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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/19/2012 7:28:00 AM | SERIOUSLY???? ABORTION???? I am in the same boat that she is... I am 7 months preg with my first child and my childs father just walked out a week ago... I would never consider abortion just because he doesnt want to be a father... I am more than capable of raising my son on my own and I am sure that she is too considering that she already has one child.
As far as getting back into the dating game and being prego, its not going to be easy for anyone but I guess being in the same situation i can see why she wants to.... Life gets lonely and as a preg woman u cant just go out to the bars or whatevver and hang out for the night... not to mention you have to be careful who you let into your life because of the child(ren). I personally have had at least a handful of men ask me out from this site and when I told them I was preg they said they didnt mind. Therefore I say, go.. date.... have fun.... if he will go out with you while your preg with another mans child, he prob is worth your time.... Just be careful.... | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/27/2012 1:01:19 PM | | Hun, I am a single mum too. My ex left when I was 15 weeks, started to date another woman 2 weeks later, and was married to her 2 months after that. I was still carrying his child!! Anyway, if you want to date DO IT! Why shouldnt you be happy too? And if a man wont date you simply cos you are preggers, he is not a man you want to be with! | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/27/2012 2:03:42 PM | | no you are not undateable i would date someone that is pregnant there is nothing wrong with it if they like you they will like you the way you are to | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/27/2012 2:16:23 PM | Not only are single moms attractive in most cases, a pregnant woman is fun to shop for. You might take some time to not try and get deeply involved because I'd be wondering if you may still have reasonable attachments to your ex. As quickly as he ran, he may return once he decides he doesn't want to be gay anymore.
Huh? Let's just assume you future together wasn't exactly picture perfect financially stable.
I'd also be worried about dating you, falling for you and you wanting "me" time once the kid is born.
Women are fairly predictable this way. | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/28/2012 2:50:38 AM | I just cant imagine going out with a woman thats 8 months pregnant. Even shopping would be awkward - can you imagine one of your friends running into you?
Now once the baby is born here is a little bundle that craps and cries and its not your own. It would take a special breed to grow anothers seed... | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/28/2012 7:45:43 AM |
It would take a special breed to grow anothers seed...
You're absolutely right. The special breed called Darwinners. According to Darwin's Theory, Survival of the Fittest, that man who has the kid, is doing exactly what he was meant to, procreating, spreading his genes. That man that takes on the other's seed, is likely having his own chances to procreate stopped, all the while helping the seed of the other to flourish, who incidentally is free to further procreate.
I would sooner have a sex change, than raise another man's child. In my opinion, I would be the same amount of 'man' after either one. | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/29/2012 6:11:55 AM | | I think you should focus on your children, your child and unborn child. Your pregnant, you wanted a child, and now a child is on the way. Honestly, I don't think it's wrong to be with one person who cares for you and actually intends to be with you in a serious relationship, but finding someone shouldn't even be a concern right now for you. If you would take your ex back, then wait at least until the baby is born and give it a chance for your children, and yourself if you still love him and are willing to move forward in the possibility of his return. I find it odd that you were the one who was left, and so concerned with dating and meeting new people in your pregnancy. So to me that is an indication that maybe you left him but do not want to admit that cause it would give you a bad or low image. I've known pregnant women who were left, friends of mine...and they never worried about pregnant dating or seeing anyone other than the father. And also, I'm coming from experience. Being left by my pregnant ex fiancé at th second month of pregnancy. We both wanted a family together and talked about it and made plans, and reality hit and she left the situation realizing she wasnt ready. Then desperately called me from the hospital, shamelessly expecting me to just run to her side like a dog when you whistle after shewing it away, dont get me wrong i saw my boy come to this world. So yeah you have my opinion to your question. Just had to include my second analysis on your situation cause just seems kinda fishy to me. But overall, my best wishes to you and your child you are carrying, hope all goes well and I hope for the best of your baby's life. | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/29/2012 11:01:04 AM | Hun, I am a single mum too. My ex left when I was 15 weeks, started to date another woman 2 weeks later, and was married to her 2 months after that. I was still carrying his child!! Anyway, if you want to date DO IT! Why shouldnt you be happy too? And if a man wont date you simply cos you are preggers, he is not a man you want to be with!
So let's see now, an Ex who had no concept of responsiblity...
So, your child inherits 50% of the genetic code of the father... and now you want some other guy to help raise the child, who may grow up to look and act like his biological father....?
See, this is part of the problem...
This child is NOT related to the new guy... so why should he raise a child who may well inherit some of the "qualities" of his father....?
