed in the last couple of months, however... | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 8:04:12 AM | Jersey Girl:
You need to streamline your dating and make it more efficient. Try looking for a married, alcoholic lawyer with emotional problems and borderline personality disorders rather than waste time with 3 different men.
Stay away from the sexual deviant guy, he's the really bad one
I've recently gotten lucky also....want to compare notes someday? | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 11:27:56 AM | I didn't read all the responses or even the opening post......just the subject line.....
Being as the majority here have fake profiles and are married or separated just looking for their
cake and to eat it too..........I'd
have to say the answer to the question IS A RESOUNDING NO.......................
The FEW of us here THAT ARE REAL don't stand a chance.................. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 12:57:15 PM | How about my place tonight at 7:30 for dinner? Oh - and bring the white merlot. ;-D
I think you polished this off the last time you were here, but I'll hit the liquor store on the way over..
I'll pull out all the stops this time and spring for the $7.99 bottle
** EDIT ** Damn, I love a cheap date | |
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