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 TravelerseekingU
Joined: 2/15/2012
Msg: 50
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Boy this has happened to me as well. I was insulted and such because I was BLIND!( as he said) Oh the rants now that I look back. I did finally get over him. I simply said I have to value your opinion first to be insulted.( Many texts and phone calls) I knew he wasn't for me long term and at the end this guy got all crass and bleeped the 'C' word, and other crap.
My experience, my error in judgement, and lessons learned. I can tell you to stop responding, but you are going to need to have strength it sounds. Its not as if you are 'friends', it will create drama and unnecessary headaches. Good luck, call a friend instead, plan a shopping trip!! :) This too shall pass may help if you have the urge to respond.
 Belviso
Joined: 4/25/2012
Msg: 51
Ex tries to keep contact with me
Posted: 6/10/2012 3:38:52 PM
Ask him to marry you. That'll get rid of him.
 cubanguy
Joined: 8/1/2007
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Ex tries to keep contact with me
Posted: 6/10/2012 3:50:34 PM
Bingo! ^^^^^^

Intelligence has no border...
 Iona_Bob
Joined: 3/31/2012
Msg: 53
Ex tries to keep contact with me
Posted: 6/10/2012 3:50:43 PM

But then he proceeds to tell me all about his life, without me even asking him. Because I really don't care.


Umm ... apparently you DO care, because:

1) You aren't ignoring his texts
2) You have created a post to analyze the purpose/ hidden meaning of his messages.

Get yourself together, before you worry about what is going on with him
 B_Jovanny
Joined: 2/8/2012
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Posted: 6/10/2012 3:52:02 PM
My personal opinion would be that if he's texting you, he's still interested and not very happy with what he's got.

It sounds like he's trying to make you jealous by bigging himself up by dating this 'adult entertainer'. I would think he realises he made a mistake in finishing the relationship and by the sounds of it you deserve much better because you seem a lovely lady. :)
 Rob3444
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 55
Ex tries to keep contact with me
Posted: 6/10/2012 4:07:01 PM
This is a reaction that many people have. He is still trying to reach you although his situation would alter if you took him back. People sometimes do this almost instinctively and don't even realize exactly why they do it.
I think that's the deal
 Shaman777
Joined: 4/28/2012
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Posted: 6/10/2012 5:38:21 PM
LOL!!

Or start sending random songs:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRwFRMGpTWg
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
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Posted: 6/10/2012 6:14:21 PM
maybe he is trying to make you jealous, OP what are you willing to allow?
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