Me, I'd rather raise a kid who has more in common with me...
Visually...
Physically...
Mentally...
Genetically...
But, it seems the expectation is often to raise the progeny of the "loser", "sperm donor" or other epithet, ascribed to the person who left all that sperm in you, once or a few thousand times... and now you want us to raise his kid(s)?
We get to look at that reminder every day from then on...
Nice... | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/29/2012 11:04:55 AM |
You are not ineligible to date.
Correct...
Most men will date a pregnant woman...
I would too...
Most men will happily have sex with a pregnant woman...
I would too... (It's fun)
Most men will NOT have a long term relationship with a pregnant woman...
I wouldn't....
Most men will NOT have a long term relationship with a single mom...
I have... I wouldn't do it again... | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/29/2012 10:18:23 PM | | Seal dated Heidi Klum while pregnant. They proceeded to have more children. Hate to be a buzz kill but... | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 6/30/2012 7:45:06 AM | | I'm with MSCS84 The men will come. Wait until the baby gets here and you're more "settled" with your newborn. My youngest is 9months and I'm just now getting back out there (dating), although I think I'll wait until she's 1 before I look for anything more serious. Your not "Undateable" but I'd be leery about any guy who wanted to date a preggo lady. | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 7/6/2012 3:51:59 PM | feel sorry for you dearbut you life is in the future. forget abot the past. i know that is easy to say but you only get one chance in this lifge
love
bobby | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 7/6/2012 4:08:03 PM | | So Im not the only single pregnant lady on this sight, We dont choose to be in these circumstances and it is an horrible feeling to think were going through what should be a very special time in our lives with no companion to share it with, life doesnt end just because were pregnant , there are lots of open minded people on here who appreciate our strongness and honesty, never give up and good luck! x | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 7/6/2012 4:25:22 PM |
there are lots of open minded people on here who appreciate our strongness and honesty
There are also a lot of creepers that are just trying to satisfy a fetish.
Strongness? Personally, I think being so adamant about trying to find a partner that you can't even wait until the baby is born just wreaks of desperation and selfishness. | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 12/24/2012 9:30:33 AM | ^^^^^Well, the person you appear to be directing that to is a man and though his restrictions prevent me from reading his profile, I'm going to guess he's not here to meet a man.
I could be wrong?!!!! Send him a PM!! Santa just MIGHT deliver you a serious treat!! :)
I also have to wonder why you've pulled up a five month old thread? Babies have been born, they're probably teething now......do you still want to meet HIM? | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 12/27/2012 7:04:03 PM | | I believe that a woman has a certain glow about her while she's pregnant. I would date a woman that was pregnant if I was attracted to her as a person. | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 1/1/2013 8:08:44 AM | | I cant tell you what you should or shouldnt do , no one can , but you need to do what your heart says to do , thats the only one that can tell you what to do .. | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 1/1/2013 8:10:37 AM | | children or not , life goes on , yes its gonna be hard but not impossible | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 1/1/2013 7:02:58 PM | | You have gotten some really intelligent well thought out responses. All of which I'm sure you have a argument against theoint made. So I would offer this.so,e of the mem that are or would be willing to date you at this point justmay have afetish for pregnant womem. Perhaps let theaclage com out before you allow so,eome else in. | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 1/2/2013 8:42:03 AM | | unfortunatly you learned hard way- never go back only forward. he didnt count on being around/you getting preg-sex was good, do till he upgraded.i hope you didnt get preg to keep him/the relationship?.if accident fair enough.but sure lot freaks out there date you-sex-you cant get preg again,/peados. i know your young scared/feeling hurt/vunerable but yo need to concentrate on you and your children. dont date anyone till your ready,only if they accept /treat you and your children well.dont get them meeting diff blokes,screw them up/THEY ARE YOUR FIRST PRIORITY.stop haING KIDS!.you will meet some onewhen time is right- when i was 4 years older than you i met woman with 3 teenagers took them on-still talk to me now!. so there are some good guys out there,avoid alchol and the bad boys!!!! get self esteem/support of your family/job is my ADVICE AS OLDER GUY/if you were my daughter | |
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| single pregnant mother
Posted: 1/3/2013 7:01:19 AM | | Dateable,maybe,but once that little bundle of "joy" comes along I would'nt see any reason to stick around. I don't know how it is in the UK,but I'm fairly certain having read many comments from UK men that it's like the states and men can be put on the hook for brats that are'nt theirs.Sorry for the OP,but asking a man to jump into THAT situation is like a sucessful woman jumping into a LTR with a man with horrible credit and tens of thousands of dollars in debt. | |
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